should i press charges?

[Guest FoXXX]

lol but sersiouly what do i do?

try a somersault

[Matt Macdowel]

try that it didn't work

but apprently im not the only one she grabbed but really i don't want to press charges if she can't help it!

[Guest FoXXX]

try that it didn't work

but apprently im not the only one she grabbed but really i don't want to press charges if she can't help it!

She can help it, lol.

I wouldn't worry about it, man :)

[Matt Macdowel]

i'll keep this open incase anything else happens  :(

[Scott7]

heh! Dude she's Obviously flerting with other guys just satisfy her own amusment. if she's done that to other guys before don't worry about it, it means nothing, just shake it off! 

If if this continues its likly she's got some sort of interest for you. get some more info, talk to her about it. you'll get your answer sooner or later. :wink:

[Matt Macdowel]

heh! Dude she's Obviously flerting with other guys just satisfy her own amusment. if she's done that to other guys before don't worry about it, it means nothing, just shake it off! 

If if this continues its likly she's got some sort of interest for you. get some more info, talk to her about it. you'll get your answer sooner or later.

kk i'll try

[Guest Starguy24]

I think you're all completely off the mark in your answers.

The REAL question, Matt, is this: was the girl that grabbed you hot?

:lol:

[Matt Macdowel]

I think you're all completely off the mark in your answers.

The REAL question, Matt, is this: was the girl that grabbed you hot?

.................................................................................. alot of people like her and she did had a bf i suspose u could yeah!

[Guest Julius Quasar]

No chick would EVER wanna grope me. 

[Mr. Foxer]

Yeah you should consider yourself a lucky guy Matt.

[Matt Macdowel]

actully im not to lucky and thats a different story besides she has hornomans so.

[Sabre]

No chick would EVER wanna grope me. 

Same. :(

[Chrono Reaper]

well a few days ago i was walking to my locker and some girl grabbed my private area and its been on my mind for a few days. Now everyone knows im a celibate and i was wondering if i should press charges or not. i don't know this person at all!

Personally if the opposite sex was giving me that much attention like that when I was in high school I wouldn't have been teased a lot ( i may have even scored) . But that's just me.

Personally I would just ignore it, if it doesn't happen again. Though its sometimes wise to talk to someone about it, use your best judgment. Ask yourself if it will happen again with this person.

Whatever you do, dont go with the classic "Sonic Says" lessons after each episodes:

Sonic: Remember kids if someone is touching you in a place that you don't want them to, tell them to 'stop' because that NOOOOOO GEEWD!"

Telling them to stop usually eggs them on to do it again. Remember you are dealing with teenagers with a hormonal imbalance as they develop into adults. In that time of puberty they let their privates do all the talking. My advice to you is to keep yourself a cool head and not go overboard with this. Keep your cool and think what would be the best way to take care of the situation without worsening the situation. Pressing charges on adolecent kids is a rarity unless they did serious harm to the victim and the only thing you can get outta it is a restraining order which is nothing more than a piece of paper.

You also have to consider if its a different type of harassment like: "Does the person like you", etc. etc. Maybe they dont have something against you and they like you but the only way they can express how they feel is through physical contact. dont ask me why I have seen that a lot in my days...remember these are teenagers who let their bodies take over their action. One way to find out is to ask. Dont have to be mean about it or be anal like threatening to tell the person. If that doesn't work then go with plan B.

be thankful you haven't had an episode where a Group of people sexually harass you. Individual harassment is usually easier because the person may not want anyone else to know about it or not involve anyone else. Though it can spread to multiple people later on in some cases.

It would also be gewd to keep this noted in a spiral notebook written in ink preferably in a non tear-able paper bind and put the time and date when the incident occurred that way you have a record.

Well I hope that helps...remember keep your kool, it happens to practically everyone. You have to be a Priest to avoid harassment...wait scratch that bad example... Well you know what I mean.

Chrono Out.

[Sabre]

Personally if the opposite sex was giving me that much attention like that when I was in high school I wouldn't have been teased a lot ( i may have even scored) . But that's just me.

Personally I would just ignore it, if it doesn't happen again. Though its sometimes wise to talk to someone about it, use your best judgment. Ask yourself if it will happen again with this person.

Whatever you do, dont go with the classic "Sonic Says" lessons after each episodes:

Sonic: Remember kids if someone is touching you in a place that you don't want them to, tell them to 'stop' because that NOOOOOO GEEWD!"

Telling them to stop usually eggs them on to do it again. Remember you are dealing with teenagers with a hormonal imbalance as they develop into adults. In that time of puberty they let their privates do all the talking. My advice to you is to keep yourself a cool head and not go overboard with this. Keep your cool and think what would be the best way to take care of the situation without worsening the situation. Pressing charges on adolecent kids is a rarity unless they did serious harm to the victim and the only thing you can get outta it is a restraining order which is nothing more than a piece of paper.

You also have to consider if its a different type of harassment like: "Does the person like you", etc. etc. Maybe they dont have something against you and they like you but the only way they can express how they feel is through physical contact. dont ask me why I have seen that a lot in my days...remember these are teenagers who let their bodies take over their action. One way to find out is to ask. Dont have to be mean about it or be anal like threatening to tell the person. If that doesn't work then go with plan B.

be thankful you haven't had an episode where a Group of people sexually harass you. Individual harassment is usually easier because the person may not want anyone else to know about it or not involve anyone else. Though it can spread to multiple people later on in some cases.

It would also be gewd to keep this noted in a spiral notebook written in ink preferably in a non tear-able paper bind and put the time and date when the incident occurred that way you have a record.

Well I hope that helps...remember keep your kool, it happens to practically everyone. You have to be a Priest to avoid harassment...wait scratch that bad example... Well you know what I mean.

Chrono Out.

Or you could just grope them back.

[Chrono Reaper]

yeah that can work too...but then it might turn into those female type incidents where they run out onto the campus grounds and say:

THIS MAN IS TRYING TO RAPE ME!

[Matt Macdowel]

actully when i was doing my paper route yersday  i went by her house and saw her looking at me i acted like nothing happen but i think she was cheecking me out NOW WHAT DO I DO!

[Guest FoXXX]

actully when i was doing my paper route yersday  i went by her house and saw her looking at me i acted like nothing happen but i think she was cheecking me out NOW WHAT DO I DO!

Start hitting on her at school :)

[Matt Macdowel]

.............. i think alot of people would be mad at me.

["User"]

.............. i think alot of people would be mad at me.

I can only see them being mad/jealous at you if you're brave enough to strike up a conversion with her and later you two become a couple and she's really hot  :wink:

[Steve]

You should say no if you feel uncomfortable about it, no one can make you do things that you don't want to do. Sooner or later those hormones will start kicking up pretty hard, and even if you say you don't have any kind of interest on girls, you will get to that point one day. However, no one has the right to do that kind of thing to you, it's your body and she needs to respect it, you need to state that you feel uncomfortable with her actions and that you are not prepared for a relationship just yet (be it because you are too young or because you are a celibate).

[Matt Macdowel]

I can only see them being mad/jealous at you if you're brave enough to strike up a conversion with her and later you two become a couple and she's really hot 

me celibate

@steve good point but heres the problem i think shes romantly in love with me and if i say i don't like her well its gonna be hell of a year.

["User"]

me celibate

Yeah I know, I was just throwing that out regardless 

[Matt Macdowel]

Yeah I know, I was just throwing that out regardless 

kk

but what if she takes it the wrong way? personal i don't love anyone and this girl is in love with me and if i break her heart i think her parants might be involed!

["User"]

kk

but what if she takes it the wrong way? personal i don't love anyone and this girl is in love with me and if i break her heart i think her parants might be involed!

How would her parents be involved?  Steve pretty much hit the nail on the head, and how you explain it to her will affect how she reacts.  If she's really interested in you I'd think that sooner or later she'd attempt to strike up a conversation with you, trying to find out more about you or even asking you out or something along those lines.  If that's the case then a polite declination would be best (might throw in a compliment or two otherwise she might get the impression that you're gay). I personally wouldn't tell her you're celibate - only that you aren't interested in a relationship at this time.

If, on the other hand she doesn't attempt to strike up a conversation and only gives you visual hints that she likes you what you could do is use body language to express that you aren't interested.  Ignoring her completely might also work but it could lead her to believe you think negatively of her.

Situations like this that you're involved in are tricky and everyone is different.

[Scott7]

How would her parents be involved?  Steve pretty much hit the nail on the head, and how you explain it to her will affect how she reacts.  If she's really interested in you I'd think that sooner or later she'd attempt to strike up a conversation with you, trying to find out more about you or even asking you out or something along those lines.  If that's the case then a polite declination would be best (might throw in a compliment or two otherwise she might get the impression that you're gay). I personally wouldn't tell her you're celibate - only that you aren't interested in a relationship at this time.

If, on the other hand she doesn't attempt to strike up a conversation and only gives you visual hints that she likes you what you could do is use body language to express that you aren't interested.  Ignoring her completely might also work but it could lead her to believe you think negatively of her.

Situations like this that you're involved in are tricky and everyone is different.

well said.

i used to get some hits every now and then, unitl i became depressed, mopy, negative, and lazy...

But you'll know when you find someone that you like.