Matt Macdowel Posted May 9, 2010 Author Share Posted May 9, 2010 How would her parents be involved? Steve pretty much hit the nail on the head, and how you explain it to her will affect how she reacts. If she's really interested in you I'd think that sooner or later she'd attempt to strike up a conversation with you, trying to find out more about you or even asking you out or something along those lines. If that's the case then a polite declination would be best (might throw in a compliment or two otherwise she might get the impression that you're gay). I personally wouldn't tell her you're celibate - only that you aren't interested in a relationship at this time. If, on the other hand she doesn't attempt to strike up a conversation and only gives you visual hints that she likes you what you could do is use body language to express that you aren't interested. Ignoring her completely might also work but it could lead her to believe you think negatively of her. Situations like this that you're involved in are tricky and everyone is different.she would get depressed and her parnats would see this and wlel yeah anyways everyone at the school knows im celibate im preety sure she knows it tobut idk why she grabbed me and now is cheecking me out. i got a bad feeling on monday :'(maybe i should do the crual thing and break her heart! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarita Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 Being celibate is NOT the same thing as being incapable of love. That's probably what she's thinking, hoping that you'll maybe feel something for her. ): Poor girl. Let her down easy, Matt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 Being celibate is NOT the same thing as being incapable of love. That's probably what she's thinking, hoping that you'll maybe feel something for her. ): Poor girl. Let her down easy, Matt.uhh matt loves no one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarita Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 I know that, I'm just saying that she might think she can get you to feel something for her if she tries hard enough. Just let her down easy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 I know that, I'm just saying that she might think she can get you to feel something for her if she tries hard enough. Just let her down easy.thats what me and my friend have been planning today. were gonna tell her tommrow after school saying i have no feeling for her whats so ever but we can be friends. I well says but how'd do i get this feeling i ain't gonna say it because of something bad tommrow! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott7 Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 now your just confusing me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 Oh god no she just wnet by my house and took a picture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FoXXX Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 10 years from now you're going to be laughing at this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott7 Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 Oh god no she just wnet by my house and took a picture.Now thats just obsession "/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 Oh god no she just wnet by my house and took a picture.Took of a picture of what exactly? You, or the area around your house?10 years from now you're going to be laughing at thisI concurNow thats just obsession "/It certainty doesn't make the situation any easier for him, that's for sure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 probaly my house but iserously don't know if i am ever gonna tell her now should i go out or stay and tell her that i dc for her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott7 Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 Not that i am accusing you of anything, but while on another forum erlier today there was a month old thread where this guy posted a serious situation in his which turned out to be fake just so he could get attention.it just sounds a little to conveniant for her to just suddenly show up to do something related to the subject.like i said i'm accusing you of anything, its just been on my mind all day while i've been exporting models. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 Not that i am accusing you of anything, but while on another forum erlier today there was a month old thread where this guy posted a serious situation in his which turned out to be fake just so he could get attention.it just sounds a little to conveniant for her to just suddenly show up to do something related to the subject.like i said i'm accusing you of anything, its just been on my mind all day while i've been exporting models.wait im confused u said your not accusing me and then u r?anyways i am not lieing i swear shes doing this im not lieing i swear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott7 Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 wait im confused u said your not accusing me and then u r?anyways i am not lieing i swear shes doing this im not lieing i swearI'm not, i just had to get that off my chest.i'm to much of a to say something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DRL Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 uhh matt loves no one.Believe me when I saidI used to say that...Or worse:I love no one' date=' other than myself.[/quote']The effects prior tothe 'kick in' I think ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FoXXX Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 Believe me when I saidI used to say that...Or worse:The effects prior tothe 'kick in' I think ...It 'kicked in' for me when SFAdv was released :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 Believe me when I saidI used to say that...Or worse:The effects prior tothe 'kick in' I think ...??????and today i didn't have the guts to tell her she kinda said something behind my back and i acted like i didn't hear it.She said she was the only one who could seduce me and that i was her soul mate some lovy duby crap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zicka Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Is she hot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 11, 2010 Author Share Posted May 11, 2010 erm i already said yeah to that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Starguy24 Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 erm i already said yeah to thatHe's just making sure, since that IS the most important part of this whole thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 11, 2010 Author Share Posted May 11, 2010 He's just making sure, since that IS the most important part of this whole thing.ok then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 13, 2010 Author Share Posted May 13, 2010 well i let her have it today and she felt all sad and very angry with me. i think shes gonna commit suisde meh im glad this is out of the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarita Posted May 13, 2010 Share Posted May 13, 2010 You should not be so nonchalant about suicide. If someone finds out you know and she does, you can get in HUGE trouble. As in felony trouble. I might be wrong, but I'm pretty sure they consider that assisted suicide.Someone's LIFE is nothing to just BRUSH OFF like it DOESN'T matter. You'd better tell someone if you think she might. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott7 Posted May 13, 2010 Share Posted May 13, 2010 You should not be so nonchalant about suicide. If someone finds out you know and she does, you can get in HUGE trouble. As in felony trouble. I might be wrong, but I'm pretty sure they consider that assisted suicide.Someone's LIFE is nothing to just BRUSH OFF like it DOESN'T matter. You'd better tell someone if you think she might.Yeah seriously, if you let her do that then you ARE going to get in trouble! i'm not sure if the law will be involved, but it will deffinetly be on your reputaion at school and on the internet!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Macdowel Posted May 13, 2010 Author Share Posted May 13, 2010 well what im i suspose to do? she said she wants to be me with me but i don't want to date. ANd besides im not gonna be on earth to much longer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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