Love Life Talk

[Dublinthefox]

That's because most guys are SCARED sh*tless to make the first move for fear of rejection.

I feel like one of those guys.

[Kursed]

That's because most guys are SCARED sh*tless to make the first move for fear of rejection. Okay, maybe I shouldn't have said "most" but you get my drift.

I think most fits the  :bill:

[Guest Julius Quasar]

I know I just got here, but I think you're awesome Julius. I think everybody is

Thank you! 

That's because most guys are SCARED sh*tless to make the first move for fear of rejection. Okay, maybe I shouldn't have said "most" but you get my drift.

Agreed.  Sadly, I have the opposite problem.    I sometimes get too "aggressive".

I feel like one of those guys.

Sorry to hear that Dublin.  Best advice I can give you is:

1. Be confident

2. Be yourself

3. Be nice (not hard for you to do) 

[Dublinthefox]

Sorry to hear that Dublin.  Best advice I can give you is:

1. Be confident

2. Be yourself

3. Be nice (not hard for you to do) 

Thanks Julius. :cool:

[Redeemer]

Please introduce us? :3 Actually, I'm probley to bitter to be all shy and meek now.

You know, if you lived closer I actually would. I'd invite you out and introduce you to my friends, and you could take it from there. And I don't believe you're too bitter at all - you're wounded. There's a difference. I have every faith in you that you would be able to sweet talk a lady given the correct situation and correct woman.

[Sabre]

You know, if you lived closer I actually would. I'd invite you out and introduce you to my friends, and you could take it from there. And I don't believe you're too bitter at all - you're wounded. There's a difference. I have every faith in you that you would be able to sweet talk a lady given the correct situation and correct woman.

Maybe, but me being bitter is not just the woman thing, I'm bitter about alot.

I'm angry at people generally for various reasons. I have also developed a large slab of confidence that would likely mean Im more ego today then meek. I'd probley turn up at the blind date, kidnap the date and keep her chained in the bathroom. :P

[Redeemer]

Maybe, but me being bitter is not just the woman thing, I'm bitter about alot.

I'm angry at people generally for various reasons. I have also developed a large slab of confidence that would likely mean Im more ego today then meek. I'd probley turn up at the blind date, kidnap the date and keep her chained in the bathroom.

Then I will introduce you to someone I dislike. :P

[Sapphire]

Then I will introduce you to someone I dislike.

That made me lol

Something I hate about some relationships is...well I just got outta probably the best relationship I've ever had, 2 months it was but all that mattered was that I was with her. But we loved each other alot. But we had a few breakups, 3 or 4. But she told me that night we broke up, after that first breakup, she said that she never felt the same way. Which that breakup was like 3 weeks after we first started dating. But the wierd thing was she told me about 2 weeks after we broke up the first time she told me that her feelings completely came back. But when we broke up for the final time she told me she didn't love me anymore but she was only with me because she loved it how I respected her. She was really not my type, with all the drugs and gangster friends and drinking and the ugh....scary music. But I thought she was beautiful and I loved her, but when she told me she didn't love me anymore, that just tore me apart....:(

[Sabre]

That made me lol

Something I hate about some relationships is...well I just got outta probably the best relationship I've ever had, 2 months it was but all that mattered was that I was with her. But we loved each other alot. But we had a few breakups, 3 or 4. But she told me that night we broke up, after that first breakup, she said that she never felt the same way. Which that breakup was like 3 weeks after we first started dating. But the wierd thing was she told me about 2 weeks after we broke up the first time she told me that her feelings completely came back. But when we broke up for the final time she told me she didn't love me anymore but she was only with me because she loved it how I respected her. She was really not my type, with all the drugs and gangster friends and drinking and the ugh....scary music. But I thought she was beautiful and I loved her, but when she told me she didn't love me anymore, that just tore me apart....

As they say, it's better to have loved and lost, then get your limbs blown off in a construction accident.

[Four-eyed Vulpine]

That's because most guys are SCARED sh*tless to make the first move for fear of rejection. Okay, maybe I shouldn't have said "most" but you get my drift.

This probably fits my description too, if I had any desire to want a girlfriend to begin with.

I'll admit, I have a problem with any kind of rejection.  Sometimes I still feel like I have the mind of a five-year old in the area of accepting criticism or having gotten mad at.  These things have hardly ever happened to me in my life thus far, but when they do, they hurt me a lot.

It's just something I have to work on.

[Sabre]

There is no such thing as rejection. Only feedback.

["User"]

There is no such thing as rejection. Only feedback.

Um...yes there is, and it's quite emotionally painful at times. In addition it's considered a major part of Psychology...

[Sabre]

It's called a figure of speach.

["User"]

It's called a figure of speach.

That was more along the lines of you being sarcastic rather then a figure of speech.  And with all due respect sometimes it's very difficult to tell with you sometimes. :P

[Guest Para Astaroth]

Well, given that I'm being covered in a mound of stress, things aregetting a little better on my end since I'm upping up my work time around the house, and by helping my semi-crippled parents.

[Kid_Cortet]

guh....liking two different guys, one i got into a fight with...over nothing...the other no interest ><

God is a cruel Puppeteer xD

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Well, given that I'm being covered in a mound of stress, things aregetting a little better on my end since I'm upping up my work time around the house, and by helping my semi-crippled parents.

Welcome to the club, man!

[Sapphire]

As they say, it's better to have loved and lost, then get your limbs blown off in a construction accident.

Or headshot on MW2 :lol:

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

I've had one gf. It only lasted a year and we've been broken up for a year.The weird part about it though was how our similar personalities clashed a lot. We found ourselves disagreeing on so many different things. Maybe it was just my hard luck, but she seemed to have that "feminist" outlook. She was almost always talking about how "horrible" men are. It just seemed to me that she was one of those people who jokes about something and its ok, and as soon as I said something a little "edgy" just for the lulz, she would flip out.

At first, everything seemed perfect. We shared practically everything in our interests and dislikes. (on a side note, both furries, but that wasnt so important) Anyways, we were always looking out for one another, and making up for out setbacks and negative traits. She always kept me out of bad situations when I was a bit of a hot-head, and I was always trying to convince her that her looks were not an issue (and in actuality, I thought she looked attractive), and that she shouldnt mind all these people who take the time to try and riddicule her. As we became closer, we started to realize how our "other friends" were really a bunch of *explicit*. I guess we came to realize that we only had each other to trust, other than our families of course (if you want to put it that way)

Anyways, long story short, we wanted to be with each other almost all the time. Our parents were conserned for us. (Do the math) Realistically, we would always talk about that stuff, and we knew it was part of our responsibility to pay mind to it. So, one day, she asks me for a hug in public. I tell her that we "shouldn't right now", being that there were people near us we didnt want to......explainations suck. I tell her we "can't" when I should have said, "not right now". Takes it the wrong way. She tells me i'm throwing it all away, I ask what she means by that. And its over.

The best (or most painfull) part of this is that we still talk to one another. However, she continues to tell me that "she never really felt a love connection" and that "she pitys me". Meanwhile, say I do not respond to (and email for instance) her, she begins to ask me why I am not responding. Does anyone get this? She claims she does not want to be with me anymore, yet clearly is clinging to me. She claims she does not want to "deal with me" and yet, she wants my attention.

What a mess.....

[Thu'um]

nothing is too simple there just do what your doing. but uh...hey...what do i know i am 14.  just talk to here when she wants and don't when she doesn't ask.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

As they say, it's better to have loved and lost, then get your limbs blown off in a construction accident.

...or than to have had a buffalo take a diarrhea dump in your ear!   

Hard to tell what chicks want...I get annoyed when girls say they "want a bad boy".  Bad boys in real life are not as glamorous as they are depicted in the media.  In real life, bad boys are not super muscular pretty boys, they are cruel, vile, selfish, abusive, wife beating, drunk and/or druggie, screw up, lazy dumbass losers

(and every other "bad boy" turns out to be a stupid phony, punk-ass coward bully, a wannabe bad-boy).

Real bad boys are pathetic losers with no future, and they're just....swine-ish, stupid cretins.  My oldest sister used to bring those losers home when she was a teenager in her "rebellious phase" (Thank God she married a great guy).  They're like Todd Giebenhain's "Ritchie" character from "Malcolm in the Middle".

[Thu'um]

love is a shattered mirror beter to leave it then hurt you self picking up the parts, eh?

[Guest Julius Quasar]

love is a shattered mirror beter to leave it then hurt you self picking up the parts, eh?

^ Brilliant!

People who have written love songs, they got it mostly right, since I been in love before, I know what they're talking about, both the good and the bad.

[Thu'um]

if only i had been smart enought to think of it myself. i just put the eh? part on there :hehe:

[Sapphire]

^ Brilliant!

People who have written love songs, they got it mostly right, since I been in love before, I know what they're talking about, both the good and the bad.

Taylor Swift! Boom! :lol: