Guest Julius Quasar Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Enough to know that giving up on a few failed relationships is foolish. I've had a girlfriend, although it was long distance (which is exactly what killed it, we would have gone great if we could see each other)I am too young to have experienced love. But that is exactly the thing. I know my place and I do not pretend to have it all figured out under such a premature mind.A little logic goes a long way. Instead of complaining that you can't love or that every relationship you'll ever have is bad, it'd do you better to pick your ass up and move on, realizing that women can be just as unique as each individual man is. As it is, the pessimistic attitude you've been having IS whining, as while it maybe your experience, you're coming off as if your personal experience is all there is, and it's conclusive enough for you to mope.Look, I'm sorry, okay?I been depressed and worried lately because I'm worried about losing my home (long story) and it's screwing up my outlook on life, and today I was driving to a job interview, and I blew out a car tire. Gonna cost me a fortune to fix. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Remember, if you have irl stress, make sure not to take it off here, on the forum, I would appreciate this so much. Specially coming from you, Julius, you are a staff member now, and thus, you must be an example to follow. I can't help but to side with milky on this one tho, if something goes bad with a girl, the only thing you are left to do is move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Julius Quasar Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Okay, look, I'm sorry, Milkyway64, and Steve. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Look, I'm sorry, okay?I been depressed and worried lately because I'm worried about losing my home (long story) and it's screwing up my outlook on life, and today I was driving to a job interview, and I blew out a car tire. Gonna cost me a fortune to fix.And I'm sorry too, having not known that. As long as these temporary outbursts do not cloud your real opinion, I suppose it's not totally wrong to think this way.Still, listen to Steve as far as unleashing it on us, especially with no subcontext. Surely you have friends to talk things over with and reduce the blow to your psyche. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Julius Quasar Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 And I'm sorry too, having not known that. As long as these temporary outbursts do not cloud your real opinion, I suppose it's not totally wrong to think this way.Still, listen to Steve as far as unleashing it on us, especially with no subcontext. Surely you have friends to talk things over with and reduce the blow to your psyche.It's cool, thanks. Yeah, my real opinion on love isn't "Love sucks", not all the time. For the most part, love is a good thing. But it can have it's darker side. I over presented the darker side when I shouldn't have.I have no friends IRL to talk this stuff over. It's really depressing, since I'm very isolated where I live, and got nobody to talk to except for here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 I have no friends IRL to talk this stuff over. It's really depressing, since I'm very isolated where I live, and got nobody to talk to except for here.I know how you feel. I live in the middle of nowhere and I only have 2 friends I see with any consistency. I meant online in any case. It's difficult to talk about this stuff face to face, where text makes it easier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Julius Quasar Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 I know how you feel. I live in the middle of nowhere and I only have 2 friends I see with any consistency. I meant online in any case. It's difficult to talk about this stuff face to face, where text makes it easier.Thanks. :friends: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Julius Quasar Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Heh, cool! Anyways, I sometimes think that people who marry and divorce, like, 8 times or so (I've actually seen this issue on the news) should be forced to either stay together with their spouse and take mandatory marriage counseling after X number of divorces, or be forced to take marriage counseling/classes prior to getting married after being divorced X number off times, instead of repeating the same mistake and clogging up the courts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kursed Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 same here guys i'm mostly a loner I don't live in the middle of no where I just have no freinds anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Julius Quasar Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 same here guys i'm mostly a loner I don't live in the middle of no where I just have no freinds anymore.That makes it harder than hell to find a date. My friends who live way out in the city say to me "Your home is nice, but it's too isolated". True.Online dating has soared in popularity, especially because people eitherA) Live in isolation (like me, Milkyway64, and Kursed)orB) Live in a place like So. Cal/L.A. or New York, where no one really knows their neighbors all too well...in the words of Francis Bacon "A crowd is not company, and faces are but a gallery of pictures". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphire Posted July 6, 2010 Author Share Posted July 6, 2010 Well, I'm just simply bitter, Unless you've been stood up repeatedly, humiliated, been rejected in a way that a girl literally told you "Why don't you do the world a favor and KILL YOURSELF!?" or "People like you are the reason we invented abortion!", been two-timed, had a date get up to go to the bathroom and not return, been set up with a fictional date as a cruel joke, been led on and then ditched, or had actually loved someone only for them to die on you, like I have, I ask that you please stop insulting me when I speak my mind about love.I know I just got here, but I think you're awesome Julius. I think everybody is :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 I've had a girlfriend, although it was long distance (which is exactly what killed it, we would have gone great if we could see each other)Your first GF was my ex! It took major guts for you to be her "special someone" after we broke up negatively. At least *I* actually got to meet her several times. :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dublinthefox Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Wish I had a gf. I just don't have the guts to ask. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Wish I had a gf. I just don't have the guts to ask. Why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dublinthefox Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Why?Too shy I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 That's sweet. Some girls love shy guys, they're adorable. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Too shy I guess.I was the same way when I was around your age.That's sweet. Some girls love shy guys, they're adorable. Indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted July 7, 2010 Share Posted July 7, 2010 That's sweet. Some girls love shy guys, they're adorable. HAha ...no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted July 7, 2010 Share Posted July 7, 2010 Yes. I likes shy guys, I know girls that like shy guys. Paul is a shy even though he's also an ignorant ass at times. :? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoneWolf Posted July 7, 2010 Share Posted July 7, 2010 Never have had a girlfriend. A lot of girls talk to me, though. I have one that gives me a "HI *My real name*!" every time she sees me. It will be all quiet, then all of a sudden, "HI *Real name*!"It's both funny and embarrasing :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott7 Posted July 7, 2010 Share Posted July 7, 2010 A) Live in isolation (like me, Milkyway64, and Kursed)same here guys i'm mostly a loner I don't live in the middle of no where I just have no freinds anymore.I'm Sadly the same way...I don't want to be though. Its just Most people in my area and my School are the kind of people that I hate most, Hot head's, wannabe gangster's, violent types, womanizer's and so forth... They try to interact and be friendly with me, and i hang around them for a it until I found the sign's of them that I can't stand... And the girl's were no different and we had nothing in common...And that's all I ran into from 9/9/09 to my last day of classes, And i obtained large feeling mistrust of everyone in that building, excluding the teachers though... I'm actually very respected by them, I usually don't even need a hall pass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphire Posted July 7, 2010 Author Share Posted July 7, 2010 Guys like it when the girl makes the first move ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted July 7, 2010 Share Posted July 7, 2010 Yes. I likes shy guys, I know girls that like shy guys. Paul is a shy even though he's also an ignorant ass at times. Please introduce us? :3 Actually, I'm probley to bitter to be all shy and meek now. Guys like it when the girl makes the first move They do. I mentioned cues earlier. The female browses, and when she has selected a suitable male, she gives a sign that says "Come here and talk." Guys like to think they make the first move, and it is possable, but when you see a guy "building up the corrage" he is, in fact, waiting for the womans go signal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 7, 2010 Share Posted July 7, 2010 Guys like it when the girl makes the first move That's because most guys are SCARED sh*tless to make the first move for fear of rejection. Okay, maybe I shouldn't have said "most" but you get my drift. :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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