Love Life Talk

[Steve]

It actually works if u just be urself too

That always goes along the lines, obviously  . Faking will always lead to disaster on the long run.

[Gtline fox hunter 300]

I think everyone should no that obviously. soooo. HIGH FIVE!!!! XD

[EazyIN]

Sorry to tell you this or if

I sound rude, but...

BOTH of you failed.

Actually I kind of failed. She got to see the movie 5 days later and I was confined to the basement XC

[Sapphire]

Well, maybe you should always start out with like a pick up line, how about, "Hey baby, ever done a Barrel Roll?"

Nah,

Something more like, "Hey pretty thang, what's your name?"

OR

Maybe something like, "How U doin'?"  :lol:

[Kid_Cortet]

Well, maybe you should always start out with like a pick up line, how about, "Hey baby, ever done a Barrel Roll?"

Nah,

Something more like, "Hey pretty thang, what's your name?"

OR

Maybe something like, "How U doin'?" 

i have found it easy to pick up a girl (contrary to the facts...but i can ) by simply walking up and giving a nice compliment like:

"I'm sorry to bother you, but I just wanted to say, you are very beautiful...."

if she replies she has a man (not trying to say to "steal" her or anything) reply with

"He is one lucky man then..."

then try to see if you can at least become friends, then maybe she can introduce you to some of her girl friends.

IF she takes the compliment and gives one back, introductions again are key (no cheesy pick up lines....no one here is Anthony Dinozo (NCIS lol))

I find pick up lines corny, and they rarely work, unless the girl is....we'll say a lady of the night...lol

[Fluxy]

(LOL at NCIS comment)

And yes, cheesy pick up lines are a "No-No".... In m most cases.  :lol:

[Gtline fox hunter 300]

XD XD XD XD XD XD XD

LOLZ Kid Cortet, I did that same thing at the Dyrdek skate plaza!!! XD

[Sapphire]

Okay, here's something that should get us talkin.

Okay, so me and my X broke up about a month ago right, so here I am feelin like poo poo, and I still do, a little, but this random person texts me exactly a week ago today and says she's a friend of Bre, my Ex, and so she starts talkin to me a little bit and random crud and so I totally ditch her, why you ask? Because I don't wanna be friends with ANYBODY who's friends with Bre, that's just how I am with my Exs, so anyways, I don't remember when but a couple of days ago at like 1 or 2 am I get a text message that says (I'm paraphrasing) something about Bre wants me back and she misses me, I automatically sense that this is some sorta trap so they can destroy my heart...so anyways I tell her that I wanna hear that for myself, so the next day (I think it was) I get a text mesage from Bre that says she's sorry for this fight we had the other day (I'm not gonna go into details about this because it's a very dramatic story) but anyways she apologizes for bein all mad about it and she says she's sorry blah blah blah, well I didn't realize that I guess she was trying to make up with me, but she had another boyfriend at the time, so I didn't know what the hell she was talkin to me for. So we ended the conversation after I said it was fine. Anyways, just a few minutes ago I got a text from her friend saying that she broke up with her Boyfriend and she just needed to be single for a while and that that was best for her. Sooo hopefully Bre will text me and we'll make up and stuff like that. Alot of things had beaten the living hell out of our (past) relationship and we've both gotten hurt, alot. So now I'm just sitting her waiting for a text to come from her and so we can make up...but if she does text back, I'm not sure what to do. I mean, I used to feel like we were both perfect for each other, everything about us was very similar, but the few things that were different were the most hurtful, they hurt me a whole lot, and there are still things between us that if we did get back together I would like to keep a secret. But sometimes I feel like when people break up, that it only makes you stronger and adds more experience to your love life and makes you better with love than you were with the last one. So what do I do SFO? Help me. I would espicially like help from my friends on this site, like Julius, but he's on vacation

Phew, by the way that was a mouthful :lol:

[Kid_Cortet]

Okay, here's something that should get us talkin.

Okay, so me and my X broke up about a month ago right, so here I am feelin like poo poo, and I still do, a little, but this random person texts me exactly a week ago today and says she's a friend of Bre, my Ex, and so she starts talkin to me a little bit and random crud and so I totally ditch her, why you ask? Because I don't wanna be friends with ANYBODY who's friends with Bre, that's just how I am with my Exs, so anyways, I don't remember when but a couple of days ago at like 1 or 2 am I get a text message that says (I'm paraphrasing) something about Bre wants me back and she misses me, I automatically sense that this is some sorta trap so they can destroy my heart...so anyways I tell her that I wanna hear that for myself, so the next day (I think it was) I get a text mesage from Bre that says she's sorry for this fight we had the other day (I'm not gonna go into details about this because it's a very dramatic story) but anyways she apologizes for bein all mad about it and she says she's sorry blah blah blah, well I didn't realize that I guess she was trying to make up with me, but she had another boyfriend at the time, so I didn't know what the hell she was talkin to me for. So we ended the conversation after I said it was fine. Anyways, just a few minutes ago I got a text from her friend saying that she broke up with her Boyfriend and she just needed to be single for a while and that that was best for her. Sooo hopefully Bre will text me and we'll make up and stuff like that. Alot of things had beaten the living hell out of our (past) relationship and we've both gotten hurt, alot. So now I'm just sitting her waiting for a text to come from her and so we can make up...but if she does text back, I'm not sure what to do. I mean, I used to feel like we were both perfect for each other, everything about us was very similar, but the few things that were different were the most hurtful, they hurt me a whole lot, and there are still things between us that if we did get back together I would like to keep a secret. But sometimes I feel like when people break up, that it only makes you stronger and adds more experience to your love life and makes you better with love than you were with the last one. So what do I do SFO? Help me. I would espicially like help from my friends on this site, like Julius, but he's on vacation

Phew, by the way that was a mouthful

take it slow, respect the whole "single" line her friend gave you.

Try being her friend at first, but remember that THAT is all it can be at first, friends.

each relationship does bring  more experience, both good and bad.

you just have to take those experiences  and learn from them and not repeat them.

but again, start off as friends, if things seem awesome as friends and y'all want to try again, then go

but if things get out of hand again, then realize that a relationship between you is not the best course, but a healthy friendship.

[Guest DRL]

Actually I kind of failed. She got to see the movie 5 days later and I was confined to the basement XC

Well, that just makes the fail

70% yours and 30% theirs,

but she still has a considerable

percentage of fail.

LOL at smaten dummier explanation. :facepalm:

[Sapphire]

take it slow, respect the whole "single" line her friend gave you.

Try being her friend at first, but remember that THAT is all it can be at first, friends.

each relationship does bring  more experience, both good and bad.

you just have to take those experiences  and learn from them and not repeat them.

but again, start off as friends, if things seem awesome as friends and y'all want to try again, then go

but if things get out of hand again, then realize that a relationship between you is not the best course, but a healthy friendship.

Well, we were already friends to begin with, but we both wanted a whole lot more than that. So I asked her out, had the best times of our life, then all we did was fight. So I ended it then and there. And I wanted her back, so we got together, then she broke up with me, she wanted me back so we went out again then I think we broke up again, then got back together, then this one happened whenever she tolf me that she didn't love me anymore, 2 months wasted :(

[Kid_Cortet]

Well, we were already friends to begin with, but we both wanted a whole lot more than that. So I asked her out, had the best times of our life, then all we did was fight. So I ended it then and there. And I wanted her back, so we got together, then she broke up with me, she wanted me back so we went out again then I think we broke up again, then got back together, then this one happened whenever she tolf me that she didn't love me anymore, 2 months wasted

all that in two months O_o

[Dublinthefox]

My shyness towards girls has actually started to stop. I met some nice girls at Anime Iowa and I didn't feel shy. Yay for me!

[Guest DRL]

My shyness towards girls has actually started to stop. I met some nice girls at Anime Iowa and I didn't feel shy. Yay for me!

Me? I have come to the conclusion

that I will never meet someone

special, because... I am asexual. :|

[Kid_Cortet]

My shyness towards girls has actually started to stop. I met some nice girls at Anime Iowa and I didn't feel shy. Yay for me!

in the words of  "keep going!!!"

[Guest Para Astaroth]

My days at home are coming to an end by August 21 since I go to school and not deal with 24/7 boredome!  WOO!!!

Anyhow, I would date a girl...  But, ya' know, I don't want to stress myself over one particular person and end up regretting to date them -- like my last one ended out this past June.  So, I'm willing to date someone else along the lines of whatever and will do what I can to be the best for them.

If not, then whatever -- I've been single before.  LOL

[Fira-Astrali]

I'm still the same as i was when this thread first started. Still dating, still online, still long distance. Next week will be three months, so that's kinda cool

Also, if you watch her to see if she has a BF, she may notice you "stalking" her. Gotta watch out for that.

Geez, it seems like girls are like fine china. Hard handle. Could break or do something wrong at any moment.

You could always start chatting her up, and if she has a bf, he'll come into the conversation in under 10 minutes (i know when im talking, I almost always mention my guy at least once even when i dont mean too ^^ If not, onward to victory, and if she does, then you've made a friend (and possibly an ally on you quest, depending on what kind of person she is)

lmao! I couldnt help but laugh at this. Some girls can be like that tho, so i can't say anything to the contrary. But guys can be just as difficult to read. I know that Asper and i danced around each other for AWHILE, even though it was obvious. The main problem is everyone is too scared to make a move, bc if they do and they're wrong it'll ruin everything

Well, we were already friends to begin with, but we both wanted a whole lot more than that. So I asked her out, had the best times of our life, then all we did was fight. So I ended it then and there. And I wanted her back, so we got together, then she broke up with me, she wanted me back so we went out again then I think we broke up again, then got back together, then this one happened whenever she tolf me that she didn't love me anymore, 2 months wasted

I cant see that being particularly healthy :S

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

Hey, remember how I was crying over my disaster of a relationship some pages ago? No? Well that's ok.

Redeemer, I took your advice about not getting overwhelmed and to keep trying. Basically, long story short, my ex is holding strong onto her "i dont want a boyfriend at this time" thing, and somehow seems stuck on me. She wants to be good friends with me (according to her), but she clearly wants my attention. I'm even more confused now than before when she was on her "I dont want another boyfriend and I want you to stay away" phase. She wasn't even consistant during that time either.

Any advice? (refer to page 19 for my original post about it, in case you forgot what was going on here)

[Fira-Astrali]

Hey, remember how I was crying over my disaster of a relationship some pages ago? No? Well that's ok.

Redeemer, I took your advice about not getting overwhelmed and to keep trying. Basically, long story short, my ex is holding strong onto her "i dont want a boyfriend at this time" thing, and somehow seems stuck on me. She wants to be good friends with me (according to her), but she clearly wants my attention. I'm even more confused now than before when she was on her "I dont want another boyfriend and I want you to stay away" phase. She wasn't even consistant during that time either.

Any advice? (refer to page 19 for my original post about it, in case you forgot what was going on here)

hun, this sounds like a "dont walk away, run" scenario. I was in a similar situation with one of my ex's. They would ignore me for a time, and i'd be upset, and then they would suddenly want to be around me again, and it was great, and then they'd ignore me again. It hurt ALOT... and then i realized that they were wasting my time, and i stopped caring. They still do it, but it doesn't hurt, because i dont care. I suggest you take the same approach.

SHE'S F*CKING WITH YOUR HEAD

And even if she's not, is it worth this much angst and worry? Do you really want her back? I gave up on my problem some months ago, and I've moved onto a guy who won't jerk me around, because that's what she's doing, and i gotta say that it hurts alot less

[Guest Julius Quasar]

I got a friend who admits to me he's lowering his standards, and settling for less.  He's dating really trashy girls and that's not good for him.  All of us are telling him he could do better, and I wonder how help him quit that sh**.

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

Fira-Astrali, the thing is that neither of us took the breakup well at all. I mean, there were things she did that I didnt like and vice versa. The main issue here was that she didn't let me know what was on her mind at certain times. As a result, how was I supposed to know what was bothering her?

She was just either extremely sweet and a pleasure to have around, or nearly a psycho (exageration)....I was playing guessing games with her to try to figure out what's going on. In her latest statements, she tells me she admits our arguements where almost like children being upset, trying to prove each other wrong, and that she believes we have both grown up since then. The "I'm not ready just yet for a boyfriend at this time" thing comes into play right after that, because she is clearly contradicting herself.

It's either she is not thinking clearly at all, or this really is a huge mess.

[Fira-Astrali]

Fira-Astrali, the thing is that neither of us took the breakup well at all. I mean, there were things she did that I didnt like and vice versa. The main issue here was that she didn't let me know what was on her mind at certain times. As a result, how was I supposed to know what was bothering her?

Well if she's not going to tell you whats wrong, its eventually going to get bottled up, and there will be more explosions. Mine did a similar thing. They would agree with me for a very long time, and then suddenly it would all change, and all the rude stuff i'd said for about the last six months would come exploding back into my face, and they wouldn't talk to me for days on end. In both situations, lack of communication does not lead to a healthy relationship. it just leads to fighting and stress and tears.

She was just either extremely sweet and a pleasure to have around, or nearly a psycho (exageration)....I was playing guessing games with her to try to figure out what's going on. In her latest statements, she tells me she admits our arguements where almost like children being upset, trying to prove each other wrong, and that she believes we have both grown up since then. The "I'm not ready just yet for a boyfriend at this time" thing comes into play right after that, because she is clearly contradicting herself.

I know about the night and day thing, and thats another great tool for mindf-bombing people. if she's realized that your arguments were childish, than maybe its a step in the right direction, but she is still being childish by playing red-light/green-light with you. She's telling you she doesnt want you, and then when you leave she demands why you left. That sounds kinda childish to me

It's either she is not thinking clearly at all, or this really is a huge mess.

Well its obvious that she's not thinking very clearly. What are you getting in return for all the trouble thats going on between you?

[Guest DRL]

I got a friend who admits to me he's lowering his standards, and settling for less.  He's dating really trashy girls and that's not good for him.  All of us are telling him he could do better, and I wonder how help him quit that sh**.

Tell him that he should come to

himself.

Just going out with a girl because

'she is a girl' or because 'she is hot'

is not worth it. Believe me, they do

that in my school like LOADS of times.

Remember: High standards = High quality.

[Fox-Shot]

Nothing, uterly nothing, I don't want a girlfriend, I don't plan on ever wanting one, same with guys, I don't want to date ANYONE.  Brother ruined it for me, but hey, don't have to have someone to still be happy.  :D

[Fluxy]

Nothing, uterly nothing, I don't want a girlfriend, I don't plan on ever wanting one, same with guys, I don't want to date ANYONE.  Brother ruined it for me, but hey, don't have to have someone to still be happy. 

Nope, and things change in time. Don't count every egg just yet, since the chickens are still laying them.