Love Life Talk

[Redeemer]

That joke ...doesn't make a whole lot of sence. That or I have a horrible grasp of human biolagy. Maybes thats why people write their names in the snow?

It wasn't supposed to make sense, I thought you'd know I had a stupid sense of humour by now.

And yeah Asper, it's odd isn't it? Just sort of happens.

[Sabre]

Strangely enough, that's what I and my GF did in one of the roleplays on the site.

In that case. Julius and me should be dating. Unfortunatly, due to my style of roleplay, I couldnt hear his romantic remarks over the chatter of machine gun fire. Not that it matters as I have a huge seperation between characters and rl. Let say (for sake of argument) me and Redeemer are all flirty during a game, swapping longful gazes as we slaughter the undead demon spawn, I would assume it was all just the game. Now let's say that later she mentions it after the fact, I wouldn't have any idea what she was talking about unless she says it was the RP.

I don't RP unfortunatly (though I'd like to), but that said my nearest RP is the next city over and full of guys. Plus I dont like fantasy settings.

To make matters worse, I've been accussed of flirting with pretty much everyone. Even a few guys. I was once hanging around with a woman at college and people constantly thought we were a couple. She already had a bf and I wasn't her type both personality and physicly, and she wasn't my type. Far to annoying, but because of my constant 'flirting' and the fact we were both bored at breaks people always assumed we were dating or having an affair.

Sorta off topic, but have I mentioned that I can't help but just like Sabre so, so much recently? I don't know why, but most of his posts in some way or another make me happyfaec.

So anyway, love. I have no personal experience to speak of nor do I really think about it too much. Love is, oddly enough, a second or even third priority to me. I'm not going to go all DRL or Fox-shot and say I'm incapable of loving someone, I most certainly am, it's just... I wanna do it LATER rather than now.

Maybe it's Shatter: The Soundtrack?

[Redeemer]

Let say (for sake of argument) me and Redeemer are all flirty during a game, swapping longful gazes as we slaughter the undead demon spawn

That is my idea of a perfect first date, demon spawn get me so hawt.

But yeah Sabre, I agree with the RP thing, if my character flirts with another character, I don't think anything of it. It's just a story to me, and I'll never, ever notice what the player behind the character thinks unless they sent me a PM saying "YO IF U HADNT NOTICED I LEIK U". I'm so damn naive I don't notice anything until it's put right in front of me, even then I'm like "Wat?".

I have seen people put a relationship together via RP, sometimes it's stupid, sometimes it's cute. It depends. :)

[Fira-Astrali]

Thanks for the hug. I hate contact in RL, but on a forum it's fine. Plus Im used to it hanging out with a bunch of furfags. Despite the womans bra I'm currently wearing, I'm a mans man and made of sturner stuff. Actually I'm just really bitter, and in a good, but weird mood right now. I won't go into why, but today plucky optamism makes me go "aww how sweet" rather then fill me with rage at their disconnection from reality. Under other circemstances I think I would have dismantled peoples hopes and Firas idealism with an overdose of RL.

Sorry, Im rambling about me. Here. Have these dying plants and unhealthy chocolates.

Well, if on-forum contact is okay... PREPARE TO HAVE THE SHIT GLOMPED OUT OF YOU!!!

oh my, a crack in Sabres icy exterior? Maybe Fira's idealism was meant to dismantle your topic-mauling skepticizm? MWAHAHA! All part of my evil plan!

You`re a good guy, Sabre, you just gotta yourself more credit

Now you probably don't wanna hear this, bc im sure i have no idea how you feel, but i do have some experience with medical diagnoses messing  with people contact :S I have a mood disorder, and it kinda felt like Manic without the true manic. Sometimes i'd be REALLY high, and sometimes I'd be lower than low, and it could switch several times in the space of a one hour class. Since I don't usually talk about my problems bc ppl just tell me "Oh, everyone has that, bla bla bla" no one knew why i would so suddenly go from really happy to otherworldly pissed over something small, or to really upset over a small thing that happened. So i got that beautiful lable of "Oh my god, she is such a spaz". Guy thought i was freaky, girls thought i was a bitch. I have mellowed out some with years, coping skills, and someone to lean on at times, but once you get the reputation, it never goes away :S

Strangely enough, that's what I and my GF did in one of the roleplays on the site.

Yea, but u didnt write that in just for my benefit... did you?

In that case. Julius and me should be dating. Unfortunatly, due to my style of roleplay, I couldnt hear his romantic remarks over the chatter of machine gun fire. Not that it matters as I have a huge seperation between characters and rl. Let say (for sake of argument) me and Redeemer are all flirty during a game, swapping longful gazes as we slaughter the undead demon spawn, I would assume it was all just the game. Now let's say that later she mentions it after the fact, I wouldn't have any idea what she was talking about unless she says it was the RP.

LOL! Well, i wouldn't really notice in-game love unless i was interested in the person, and they initiate it after whe'd been flirting for a bit. That makes me go SUSPICIOUS!

To make matters worse, I've been accussed of flirting with pretty much everyone. Even a few guys. I was once hanging around with a woman at college and people constantly thought we were a couple. She already had a bf and I wasn't her type both personality and physicly, and she wasn't my type. Far to annoying, but because of my constant 'flirting' and the fact we were both bored at breaks people always assumed we were dating or having an affair.

OMG! That same thing happens to me all the time! It's such a piss off I remember one time i was sitting in french class, talking who this smart kid about Wicca.... or zombies, it was one of the two, and he was pretty funny, so we were just laughing away like the idiots that we were. And the girl sitting next to us gasps like i had just knifed her, and starts whispering into the ear of another girl, and she starts freaking out. Now the poor guy has no idea whats going on, bc he's a little clueless, but i just sighed and looked at him and said "She thinks im flirting with you." To which he just said, "Oh" and then we sat back and watched the show of these two go nuts XD

It seems like, if you're laughing and having a good time with the opposite sex, than you must be flirting. But hey, you were hanging out with a girl, and it went well, right? She just wasnt your type. so why can't it go well with someone that IS  your type?

[Asper Sarnoff]

Yea, but u didnt write that in just for my benefit... did you?

Nope, the invitation to play as that character came because I wanted to introduce you into the roleplaying qlique here. It wasn't untill later I (We both actually, didn't you say so?) started to creep on each other, both trough the RP characters and in RL.

[Sapphire]

That is my idea of a perfect first date, demon spawn get me so hawt.

But yeah Sabre, I agree with the RP thing, if my character flirts with another character, I don't think anything of it. It's just a story to me, and I'll never, ever notice what the player behind the character thinks unless they sent me a PM saying "YO IF U HADNT NOTICED I LEIK U". I'm so damn naive I don't notice anything until it's put right in front of me, even then I'm like "Wat?".

I have seen people put a relationship together via RP, sometimes it's stupid, sometimes it's cute. It depends.

Ha! That's how I am ;)

[Vy'drach]

I'm never gonna have a girlfriend, given I'd likely want to take her to the range by far too soon to not come off as some creepy gun nut, lawl.

The curse of making a hobby from dangerous tools....

So anyway, love. I have no personal experience to speak of nor do I really think about it too much. Love is, oddly enough, a second or even third priority to me. I'm not going to go all DRL or Fox-shot and say I'm incapable of loving someone, I most certainly am, it's just... I wanna do it LATER rather than now.

Anyway, I'm about the same on that, though lately I've been seeing things that makes me think things like, "Aww, I wouldn't mind a girl that worries about my well-being."

[Sabre]

Well, if on-forum contact is okay... PREPARE TO HAVE THE SHIT GLOMPED OUT OF YOU!!!

It seems like, if you're laughing and having a good time with the opposite sex, than you must be flirting. But hey, you were hanging out with a girl, and it went well, right? She just wasnt your type. so why can't it go well with someone that IS  your type?

Great, now I've soiled all over the floor. Thanks.

Simple. Exposure. That was in college. As I rised up the IT ranks, women went from few to none. These days I'm lucky to even say hello to a RL woman once a month. Even then they are irritating and/or lesbian. (It's a fur meet) I was thinking of mixing with the cosplayer who attend, but Im on bad terms with them when I said I would play a heavy for there TF2 event (I look like him a bit, and have his build) but I backed out when they revealed they were completly disorganized. The few outdoor hobbies I have (board games, warhammer) are all sausage fests.

People here think Im mean, you should see me in person. I terrify everybody. This is something that doesnt come across in text or photos, but apparently I'm quite intimidating in the way I look and act. So when I meet a friend of a friends sister or whatever, they are terrified I'm going to rape them or rip their head off.

On a related note. I (sorry, this is all about me) have posted here before about the gay safty bollocks. I hang around with gay guys, they are ...lets say cat magnets. Anyway, as echoed by another straight guy who also hangs around, women love me when they think Im gay, but say the words "Im straight" and they leap away as if my head exploded to reveal a giant spider.

I'm never gonna have a girlfriend, given I'd likely want to take her to the range by far too soon to not come off as some creepy gun nut, lawl.

The curse of making a hobby from dangerous tools....

Anyway, I'm about the same on that, though lately I've been seeing things that makes me think things like, "Aww, I wouldn't mind a girl that worries about my well-being."

I won't want her to worry about me. I'd want to make her happy. To be a lady of leisure as the old saying goes. She could pick flowers, go for long whimsical walks along the beach or whatever she wanted and I'd take care of everything. Of course that's unrealistic and thus stupid.

[Vy'drach]

I won't want her to worry about me. I'd want to make her happy. To be a lady of leisure as the old saying goes. She could pick flowers, go for long whimsical walks along the beach or whatever she wanted and I'd take care of everything. Of course that's unrealistic and thus stupid.

Didn't mean it quite like that, just it's nice to have someone other than your family that cares for your well-being.

What I'm talking about is more like this, as this is one of the things that made me think of it.

http://www.brokenplotdevice.com/2010/07/29/steak-on-me/

Though I wouldn't be going to a bar, leaving my girl at home, to be with some douches.

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

Vydrach, that comic is so true in every possible way,  For whatever reason, most guys are blind to the care they are given from there loved ones...

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Well, I should have seen this coming. Yeah, I'm pretty sure the breakup with my ex is official. She basically went off on me one last time, then tried to mock me by saying she's going to be "hanging with some friends at her house" (meanwhile, she claims she is, and prefers to be, [as of now anyways] a loner...yeah, she's gone nuts)....and that "I'm not invited"

She follows that up with a "see ya latarz lozaz. I don't know why I ever started talking to you in the first place" and she blocked me on every site we kept in touch on. What the...???? At this point, I can't even cry over it (not really cry, just complain about it) because i'm just SO ANGRY AT THAT SELFISH LITTLE....!!!!!

Technically, it should be easier to find someone better in the future. But, that will have to wait...

Moral of this story: "Don't put up with someone who turns your relationship into a one-way street"

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Vydrach, that comic is so true in every possible way,  For whatever reason, most guys are blind to the care they are given from there loved ones...

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Well, I should have seen this coming. Yeah, I'm pretty sure the breakup with my ex is official. She basically went off on me one last time, then tried to mock me by saying she's going to be "hanging with some friends at her house" (meanwhile, she claims she is, and prefers to be, [as of now anyways] a loner...yeah, she's gone nuts)....and that "I'm not invited"

She follows that up with a "see ya latarz lozaz. I don't know why I ever started talking to you in the first place" and she blocked me on every site we kept in touch on. What the...???? At this point, I can't even cry over it (not really cry, just complain about it) because i'm just SO ANGRY AT THAT SELFISH LITTLE....!!!!!

Technically, it should be easier to find someone better in the future. But, that will have to wait...

Moral of this story: "Don't put up with someone who turns your relationship into a one-way street"

Sorry to hear that about your ex, StarFoxfan-FUR_ever.

But yeah, you're right.  "Don't put up with someone who turns your relationship into a one-way street", words of wisdom indeed. :yes:

[Thu'um]

well school starts soon so i will, be posting on this topic more often  :wink:

[Kid_Cortet]

well school starts soon so i will, be posting on this topic more often 

Tee-hee

[Redeemer]

Well, I should have seen this coming. Yeah, I'm pretty sure the breakup with my ex is official. She basically went off on me one last time, then tried to mock me by saying she's going to be "hanging with some friends at her house" (meanwhile, she claims she is, and prefers to be, [as of now anyways] a loner...yeah, she's gone nuts)....and that "I'm not invited"

She follows that up with a "see ya latarz lozaz. I don't know why I ever started talking to you in the first place" and she blocked me on every site we kept in touch on. What the...???? At this point, I can't even cry over it (not really cry, just complain about it) because i'm just SO ANGRY AT THAT SELFISH LITTLE....!!!!!

Technically, it should be easier to find someone better in the future. But, that will have to wait...

Moral of this story: "Don't put up with someone who turns your relationship into a one-way street"

Aw hon. *hugs* What a dirty little... I'll refrain myself. If there's one thing that makes my blood boil, it's girls like that. I mean... I personally can never bring myself to be nasty enough to say "I'm going out, without you and you're not invited, I regret this, that and the next thing..." I can say somethings but I almost always regret them. But this kind of girl... Argh. Let her rot, hon, you can do way better. You're too kind hearted for that sort of person.

[Thu'um]

Tee-hee

Er , thanks

[Fira-Astrali]

People here think Im mean, you should see me in person. I terrify everybody. This is something that doesnt come across in text or photos, but apparently I'm quite intimidating in the way I look and act. So when I meet a friend of a friends sister or whatever, they are terrified I'm going to rape them or rip their head off.

On a related note. I (sorry, this is all about me) have posted here before about the gay safty bollocks. I hang around with gay guys, they are ...lets say cat magnets. Anyway, as echoed by another straight guy who also hangs around, women love me when they think Im gay, but say the words "Im straight" and they leap away as if my head exploded to reveal a giant spider.

I won't want her to worry about me. I'd want to make her happy. To be a lady of leisure as the old saying goes. She could pick flowers, go for long whimsical walks along the beach or whatever she wanted and I'd take care of everything. Of course that's unrealistic and thus stupid.

Yea... that might be an issue :S

Well, gay just seem to have that non-threatening quality about them, so that might be why?

And that my friend, is adorable

Vydrach, that comic is so true in every possible way,  For whatever reason, most guys are blind to the care they are given from there loved ones...

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Well, I should have seen this coming. Yeah, I'm pretty sure the breakup with my ex is official. She basically went off on me one last time, then tried to mock me by saying she's going to be "hanging with some friends at her house" (meanwhile, she claims she is, and prefers to be, [as of now anyways] a loner...yeah, she's gone nuts)....and that "I'm not invited"

She follows that up with a "see ya latarz lozaz. I don't know why I ever started talking to you in the first place" and she blocked me on every site we kept in touch on. What the...???? At this point, I can't even cry over it (not really cry, just complain about it) because i'm just SO ANGRY AT THAT SELFISH LITTLE....!!!!!

Technically, it should be easier to find someone better in the future. But, that will have to wait...

Moral of this story: "Don't put up with someone who turns your relationship into a one-way street"

Wow, what a shit. Well, I hope you have better luck in the future, no one deserves to be treated that way

[Thu'um]

i met a cute girl ta lake on saturday

[Sabre]

Yea... that might be an issue :S

Well, gay just seem to have that non-threatening quality about them, so that might be why?

And that my friend, is adorable

Wow, what a shit. Well, I hope you have better luck in the future, no one deserves to be treated that way

I don't see how likely certain holes makes you less of a threat. It's just BS imo.

i met a cute girl ta lake on saturday

Details?

[Fira-Astrali]

I don't see how likely certain holes makes you less of a threat. It's just BS imo.

Well, its hard to explain. You know they're not going to hit on you, and shit like that, and it just seems like you can talk to them about stuff you can't talk to normal guys about :S

[Redeemer]

Well, its hard to explain. You know they're not going to hit on you, and shit like that, and it just seems like you can talk to them about stuff you can't talk to normal guys about :S

I dunno, I've met a few bitchy ones too.

[Fira-Astrali]

I dunno, I've met a few bitchy ones too.

Yea, well, that really is a stereotype, so I'm not surprised ^^; I live in a small town, so our gay community is VERY small, and I guess I just haven't met enough to know ^^;

[Redeemer]

It's quite a contrast - one of my best friends is gay and I think he's awesome, yet I used t be friends with someone else who is gay and he was one of the most false people I've ever met.

It's the same as it is with heterosexuals, you win some, you lose some.

[Fira-Astrali]

It's quite a contrast - one of my best friends is gay and I think he's awesome, yet I used t be friends with someone else who is gay and he was one of the most false people I've ever met.

It's the same as it is with heterosexuals, you win some, you lose some.

Exactly!

[Sabre]

That still doesn't explain it. After all not exvery one is trying to have sex with you. You might be good looking, but that doesn't change the matter. I get on with gay guys and there is never a feeling they are after sex. I assume your paranoid.

[Thu'um]

Details?

Er, Chinese or something Oriental