Love Life Talk

[Fluxy]

She thought I was gaga for her last year, cause I hung out with her ex, who grabbed her -breast- and she thinks I'm the same way. >_<

Well, although that does suck, it is some sort of reason. : /. Don't have much advice on this that you probably haven't tried. All I could say was that if she doesn't change, the only one that could is you and try to find someone else. *Shrug*

[Sabre]

She sounds like an idiot.

[Thu'um]

i agree

[EazyIN]

Oh well, there's other fish in the sea/lake/river/pond/tank. There is that blond that lives down the street.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Oh well, there's other fish in the sea/lake/river/pond/tank. There is that blond that lives down the street.

Good luck with that chick down the street, dude, sorry about that other chick.  I agree with Sabre, that girl sounds dumb for rejecting you just 'cause you hang out with her ex.

["User"]

that girl sounds dumb for rejecting you just 'cause you hang out with her ex.

This actually doesn't surprise me in the slightest. Girls are more "complex" then you'd think.  I can tell you right now that, despite my overall good natured personality, it's likely that I'd have a sense of animosity of sorts towards girls that hang around with my ex.  The reason?  Gossip and the like.  Even when I was in a relationship I got unnerved and cautious when my GF's had close male friends.

Yes, the "breast" incident might seem like overkill but it may seem difficult for anyone who's never been in a serious long term relationship before to understand the whole concept.  People who have will know what I'm talking about.

[Fluxy]

This actually doesn't surprise me in the slightest. Girls are more "complex" then you'd think.  I can tell you right now that, despite my overall good natured personality, it's likely that I'd have a sense of animosity of sorts towards girls that hang around with my ex.  The reason?  Gossip and the like.  Even when I was in a relationship I got unnerved and cautious when my GF's had close male friends.

Yes, the "breast" incident might seem like overkill but it may seem difficult for anyone who's never been in a serious long term relationship before to understand the whole concept.  People who have will know what I'm talking about.

Not only just people that have been in a long term relationship though. I have never been in a relationship, but still perfectly understand this. I could really care less about her reasons, or anyone's in that issue, but the thing is, every person, girl and boy, are psychologically different. Some are fine with it, some aren't, but not all will do it. Being able to guess someones move without knowing them well enough is pretty dang hard.

But, if you could get her to talk to you for just a minute to explain yourself, and try to get things clear, it might open the board up. Depending if she is willing to change/ understand or not.

[Thu'um]

But, if you could get her to talk to you for just a minute to explain yourself, and try to get things clear, it might open the board up. Depending if she is willing to change/ understand or not.

because you never know if she will become friends with some your in a relationship with

[Fluxy]

because you never know if she will become friends with some your in a relationship with

Well, not only that. Gossip can really hurt people. Even if he just makes the situation neutral, he will cut the possible gossip/lies off right from the source. That is what (I presume) would be most wanted, or high up there, on the list.

[Thu'um]

ot) school  starts in 9 days :(

[Fluxy]

ot) school  starts in 9 days

School is an "OT" topic?

I personally think that some sort of small friendship, or getting to know someone is important before asking them out. It might be just me though.

[Thu'um]

school is were my life and love life are

[Fluxy]

school is were my life and love life are

Okay, just saying, putting that part would have been nice.

[Thu'um]

have you ever been too school?  just kidding it is mostly education

[Fluxy]

have you ever been too school?  just kidding it is mostly education

Lol. Yes, I have been to school. I like to people watch and psychologically analyze them. It's great fun. But as I have said before, I do not care for any sort of relationship at this time. :)

[EazyIN]

Pfft. She ain't gonna listen. She's too stubborn to even let me get the first word out.

[Thu'um]

then get one of you female friend to talk to her

[EazyIN]

What female friends? All the chicks in my school toss me aside (Except my friends super hot sister!) but who knows. I was shy last year, and I'm coming out of my shell. :l

[Thu'um]

well then makes soem female friends you don't have to attracted to them

["User"]

The heck is with most of the last few posts?

Not only just people that have been in a long term relationship though. I have never been in a relationship, but still perfectly understand this.

You might understand this one aspect, but I was referring more to the overall picture of relationships as a whole.  I thought I knew how MANY things worked before getting into a relationship but as the time went by and it became more intimate I realized that I didn't know nearly as much as I thought I did. In the end I realized there are many things that you can't learn unless you've been in one (practical).  Forgive me if it sounds like I'm implying a superiority complex here towards you - that was never my intention.

I could really care less about her reasons, or anyone's in that issue, but the thing is, every person, girl and boy, are psychologically different. Some are fine with it, some aren't, but not all will do it. Being able to guess someones move without knowing them well enough is pretty dang hard.

True enough, but it's more complex (At least when it comes to the fundamentals) then you'd think.

But, if you could get her to talk to you for just a minute to explain yourself, and try to get things clear, it might open the board up. Depending if she is willing to change/ understand or not.

Indeed.  Like men, some girls are perfectly open, while others aren't.

have you ever been too school?  just kidding it is mostly education

This made me lulz. :P

[EazyIN]

I carried on a casual conversation with a chick last year, she doesn't look at me the same as she used to now. (I.E. death looks) And the weird thing is, we started talking just because she was wondering why I had my guitar at school (If I started talking to her again she may remember me   )

[Fluxy]

Pfft. She ain't gonna listen. She's too stubborn to even let me get the first word out.

Eh, can't say I didn't try. Now, in all honesty, you never know unless you try.

Getting one of his friends who is a girl could work, yes. But, there is always that chance it would back fire just the same.

All in all, the best way to usually clear up something is with both main people, not having a middle man. Most of the time. There are those special cases.

I carried on a casual conversation with a chick last year, she doesn't look at me the same as she used to now. (I.E. death looks) And the weird thing is, we started talking just because she was wondering why I had my guitar at school (If I started talking to her again she may remember me   )

Well, life changes. I don't know your age or part of school you are in, but finding someone in a class or two that share interests that is a girl, is a pretty easy way to become their friend.

[EazyIN]

Eh, can't say I didn't try. Now, in all honesty, you never know unless you try.

Getting one of his friends who is a girl could work, yes. But, there is always that chance it would back fire just the same.

All in all, the best way to usually clear up something is with both main people, not having a middle man. Most of the time. There are those special cases.

Well, life changes. I don't know your age or part of school you are in, but finding someone in a class or two that share interests that is a girl, is a pretty easy way to become their friend.

Thanks for the advice Nick.

I know a girl that likes me but... I don't like her EPIC FAIL.

[Fluxy]

I know a girl that likes me but... I don't like her EPIC FAIL.

Oh how I know this situation all to well. Last year I was asked out a couple times by both boys and girls.... That was pretty epic fail too. lol.

[Thu'um]

Oh how I know this situation all to well. Last year I was asked out a couple times by both boys and girls.... That was pretty epic fail too. lol.

that has yet to happen at my school