Love Life Talk

[Guest FoXXX]

Okay, my girlfriend said she wants to be a MOMMY and get married at 18

What's she waiting for? Be underage parents :P

[Fluxy]

Okay, my girlfriend said she wants to be a MOMMY and get married at 18

I am sorry, but either she was drunk, WAY too innocent, or she wants you just that badly. To me, that just sounds like a really young minded child. : /.

[Sapphire]

Okay okay everybody chill. We're both 16 and we did start dating a week ago. And yes she does want me badly :lol:

[Fluxy]

Okay okay everybody chill. We're both 16 and we did start dating a week ago. And yes she does want me badly

I am 'Chill'. I just find it ridiculous and hard to believe those were the words use.

["User"]

I am sorry, but either she was drunk, WAY too innocent, or she wants you just that badly. To me, that just sounds like a really young minded child. : /.

I've known a few girls who married at age 18 and have lived successful happy lives since. Some girls are just mentally mature enough to handle something like that early on but of course that's a tiny minority of them.

In Robcot94's case though, since both are 16 and they've only been dating for a week....I think it's safe to say that she ISN'T one of those girls in that minority - no offense of course Robcot94 :)

[Fluxy]

I've known a few girls who married at age 18 and have lived successful happy lives since. Some girls are just mentally mature enough to handle something like that early on but given of course that's a tiny minority.

In Robcot94's case though, since both are 16 and they've only been dating for a week....I HIGHLY doubt she's one of the girls in that minority - no offense of course Robcot94

I have nothing against people marrying when 18. My sister did and she is living quite happily, and so did one of her friends. I am just saying the way it was put made it sound very off. More so to the point, it's odd she would plan it to me, but hey, I don't know her mental mind set. : /. *Shrug*

[Sapphire]

I've known a few girls who married at age 18 and have lived successful happy lives since. Some girls are just mentally mature enough to handle something like that early on but of course that's a tiny minority of them.

In Robcot94's case though, since both are 16 and they've only been dating for a week....I think it's safe to say that she ISN'T one of those girls in that minority - no offense of course Robcot94

It's fine man. If you look on my FB you'll see who she is.

And I really like her ya know? We just "Click". I mean, sure she's not like girls we all want, but she fits me, like a part of my life I have been missing all this time. lol just wait till we have sex. lol (JOKING) Or am i?

["User"]

It's fine man. If you look on my FB you'll see who she is.

Temporarily deactivated my facebook for now, I'll take a look when I reactivate it again.

And I really like her ya know? We just "Click". I mean, sure she's not like girls we all want, but she fits me, like a part of my life I have been missing all this time. lol just wait till we have sex. lol (JOKING) Or am i?

I felt the exact same way after being with my ex's for a week...then a month...then six months...for sure I thought they were "the one" but time told me differently.  Also, at age 16 I had a completely different mindset about relationships and all that then I do now.  I thought I knew everything there was to know but due to inexperience as well as massive surges of hormones (which "warped" my mindset) I realized that I ended up not knowing anything about what a relationship really meant or the importance of the relationship qualities outside of anything involving physical attraction.

In the end it's your call but I implore you to take the stance of "I don't know jack sh*t about relationships" regardless if you do or not and seek advice from people who have a vast amount of experience in that category (ex. married couples, or older individuals who have had past relationships, or some of us on SFO  )

I'm not meaning this as a knock against you at all, just giving you advice that I wish I did when I was about your age.

[Sapphire]

It's fine. I didn't really even read most of your post User :lol:

[Redeemer]

It's fine. I didn't really even read most of your post User

That's a little unfair dude, he's trying to give you some advice.

I think it's really cute, and really sweet you have such a lovely girlfriend, and I think you deserve her. And when I was your age, I didn't listen to what other people said either. Now I'm 21, not much older I know but I still sort of look back and wish I'd taken things a little slower. Just don't let that change who you are, okay? You're a good Christian, and to be honest, I was a little shocked at your comment about sex. That's not like you at all, Rob, in your last relationship, you seemed more proud of your religion and more of a gentleman. I could be wrong, maybe I picked it up wrong. Actually I'm probably wrong, right?

But you do seem a little different with this one and I'm worrying about you.   I'm not saying "PUT YOUR RELIGION BEFORE YOUR RELATIONSHIP" or anything, because I'm not exactly religious, but what I'm TRYING to say is:

Don't push aside things that are important to you just so you can ensure a relationship with someone. If that someone really loves you, they'll also love/tolerate your interests.

As your friend, I think you should be careful with this one and then, once your past the 6 month mark or something, then you can let your emotions out.

Sorry for the pep-talk, I dunno what happened there. I can't help it, I have a bad habit of giving advice to my friends. :P

[Sapphire]

That's a little unfair dude, he's trying to give you some advice.

I think it's really cute, and really sweet you have such a lovely girlfriend, and I think you deserve her. And when I was your age, I didn't listen to what other people said either. Now I'm 21, not much older I know but I still sort of look back and wish I'd taken things a little slower. Just don't let that change who you are, okay? You're a good Christian, and to be honest, I was a little shocked at your comment about sex. That's not like you at all, Rob, in your last relationship, you seemed more proud of your religion and more of a gentleman. I could be wrong, maybe I picked it up wrong. Actually I'm probably wrong, right?

But you do seem a little different with this one and I'm worrying about you.   I'm not saying "PUT YOUR RELIGION BEFORE YOUR RELATIONSHIP" or anything, because I'm not exactly religious, but what I'm TRYING to say is:

Don't push aside things that are important to you just so you can ensure a relationship with someone. If that someone really loves you, they'll also love/tolerate your interests.

As your friend, I think you should be careful with this one and then, once your past the 6 month mark or something, then you can let your emotions out.

Sorry for the pep-talk, I dunno what happened there. I can't help it, I have a bad habit of giving advice to my friends.

It was a joke Redeemer

And honestly, my behavior and maturity level varies on the person I'm with. lol I'm weird that way.

[Redeemer]

Alrighty, just don't give me reason to worry about you! :D

[Sapphire]

Alrighty, just don't give me reason to worry about you!

Well, we're gonna go to a game tonight at the School. So I'm quite afraid that all those things people tell you your gonna be faced with in life might happen. A 16 year old Junior. At a dance & football game. With more teenagers. It's like a party, sorta...

["User"]

It was a joke Redeemer

Regardless of your intention not everyone will see it the same way you do. :/

[Thu'um]

errr...... any way i have a friend how is a total player... he maks jokes and comments to the girls at my school that are ... not ...mature. any how it piss me off how i can see right through him and the girls can't XD so alot of them end up dating him only cause he is funny and waste their time rather then look for some one the actualy like

[Redeemer]

errr...... any way i have a friend how is a total player... he maks jokes and comments to the girls at my school that are ... not ...mature. any how it piss me off how i can see right through him and the girls can't XD so alot of them end up dating him only cause he is funny and waste their time rather then look for some one the actualy like

You know what, I'm impressed. Not alot of guys are mature enough to notice that, well done. :)

[Thu'um]

it not hard to notice when you have a chrush on some one and he flerts with them and they go out with him and spend time in a pointless realtion ship.

[Redeemer]

Ah, okay, I see... That's a little harsh, maybe you should talk to her?

[Thu'um]

oh!, i do... and she probly won't go out with him again. but she is a little but of sucker :facepalm:

[Redeemer]

Ah fair enough. What about telling her how you feel?

[Thu'um]

well  she knows but she called me some names behind my back cause i didn't want to ask her out right then. but my friends ( who are ever loyal) told me what she said. i told her i wouldn't want to go out with some one like that. and thing ave started to patch up. but i think it may be time to move on...

[Falconman]

mah "soon to be girlfriend" finaly dumpd her boyfriend so i ask her out & she said "no"DX I askd her why & she said "well im acually tring to get grades so i dont want a boyfriend to distract me"

[Thu'um]

Well that Sucks

[Kid_Cortet]

-sighs- I'm having a bit of an issue.......there is someone i like....and i talk to him a lot....but he lives on the other side of the country for one.....secondly....he doesn't know what he wants yet out of life (which i am ok with) and third....sometimes i get a fraid the things I say might eventually drive him away ><

[Thu'um]

well that sucks tooo.  :(