Love Life Talk

[Thu'um]

well, this of topic couse she didn't realy mean it.

[Sapphire]

i agree...they dont add up...

Most things Sabre say don't add up

[Kid_Cortet]

Most things Sabre say don't add up

LMAO....see as to why i went off on him the one day?!

anyway....figured I give the whole love thing a dead end....decided im not going to choke myself up like i have for someone...and enjoy life....if things happen then they happen.....it honestly scares me though how easily some people (who i am not interested in) fall for me so quickly  :oops:

[Sapphire]

anyway....figured I give the whole love thing a dead end....decided im not going to choke myself up like i have for someone...and enjoy life....if things happen then they happen.....it honestly scares me though how easily some people (who i am not interested in) fall for me so quickly 

It's honestly true but, (I know Sabre is gonna come and try to ruin this later) each and every person on this planet has a specific person who was made just for them. "Well why haven't I found that person Uncle Rob?" Well Sonny, I'm glad you asked. It's that there's a time and place when your supposed to find that person. And if you look hard enough, you WILL find that person that loves you no matter what. And for the people who are referred by me as "slackers" probably won't find them. Well, tough luck. If you're too lazy to get off your ass and look for your soul mate, you're screwed.

Now....Bring it Sabre. :lol:

[Kid_Cortet]

It's honestly true but, (I know Sabre is gonna come and try to ruin this later) each and every person on this planet has a specific person who was made just for them. "Well why haven't I found that person Uncle Rob?" Well Sonny, I'm glad you asked. It's that there's a time and place when your supposed to find that person. And if you look hard enough, you WILL find that person that loves you no matter what. And for the people who are referred by me as "slackers" probably won't find them. Well, tough luck. If you're too lazy to get off your ass and look for your soul mate, you're screwed.

Now....Bring it Sabre.

:lolhyst: he is offline but ok

No...it isn't that I am done searching for him....more of the case I want to be the one found....I have been the one to initiate the conversations with guys....to only eventually everything going silent....or they wish to be friends....or they are so obsesed with me they want to put me in their pocket....or crawl into mine.

I just figure I take a break for a bit.....and see if my own prince charming finds me :P

[Sapphire]

:lolhyst: he is offline but ok

No...it isn't that I am done searching for him....more of the case I want to be the one found....I have been the one to initiate the conversations with guys....to only eventually everything going silent....or they wish to be friends....or they are so obsesed with me they want to put me in their pocket....or crawl into mine.

I just figure I take a break for a bit.....and see if my own prince charming finds me

You're not gonna find him until you go looking for him too. (Shut up Sabre)

Like they say, 2 is better than 1 :)

[Kid_Cortet]

You're not gonna find him until you go looking for him too. (Shut up Sabre)

Like they say, 2 is better than 1

i never said i was done...i am just taking a break...i mean...sure...if i find someone and maybe date them....that is fine....but im just tired of making the first moves...only to find that they are not interested ><

[Sapphire]

i never said i was done...i am just taking a break...i mean...sure...if i find someone and maybe date them....that is fine....but im just tired of making the first moves...only to find that they are not interested ><

And I didn't say you were done. I'm just saying. Whenever you do get off your break, you could just go and search :)

[Kid_Cortet]

And I didn't say you were done. I'm just saying. Whenever you do get off your break, you could just go and search

i plan to lol..this weekend is gonna be a fest....i have sunday morning off.....so im heading out to the places where it is ahappening  :cool:

[Sabre]

It's honestly true but, (I know Sabre is gonna come and try to ruin this later) each and every person on this planet has a specific person who was made just for them. "Well why haven't I found that person Uncle Rob?" Well Sonny, I'm glad you asked. It's that there's a time and place when your supposed to find that person. And if you look hard enough, you WILL find that person that loves you no matter what. And for the people who are referred by me as "slackers" probably won't find them. Well, tough luck. If you're too lazy to get off your ass and look for your soul mate, you're screwed.

Now....Bring it Sabre.

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[Kid_Cortet]

0:50

that makes no sense

[Xortberg]

It's honestly true but, (I know Sabre is gonna come and try to ruin this later) each and every person on this planet has a specific person who was made just for them. "Well why haven't I found that person Uncle Rob?" Well Sonny, I'm glad you asked. It's that there's a time and place when your supposed to find that person. And if you look hard enough, you WILL find that person that loves you no matter what. And for the people who are referred by me as "slackers" probably won't find them. Well, tough luck. If you're too lazy to get off your ass and look for your soul mate, you're screwed.

Now....Bring it Sabre.

I personally disagree that in the world there is only 1 person you'll be truly happy with. What if that person lives on the other side of the world in some Amazon tribe? No, I think love is what you make of it. Sure, there are certain people that're pretty much completely unfitting mates by each individual's standards. If I was to try and woo Sabre, for example, neither of us would roll with it. We're incompatible. We would butt heads and I would be right about everything and we wouldn't be able to get along. Still, you don't have to wait around for the perfect person, either. If you do, you'll never really find him/her.

Of course, I could be completely wrong. Time may or may not tell, I suppose.

0:50

I fail to get it.

[Sabre]

Related, and something I'm seeing alot, even here.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusory_superiority#Relationship_happiness

[Steve]

Related, and something I'm seeing alot, even here.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusory_superiority#Relationship_happiness

I don't see the problem of thinking that ones relationship is better than most out there, as  long as it's not used for DIRECT bragging or going "awww you poor soul you are alone". It should be kept as a partner thingy. After all ,this is relative to the eyes of the witness and even tho they  are just word, most relationships start as a corny thing between the boy and girl, it's mostly normal, and although there's not a PERFECT relationship, because sooner or  later there will be a small, tiny or insignificant quarrel about something, there are, at least, reasons to go "we  rock, we didn't kill each other after having that huge fight!"

However, there are a lot  of reasons for why I side up with sabre's statement. I have a friend that used to brag a lot about his gf on a daily basis , posting silly convos on msn to "brag" about  how cute they both are, thing is, he never got that we didn't really care, and it DOES become annoying because brining up things like that is just a call for "lol you are bragging, aren't you?" , it's mostly ironic because said person's girl ended up being an alpha "female dog".

On a related note, I have also seen  a lot of people , that are single, that simply go "most relationships are destined to fail, so bah", which is as bad as bragging.

["User"]

I personally disagree that in the world there is only 1 person you'll be truly happy with. What if that person lives on the other side of the world in some Amazon tribe? No, I think love is what you make of it. Sure, there are certain people that're pretty much completely unfitting mates by each individual's standards. If I was to try and woo Sabre, for example, neither of us would roll with it. We're incompatible. We would butt heads and I would be right about everything and we wouldn't be able to get along. Still, you don't have to wait around for the perfect person, either. If you do, you'll never really find him/her.

I have to concur with Milkyway's non-furry friend here.

[Thu'um]

I have to concur with Milkyway's non-furry friend here.

xort makes an exelent point. but i am very religous(catholic0 and in the biblee it stats that love is not all happy times. there is no such thing as a love with out and negtive moments. Pain and suffring are part of love. why else would a woman become pregnet and go through the pain of birth

[Sapphire]

I'm just going by what truth I know. There is really someone for everybody out there. You who disagree with me, tell me why? Is it because you don't believe it or...what?

[Xortberg]

I'm just going by what truth I know. There is really someone for everybody out there. You who disagree with me, tell me why? Is it because you don't believe it or...what?

I'm not saying that there's not someone out there you'd be happy with. I was just disagreeing with your implied statement that there is one person that you're destined to be with. I tend to believe instead that, as long as you have enough in common with someone, you could fall in love with whoever you choose. Perhaps I misinterpreted your point?

xort makes an exelent point. but i am very religous(catholic0 and in the biblee it stats that love is not all happy times. there is no such thing as a love with out and negtive moments. Pain and suffring are part of love.

I don't think love is always happy, either. Once again, I suppose I might have been being too vague. Of course suffering will be present in a relationship - it's present in all things. I just mean that happiness should always be the prevalent emotion in a relationship.

why else would a woman become pregnet and go through the pain of birth

Because if they didn't, the human race would have gone extinct?

[Sapphire]

I'm not saying that there's not someone out there you'd be happy with. I was just disagreeing with your implied statement that there is one person that you're destined to be with. I tend to believe instead that, as long as you have enough in common with someone, you could fall in love with whoever you choose. Perhaps I misinterpreted your point?

Well, let's say you do fall in love with someone and you get married...yatayatayata.....you love each other for the rest of your lives. That's what I mean, when you fall in love and spend the rest of your life with someone.

[Xortberg]

Yeah, I apparently just misinterpreted your post. I thought you meant that somewhere in the world was the one soulmate you're meant to be with, and no one else could fill that spot.

My bad.

[Sapphire]

Yeah, I apparently just misinterpreted your post. I thought you meant that somewhere in the world was the one soulmate you're meant to be with, and no one else could fill that spot.

Well yeah, there IS someone out there for YOU. But, it could be anybody! It could be that cute waitress, or you best friend's sister's best friend, or your science partner. It could be anybody, my point is, you don't know who it is, but they're out there, just waiting for you :)

[Sabre]

On a related note, I have also seen  a lot of people , that are single, that simply go "most relationships are destined to fail, so bah", which is as bad as bragging.

Textbook sour grapes imo. That's also the reason (imo) that alot of people claim to be A-sexual, they usually cant get a girl/boy, or have recently been dumped and thus want an easy out. That or they have not finished puberty. I have yet to meet one that doesn't fit this mold.

Well yeah, there IS someone out there for YOU. But, it could be anybody! It could be that cute waitress, or you best friend's sister's best friend, or your science partner. It could be anybody, my point is, you don't know who it is, but they're out there, just waiting for you

Hmm. I am confused. The reason I'm hard on one true love disney crap is because it goes against things like logic, free will, ignores real life things such love that isn't returned, abusive relationships or polyigamy and has alot of questions that are just hand waved such as what if one dies, and what about the thousands, if not millions people who die having not met anyone special? Not to mention how biased the selection to be used as 'proof'.

But on the other hand there are lots out there so that means it's not one true love but rather multiple, which fit's neatly into the luck + proximity theory without needing the magical stuff to prop it up.

[Sapphire]

Textbook sour grapes imo. That's also the reason (imo) that alot of people claim to be A-sexual, they usually cant get a girl/boy, or have recently been dumped and thus want an easy out. That or they have not finished puberty. I have yet to meet one that doesn't fit this mold.

Hmm. I am confused. The reason I'm hard on one true love disney crap is because it goes against things like logic, free will, ignores real life things such love that isn't returned, abusive relationships or polyigamy and has alot of questions that are just hand waved such as what if one dies, and what about the thousands, if not millions people who die having not met anyone special? Not to mention how biased the selection to be used as 'proof'.

But on the other hand there are lots out there so that means it's not one true love but rather multiple, which fit's neatly into the luck + proximity theory without needing the magical stuff to prop it up.

Disney makes the stuff they do for kids man, it's like food for their young brains and their imagination. Go figure :hehe:

[Fluxy]

Sabre, I'm fed up with you. You probably don't even know how to love, and you probably won't ever find a true love because you're just a heartless ass hole and nobody could ever love you. Disney makes the stuff they do for kids man, it's like food for their young brains and their imagination. Go figure

Whoa, this stuff shouldn't be broadcast on threads. In saber's  defense, he was putting an opinion out there, without getting personal, or calling anything out.

[Sabre]

Whoa, this stuff shouldn't be broadcast on threads. In saber's  defense, he was putting an opinion out there, without getting personal, or calling anything out.

Meh, doesn't bother me. He is also deliberatly avioding the point. I have no issue with disney cartoons, it's thinking those ideals are in any way realted to reality I have an issue with.

Not that it matters, I don't understand where he is coming from. I can't nail down his claim.