Love Life Talk

[Redeemer]

Though, I don't quite see why everyone needs to post bad things about Saber in a thread.

I'll second that, guys, you're clearly picking on Sabre and it's unfair. Robcot and Xort, your little digs at Sabre a few pages ago were mean, I'm surprised at you. Sabre may be difficult to debate with, but don't sit there and talk crap about someone as though they can't see it. Jesus. Manners.

Anyway I think Sabre and Milkshake would make a lovely couple.

As far as love life goes, I think one can feel the love in SFO. ;)

["User"]

xort makes an exelent point. but i am very religous(catholic0 and in the biblee it stats that love is not all happy times. there is no such thing as a love with out and negtive moments. Pain and suffring are part of love. why else would a woman become pregnet and go through the pain of birth

I know exactly what the Bible says concerning love and what you say isn't mentioned in it at all directly concerning love. Better yet, read 1 Cortinthians 13:4-7 to get a true definition (imo).  >_>

As for the rest of the last couple of pages I'd like to add a few points.

1.  Sabre and Milky should hook up (for the time being)

2.  While Xort is not a sock puppet, he's giving me the impression that he's had one goal in mind when he signed up.  That being said, Xort and Sabre are acting like a married couple. 

3.  Sabre, while I disagree with him on almost everything he says has a special place on this board that I'm grown to appreciate him for...at least somewhat. :)

[Thu'um]

I know exactly what the Bible says concerning love and what you say isn't mentioned in it at all directly concerning love. Better yet, read 1 Cortinthians 13:4-7 to get a true definition (imo).  >_>

1.  Sabre and Milky should hook up (for the time being)

2.  While Xort is not a sock puppet, he's giving me the impression that he's had one goal in mind when he signed up.  That being said, Xort and Sabre are acting like a married couple. 

3.  Sabre, while I disagree with him on almost everything he says has a special place on this board that I'm grown to appreciate him for...at least somewhat.

firstly God then made birth hurt when eve and adam left the garden so that they would learn that love was not free of suffering

I thiink we all agree with that

mabye

I disagree with sabre as unoften as i can manage. agruing might make his stay unijoyable

["User"]

firstly God then made birth hurt when eve and adam left the garden so that they would learn that love was not free of suffering

Lol, since when did birth pains have anything to with love?  What you're referring to MIGHT be indirect consequences of other things that can come with love (the concept of "tough love" comes to mine) but love in and out of itself is NOT negative. 

[Thu'um]

Lol, since when did birth pains have anything to with love?  What you're referring to MIGHT be indirect consequences of other things that can come with love (the concept of "tough love" comes to mine) but love in and out of itself is NOT negative.

  no its not a negtive thing but it isn't 100% happyness all the time(that what i am trying to say. Anyhow, i love my new avatar

[Steve]

Don't mess with religion here because it's going to get more complicated, not everyone have the same views about religion to begin with, and not everyone has the same views about love, soo it's going to get into an exponential mess of disagreements if we keep going.

[Thu'um]

Don't mess with religion here because it's going to get more complicated, not everyone have the same views about religion to begin with, and not everyone has the same views about love, soo it's going to get into an exponential mess of disagreements if we keep going.

Like...the last couple of pages in this topic?

["User"]

Don't mess with religion here because it's going to get more complicated, not everyone have the same views about religion to begin with, and not everyone has the same views about love, soo it's going to get into an exponential mess of disagreements if we keep going.

Yeah, I was going to bring something like this up in my next post if this kept going.

Like...the last couple of pages in this topic?

That didn't consist of religion though.

[Steve]

Like...the last couple of pages in this topic?

No, even worse, because when religion is involved (and it's not on the pub) it's a zero tolerance reason to lock topics, and I don't want to lock this topic. And like I said, religion is way different with everyone, for example, I'm atheist, and that would self explain my views of the past posts .

[Xortberg]

I'll second that, guys, you're clearly picking on Sabre and it's unfair. Robcot and Xort, your little digs at Sabre a few pages ago were mean, I'm surprised at you. Sabre may be difficult to debate with, but don't sit there and talk crap about someone as though they can't see it. Jesus. Manners.

Anyway I think Sabre and Milkshake would make a lovely couple.

As far as love life goes, I think one can feel the love in SFO.

I know he can see it. My little digs at him were usually good-natured, actually - if I was actually trying to be mean and such, I would definitely have dispensed with the little snide remarks and focused just attacking him head on as much as possible. I've already explained myself in this regard a time or two, so I'll leave it at that.

I know exactly what the Bible says concerning love and what you say isn't mentioned in it at all directly concerning love. Better yet, read 1 Cortinthians 13:4-7 to get a true definition (imo).  >_>

As for the rest of the last couple of pages I'd like to add a few points.

1.  Sabre and Milky should hook up (for the time being)

2.  While Xort is not a sock puppet, he's giving me the impression that he's had one goal in mind when he signed up.  That being said, Xort and Sabre are acting like a married couple. 

3.  Sabre, while I disagree with him on almost everything he says has a special place on this board that I'm grown to appreciate him for...at least somewhat.

1. Definitely.

2. Not one goal. I had several, although the one you're thinking of was most likely one of them.

3. I agree with you wholeheartedly. I always get excited when I see Sabre get on.

[Sapphire]

Don't mess with religion here because it's going to get more complicated, not everyone have the same views about religion to begin with, and not everyone has the same views about love, soo it's going to get into an exponential mess of disagreements if we keep going.

I second this.

As much as I like to talk about religion and such, this topic os no place for it.

And guys, what's been said has been said. I just wanna apologize to Sabre, I offer you a man-hug of friendship. I was in a bad mood that day, and I've been under ALOT of stress. The past couple of days to be exact . But I really am sorry, and I'm just gonna put this past crud behind me. Sorry man. And Redeemer, I apologize to you too. I'm not sure why but it does make me feel better. And Milkyway and Sabre probably don't even know eachother because we're on the internet and to me that's an automatic WTF. ()

I've just been under alot of stress as I have said. But that's for another post. This, is an apologetic post. Sorry again Sabre. :friends:

[Milkyway64]

And Milkyway and Sabre probably don't even know eachother because we're on the internet and to me that's an automatic WTF. ()

'Ey, we could be an awesome couple! Don't hate cuz u jealous.

[Sapphire]

'Ey, we could be an awesome couple! Don't hate cuz u jealous.

Jealous of that? Dude, I'm not gonna even go into that.

[Fira-Astrali]

I second this.

And Milkyway and Sabre probably don't even know eachother because we're on the internet and to me that's an automatic WTF. ()

Made me laugh... so hard XD

[Kid_Cortet]

(lol redeemer...here is the ONE time I will fall under the stereo typcial gay guy).....

OMG OMG.....i actaully kissed the guy I was hanging out with tonight....

here is how the night went...

went to a bar (omg...how sad lol)

was texting a guy that someone had introduced me to.

after awhile started talking in person more and more.

Then apparently I was too drunk and tried to kiss him in front of a crowd.

Laterz....

we started texting again and I of course apologized for my actions, his replies were, "It is ok.....i just don't do that in front of my brother...."

so I came home....and found my way drunkingly to this site and started posting stuff (must note.....this post is in the same night i posted while I was drunk lol)

well....he asked if I could meet him about 1:30 am......which was fine but I was still wabbly.

By the time the other bar closed that he was at, my little buzz or whatever was starting to fade away.

He pulled up and we started to talk.....JUST talk....until finally these words came out of my mouth...

"Look...I must admit...I have been wanting to kiss you all night...and I am still drunk enough to do so...."

he simply smiled

SOOOOOOOooooo........I went for it.....and he accepted..........(score =^-^=)

OMG i could have sworn I heard music playing....soft sweet music.....

But we continued to talk for awhile.....(got into his car cause it was getting cold up here in the northern states....)

until we realized it was 3 am here....and we BOTH needed to get home for duties tomarrow........

anyway....

I did ask him if after awhile of getting to know each other.....if i was to ask him out if it would be ok......sadly he responded "no"...but hey....my night was made the moment I held him close and kissed his lips......

-insert massive girly squee here........NOW-

lmao....and I do not care if certain people on SF-O do not approve

-glares at the few-

you can bite me and choke on the rotten pieces (:<

[Eagle Kammback]

Flashback

Sophomore year, I was supposed to have a date with a cute girl who loved cars, I mean the same cars I love, muscle cars and vintage sports cars.

I got too nervous and cancelled

I ran into her last night, the guy she ended up dating got her pregnant and she dropped out of high school her senior year

I feel horrible that I chickened out, I know none of that would have happened if I didn't cancel on her, we had a lot in common and she probably wouldn't have gone with that other guy

[Redeemer]

(lol redeemer...here is the ONE time I will fall under the stereo typcial gay guy).....

OMG OMG.....i actaully kissed the guy I was hanging out with tonight....

here is how the night went...

went to a bar (omg...how sad lol)

was texting a guy that someone had introduced me to.

after awhile started talking in person more and more.

Then apparently I was too drunk and tried to kiss him in front of a crowd.

Laterz....

we started texting again and I of course apologized for my actions, his replies were, "It is ok.....i just don't do that in front of my brother...."

so I came home....and found my way drunkingly to this site and started posting stuff (must note.....this post is in the same night i posted while I was drunk lol)

well....he asked if I could meet him about 1:30 am......which was fine but I was still wabbly.

By the time the other bar closed that he was at, my little buzz or whatever was starting to fade away.

He pulled up and we started to talk.....JUST talk....until finally these words came out of my mouth...

"Look...I must admit...I have been wanting to kiss you all night...and I am still drunk enough to do so...."

he simply smiled

SOOOOOOOooooo........I went for it.....and he accepted..........(score =^-^=)

OMG i could have sworn I heard music playing....soft sweet music.....

But we continued to talk for awhile.....(got into his car cause it was getting cold up here in the northern states....)

until we realized it was 3 am here....and we BOTH needed to get home for duties tomarrow........

anyway....

I did ask him if after awhile of getting to know each other.....if i was to ask him out if it would be ok......sadly he responded "no"...but hey....my night was made the moment I held him close and kissed his lips......

-insert massive girly squee here........NOW-

lmao....and I do not care if certain people on SF-O do not approve

-glares at the few-

you can bite me and choke on the rotten pieces (:<

Lol, good for you Cortet, but please be careful! I think you should go for it, go get you some! But it doesn't hurt to be careful.

Apology accepted, Robcot. Glad you're feeling better.

Eagle, hon, don't hold yourself responsible for that girl. There's no way you can pin ALL the blame of accidental pregnancy on a guy. Condoms. The implant. The pill. The injection. All of those are effective contraception. If anything, I think the female side of a relationship is slightly more responsible for avoiding pregnancy than the male side. Heck, some girls deliberately get pregnant by "accident" in hopes of binding the father to them forever. But it obviously doesn't work sometimes, guys will leave if they want to leave.

I'm not saying she's like that, but there are several scenarios that could have happened. You could have been a father by now. You could have simply dated her then broken up and she would have hooked up with that guy anyway.

So it wasn't your fault, okay? There are 3 sides to every story. Her side, his side, and what really happened. Remember that.

[Sapphire]

OMG. My GF just told me like several days ago she wanted to have kids with me. I'm not too sure how to take that...:oops:

[The Shaper]

OMG. My GF just told me like several days ago she wanted to have kids with me. I'm not too sure how to take that...

It depends on if you think your ready.

[Steve]

OMG. My GF just told me like several days ago she wanted to have kids with me. I'm not too sure how to take that...

You are 16 years old, you are not ready yet xD, wait 6 more years first.

[The Shaper]

You are 16 years old, you are not ready yet xD, wait 6 more years first.

In that case (I didn't know how old he is) then I agree with Steve you should wait longer, of course she probably meant in the future instead of right now.

[Fira-Astrali]

OMG. My GF just told me like several days ago she wanted to have kids with me. I'm not too sure how to take that...

If she mean eventually, thats interesting and kinda strange

If she means right now... thats a million different kinds of no 0.0

[Thu'um]

OMG. My GF just told me like several days ago she wanted to have kids with me. I'm not too sure how to take that...

EWWW! 

["User"]

OMG. My GF just told me like several days ago she wanted to have kids with me. I'm not too sure how to take that...

Well, looks like you have new goals to attain to set yourself up for a long lasting happy marriage. 

In actuality though...she probably made comments like that because she's crazy over you. :P

[Sabre]

Look at ths mess. I'm away for 2 days and everyone is all happy and nice. This won't do.

This, is an apologetic post. Sorry again Sabre.

I assume the second appolagy was for making read the first? I kid I kid. I don't like the stress excuse, it's like womans problems, in that it's a vague 'get out of jail free' card, but sod it let's get along. If you can't tell, that's my hunourous way of saying "ok, let's never mention it again".

lmao....and I do not care if certain people on SF-O do not approve

-glares at the few-

you can bite me and choke on the rotten pieces (:<

Are you talking about the gay thing or the drunk thing? I ask because I'm against making advance when or to a drunk.

OMG. My GF just told me like several days ago she wanted to have kids with me. I'm not too sure how to take that...

That's good isn't it? She wants your babies ...literally. That is the ultimate goal of sex after all. While I wouldn't want them now, that's definatly something for the future, but I couldn't look after them. One of my concerns is that my family will end this generation as my bro doesn't want kids and I won't get the chance.

If anything, I think the female side of a relationship is slightly more responsible for avoiding pregnancy than the male side.

I agree and disagree. On the disagree side, the invention of the male pill is a good thing. On the other hand femanists have been supressing it for years. It should be out now which brings me to the second reason I agree. Sex education for guys is crap. Yes, we were told how to apply protection, but were not told how and where to get it. I would guess a chemist, but I'm only guessing that because of the madness song "House of Fun".

(For americans/young people. Madness is a band in the 80s. They did a song called House of Fun which uses alot of euphemisms to sing about a young man buying his first condom.)