Love Life Talk

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Thanks.  Well, here's how the date went.

She showed up an hour late, ordered the most expensive thing on the menu, picked at it, and then while I had it wrapped up to go, as I was paying the bill, she got up, and drove off without me, forgetting to drive me home....in downtown L.A.  In "a perfect neighborhood to get mugged".  I called my friend, who set me up on the date to begin with, since he also has a loft in L.A., and he picked me up, and gave me a ride to the train station, and I was able to get home all right.  He apologized profusely, saying he didn't know she would pull that crap.  I forgave him, I wasn't mad at him.  What was I to expect from an ex-con?  Heh.  Turns out she served some time for destruction of private property, she trashed the place she was renting after her landlord evicted her for non-payment of rent.

And get this, she called my friend's place at 2 AM, asking for me, she needed bail money because she went to a club, got drunk, realized she left me behind, left the club with a BAC of 0.15%, tried to drive back to the restaurant, forgot where it was, and she sideswiped a police cruiser and kept on driving.  The cops caught up with her and threw her in the slammer, and she has the nerve to say it was all my fault.  My friend lay into her, defending me and cussing her out, telling her she had a lot of nerve demanding I bail her out, and accusing me of being at fault.  He told her I deserved better.  Good for him. 

I won't be dating that low-life woman again.

[Sabre]

Unfortunatly the good ones might already be taken. The ability for couple to blame each other is interesting.

[Milkyway64]

Holy shit. That story was like hard tailored to go wrong in every single way.

Almost unbelievably so, but hey, it's LA. You never know.

[JCMasterman]

Thanks.  Well, here's how the date went.

She showed up an hour late, ordered the most expensive thing on the menu, picked at it, and then while I had it wrapped up to go, as I was paying the bill, she got up, and drove off without me, forgetting to drive me home....in downtown L.A.  In "a perfect neighborhood to get mugged".  I called my friend, who set me up on the date to begin with, since he also has a loft in L.A., and he picked me up, and gave me a ride to the train station, and I was able to get home all right.  He apologized profusely, saying he didn't know she would pull that crap.  I forgave him, I wasn't mad at him.  What was I to expect from an ex-con?  Heh.  Turns out she served some time for destruction of private property, she trashed the place she was renting after her landlord evicted her for non-payment of rent.

And get this, she called my friend's place at 2 AM, asking for me, she needed bail money because she went to a club, got drunk, realized she left me behind, left the club with a BAC of 0.15%, tried to drive back to the restaurant, forgot where it was, and she sideswiped a police cruiser and kept on driving.  The cops caught up with her and threw her in the slammer, and she has the nerve to say it was all my fault.  My friend lay into her, defending me and cussing her out, telling her she had a lot of nerve demanding I bail her out, and accusing me of being at fault.  He told her I deserved better.  Good for him. 

I won't be dating that low-life woman again.

Don't worry dude, what doesn't hurt you only makes you stronger.  It also sounds like you have a good friend to back you up.

[Dragzilla66]

Wow what a bit*ch.. >.>

[Xortberg]

Thanks.  Well, here's how the date went.

She showed up an hour late, ordered the most expensive thing on the menu, picked at it, and then while I had it wrapped up to go, as I was paying the bill, she got up, and drove off without me, forgetting to drive me home....in downtown L.A.  In "a perfect neighborhood to get mugged".  I called my friend, who set me up on the date to begin with, since he also has a loft in L.A., and he picked me up, and gave me a ride to the train station, and I was able to get home all right.  He apologized profusely, saying he didn't know she would pull that crap.  I forgave him, I wasn't mad at him.  What was I to expect from an ex-con?  Heh.  Turns out she served some time for destruction of private property, she trashed the place she was renting after her landlord evicted her for non-payment of rent.

And get this, she called my friend's place at 2 AM, asking for me, she needed bail money because she went to a club, got drunk, realized she left me behind, left the club with a BAC of 0.15%, tried to drive back to the restaurant, forgot where it was, and she sideswiped a police cruiser and kept on driving.  The cops caught up with her and threw her in the slammer, and she has the nerve to say it was all my fault.  My friend lay into her, defending me and cussing her out, telling her she had a lot of nerve demanding I bail her out, and accusing me of being at fault.  He told her I deserved better.  Good for him. 

I won't be dating that low-life woman again.

At least you know the next woman you date will have to try really hard to be worse than that

But yeah, shit sucks. Better luck next time.

[Guest SCoatiH]

Thanks.  Well, here's how the date went.

She showed up an hour late, ordered the most expensive thing on the menu, picked at it, and then while I had it wrapped up to go, as I was paying the bill, she got up, and drove off without me, forgetting to drive me home....in downtown L.A.  In "a perfect neighborhood to get mugged".  I called my friend, who set me up on the date to begin with, since he also has a loft in L.A., and he picked me up, and gave me a ride to the train station, and I was able to get home all right.  He apologized profusely, saying he didn't know she would pull that crap.  I forgave him, I wasn't mad at him.  What was I to expect from an ex-con?  Heh.  Turns out she served some time for destruction of private property, she trashed the place she was renting after her landlord evicted her for non-payment of rent.

And get this, she called my friend's place at 2 AM, asking for me, she needed bail money because she went to a club, got drunk, realized she left me behind, left the club with a BAC of 0.15%, tried to drive back to the restaurant, forgot where it was, and she sideswiped a police cruiser and kept on driving.  The cops caught up with her and threw her in the slammer, and she has the nerve to say it was all my fault.  My friend lay into her, defending me and cussing her out, telling her she had a lot of nerve demanding I bail her out, and accusing me of being at fault.  He told her I deserved better.  Good for him. 

I won't be dating that low-life woman again.

Now, that date must have absoluted sucked.

Sorry about that, hope someday you meet a decent woman.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Holy shit. That story was like hard tailored to go wrong in every single way.

Almost unbelievably so, but hey, it's LA. You never know.

Tell me about it. xD

Don't worry dude, what doesn't hurt you only makes you stronger.  It also sounds like you have a good friend to back you up.

Thanks.  I ain't hurt, just annoyed at it all.  Yeah he's a good guy, and so are you for your kind words. 

Wow what a bit*ch.. >.>

Totally!

At least you know the next woman you date will have to try really hard to be worse than that

But yeah, shit sucks. Better luck next time.

That's right.

Thanks. 

This stuff happens in L.A. all the time. 

Now, that date must have absoluted sucked.

Sorry about that, hope someday you meet a decent woman.

Yup.

Mmm, thanks.

[Milkyway64]

This stuff happens in L.A. all the time. 

Oh, does it? Maybe my faith in humanity is mistakenly high, but I call bullshit on this and honestly, a lot of this story in general. Either you're a man with the most awful luck/karma in the world, or some parts of this story are exxagerated to the point of barely resembling the truth. I don't think people just "forget" about their date like they are car keys.

[Guest SCoatiH]

Oh, does it? Maybe my faith in humanity is mistakenly high, but I call bullshit on this and honestly, a lot of this story in general. Either you're a man with the most awful luck/karma in the world, or some parts of this story are exxagerated to the point of barely resembling the truth. I don't think people just "forget" about their date like they are car keys.

Well, Julius said she got drunk.

Being drunk = inability to focus, clouded memory... ect.

And now, no offense but my father come home drunk... once.

He felt asleep in the toilet, literally.   

Sounds funny? Perhaps...

...But consider what could have happened if he had ACTUALLY driven by home himself.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Oh, does it? Maybe my faith in humanity is mistakenly high, but I call bullshit on this and honestly, a lot of this story in general. Either you're a man with the most awful luck/karma in the world, or some parts of this story are exxagerated to the point of barely resembling the truth. I don't think people just "forget" about their date like they are car keys.

Well, clownhat, you've never been to L.A., so you wouldn't know...

[Thu'um]

Well, i think you deserve i woman 10x better if not 100x better then that lady

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Well, i think you deserve i woman 10x better if not 100x better then that lady

Thanks.  She can rot in jail for all I care.  Sadly, this isn't the worst date I've been on.  But I've had a good date or two.

[Vy'drach]

Oh, does it? Maybe my faith in humanity is mistakenly high, but I call bullshit on this and honestly, a lot of this story in general. Either you're a man with the most awful luck/karma in the world, or some parts of this story are exxagerated to the point of barely resembling the truth. I don't think people just "forget" about their date like they are car keys.

No reason to be such a douchebag, Milky. California, especially Los Angeles, has some of the worst of the worst people. You think his story is far-fetched? Hell, some people I know would consider that an alright date. I have friends who have scars, have been accused of rape, and have mental disorders because of some of the shitty dates out here. Just because you haven't encountered anything like that doesn't mean you should call Julius a liar. I know him, and I highly doubt he's stretching the truth on this.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

No reason to be such a douchebag, Milky. California, especially Los Angeles, has some of the worst of the worst people. You think his story is far-fetched? Hell, some people I know would consider that an alright date. I have friends who have scars, have been accused of rape, and have mental disorders because of some of the shitty dates out here. Just because you haven't encountered anything like that doesn't mean you should call Julius a liar. I know him, and I highly doubt he's stretching the truth on this.

Thank you, Vydrach. 

[Dragzilla66]

Thank you, Vydrach. 

She needs to do a barrel roll!!

[The Shaper]

She needs to do a barrel roll!!

That wasn't funny.

[Steve]

Oh, does it? Maybe my faith in humanity is mistakenly high, but I call bullshit on this and honestly, a lot of this story in general. Either you're a man with the most awful luck/karma in the world, or some parts of this story are exxagerated to the point of barely resembling the truth. I don't think people just "forget" about their date like they are car keys.

I can see why you would doubt xD, it's more about a matter of seeing it with your own eyes, I guess, or it's a matter of heavy bad karma, Julius, have you been a bad boy lately  ?. Man, maybe just try to find your own dates if you can, cause the business of blind dates, on big cities...can be a no no, like you already saw.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

I can see why you would doubt xD, it's more about a matter of seeing it with your own eyes, I guess, or it's a matter of heavy bad karma, Julius, have you been a bad boy lately  ?. Man, maybe just try to find your own dates if you can, cause the business of blind dates, on big cities...can be a no no, like you already saw.

No, I'm more likely jinxed.  I'm 28 years old, with no money, no [real] home, and no job.  And no luck with women.  I did nothing bad to deserve any of that.  Just bad luck.  *gets struck by lightning*  Does it bother me?  As much as a bad cold.  But, like a bad cold, it will end and pass.  My luck should turn around eventually.

My friend meant well, Steve, and I didn't wanna be rude to him by saying "No, screw you, I don't want your help in dating!".  I take what I can get.

[Guest SCoatiH]

Sorry to hear that, dude.

Thank you.

No, I'm jinxed.  I'm 28 years old, with no money, no [real] home, and no job.  And no luck with women.  I did nothing bad to deserve any of that.  Just bad luck.  *gets struck by lightning*  My luck should turn around eventually.

Well, mathematically speaking... - + - = +. So eventually your luck should alter drastically for good. (math lol)

I can see why you would doubt xD, it's more about a matter of seeing it with your own eyes, I guess, or it's a matter of heavy bad karma, Julius, have you been a bad boy lately  ?. Man, maybe just try to find your own dates if you can, cause the business of blind dates, on big cities...can be a no no, like you already saw.

OH NOES DA POLICE!!!!

*Hides*

[Sabre]

Luck is probability taken personally. Or you could say Luck is perception.

While I am temped to do the whole "Your the problem!" bit. I believe him because that's the kind of crap that really happens all the time. As I said earlier, all the nice women are taken, usually by bad men. The only ones left around my/our age are ones that have good reason to be single. Even if I met a nice single woman who was straight, I would still be slow to trust due to how many people I've seen burned by toxic women.

[Tiberius]

Woah... Now I can appreciate the fact that I can actually trust the people I like.

Julius, you really ran into some bad luck. Do me a favor and never talk to her again. Keep her where she belongs. The doghouse.

If luck has told me anything, its told me I have a lot more than I thought I did.

Luck is probability taken personally. Or you could say Luck is perception.

While I am temped to do the whole "Your the problem!" bit. I believe him because that's the kind of crap that really happens all the time. As I said earlier, all the nice women are taken, usually by bad men. The only ones left around my/our age are ones that have good reason to be single. Even if I met a nice single woman who was straight, I would still be slow to trust due to how many people I've seen burned by toxic women.

God, you dont know how much I agree with that.

Don't double post, please.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Woah... Now I can appreciate the fact that I can actually trust the people I like.

Julius, you really ran into some bad luck. Do me a favor and never talk to her again. Keep her where she belongs. The doghouse.

If luck has told me anything, its told me I have a lot more than I thought I did.

God, you dont know how much I agree with that.

Don't double post, please.

Thanks.  Not all dating will be bad, so don't let MY bad experiences sour anybody else here on the concept of dating, blind dates, or "fix ups". 

[Kid_Cortet]

My heart....kind of went from...sleeping to....90 MPH tonight....long story....but...at least I know it is still there :)

[Sabre]

I hope the rest of you was going at 90 too or else your in trouble.

What's the reason?