Love Life Talk

[Kid_Cortet]

I hope the rest of you was going at 90 too or else your in trouble.

What's the reason?

a friend....a dear friend...just told me something....that all...that all.....and no....the rest of me was NOT going 90....cause it was not expecting it lmao

[Sabre]

I don't know why you posted if you are going to be deliberatly cryptic, though I can probley guess.

...He told you he found that pen you lost didn't he. It's always under the sofa. :P

[Kid_Cortet]

I don't know why you posted if you are going to be deliberatly cryptic, though I can probley guess.

...He told you he found that pen you lost didn't he. It's always under the sofa.

I wish xD but sadly no :P

[Milkyway64]

No reason to be such a douchebag, Milky. California, especially Los Angeles, has some of the worst of the worst people. You think his story is far-fetched? Hell, some people I know would consider that an alright date. I have friends who have scars, have been accused of rape, and have mental disorders because of some of the shitty dates out here. Just because you haven't encountered anything like that doesn't mean you should call Julius a liar. I know him, and I highly doubt he's stretching the truth on this.

Yeah, but again I just don't believe this happens as often as people think. I have my reasons for doubting even unrelated to humanity, trust me. As much as I'd like to leave it there, reading on has shown this:

No, I'm more likely jinxed.  I'm 28 years old, with no money, no [real] home, and no job.  And no luck with women.  I did nothing bad to deserve any of that.  Just bad luck.  *gets struck by lightning*  Does it bother me?  As much as a bad cold.  But, like a bad cold, it will end and pass.  My luck should turn around eventually.

Your luck is exactly why. Everything bad in the known universe seems to be attracted to you. You've had more hit you than I thought was possible for a single person trying to just live life, and at this point it's just hitting it's believable limit. Yes, I am being a douchebag skeptic, and while not entirely justified, this has me miffed right now because of who it hit and who you're looking for sympathy from.

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

But Milky, you do realize that there are people out there in the world who make an honest, hard-working effort to get a good education (in order to get a job) and keep their family problems to a minimum (let's face it, when you have no one to turn to, you gotta realize you still have family....even if they hate your guts) ....and show respect towards others (cant walk around pissed at everyone. Example of respectful people turned sour would be the social outcast) and yet it seems that everything is geared towards making your life miserable. Your friends may take advantage of you and dissrespect you on a daily basis. You might have that 3.(somewhere between 2 and 4) adverage in school AND on top of that, hundreds of hours of volunteer work throughout your years of education, AND on top of that some pretty respectable internships, and yet somehow the employer tells you that they "Aren't willing to hire someone like you at this time. Come back in a few years, things will likely be different." Your family may have a history of "mental insanity" (according to the doctors anyway) and it seems you are the only person who is "ok up there". (Yeah, I've heard so many different extreme cases. They could happen to anyone.)

So to say that Julius may be exagerating a bit is understandable. This happens to most people who become somewhat traumatized by something....or in that case, life in general. However, it's not fair to go out and call the guy a flat out liar.

[Milkyway64]

I never flat out said he was a liar, if anything I implied it, and if not that, that he was grossly exxagerating as you said. Like I explained earlier, Julius is a misfortune magnet to the point where it's just difficult to believe. Does this mean he's lying? No, as several freak coincidences and stuff has happened lots of things on lots of subjects. For example, two brothers died on the same street by the same taxi carrying the same passenger, exactly one year apart from one another. That's unbelievable as well, but it happened. Maybe Julius DOES have it hard, but I don't think it's nearly as hard as he says or that everything he reports actually happened, and I actually have bits and pieces to back this up.

[Sapphire]

Hey Guys, remember me?

Here's how I'm doin since I last left:

- Got back together with Bre.

- She went to a movie with a GUY "friend"

- I told her that it was okay to do it, although I believed that she would realize how WRONG it was.

- I was jealous, but I didn't want to tell her that because I didn't want her to get mad at me

- I got sick the day we broke up. She was mad at me because i was being protective for her, you can't really trust guys these days with pretty girls

- So we broke up

~Good Part ~

-Met a girl who seemed really nice about a month before me and Bre got back together, her name was Payton.

-We eventually hooked up, and we've been dating for 2 weeks and a day, and there hasn't been a fight or arguement yet

- I was the one who gave her her first kiss, she loved it (Pop kiss )

-She's everything I've ever wanted in a girlfriend:

  *She's beautiful

  *She's in the same religion

  *She's younger than me

  *She's so freakin nice it's scary

  *She also enjoys video games

  *Not to girly

And me and Payton have been doing GREAT <3

[Fluxy]

Wow. Rob, you need to calm down on all the girlfriend loves. Lol. You keep surprising me, lol.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Your luck is exactly why. Everything bad in the known universe seems to be attracted to you. You've had more hit you than I thought was possible for a single person trying to just live life, and at this point it's just hitting it's believable limit. Yes, I am being a douchebag skeptic, and while not entirely justified, this has me miffed right now because of who it hit and who you're looking for sympathy from.

I'm not looking for sympathy from anyone, Milkyway64, you stupid moron.  I was only sharing an experience.  Saying I was "jinxed", was merely a joke, along with the listed reasons as to why I was jinxed.  If I was truly seeking sympathy, I wouldn't have added "My luck should turn around eventually". 

[Steve]

I'm not looking for sympathy from anyone, Milkyway64, you stupid moron.  I was only sharing an experience.  Saying I was "jinxed", was merely a joke, along with the listed reasons as to why I was jinxed.  If I was truly seeking sympathy, I wouldn't have added "My luck should turn around eventually".  So STFU.

Watch your language dude, everyone is entitled to his or her opinions, do not use foul language against users.

[Tiberius]

Guys, settle down. This is not the place for that.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Edited.  but I'm sick of him always insulting people here at sf-o. 

[Milkyway64]

Edited.  but I'm sick of him always insulting people here at sf-o.

Do I? I rarely am told I am, and I have faith that the staff actually watches out for these things. Besides, if I -do- get into it I almost always have reason for it. It is annoying to me that this date happened to Julius. It's annoying that it's farfetched not in and of itself, but in the probablilty it lands next to all other examples of your misfortune. It's annoying that you seem to be looking for sympathy (and trust me, you are. The way the date was outlined begs for it) from the same people you go around behind the backs of and hate is ESPECIALLY annoying to me.

[Arashikage]

Can we just drop it?  This is not the place for arguments, it's the place for talking about YOUR lovelife

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Do I? I rarely am told I am, and I have faith that the staff actually watches out for these things. Besides, if I -do- get into it I almost always have reason for it. It is annoying to me that this date happened to Julius. It's annoying that it's farfetched not in and of itself, but in the probablilty it lands next to all other examples of your misfortune. It's annoying that you seem to be looking for sympathy (and trust me, you are. The way the date was outlined begs for it) from the same people you go around behind the backs of and hate is ESPECIALLY annoying to me.

I never intended to fish for sympathy, Milkyway, I don't know why you got that in your head.  What happened on the date didn't upset me, because I've had worse dates than that.  I found that date to be interesting enough to share with others.

I'm sorry for sending that hate mail to you earlier, but not sorry for defending myself in the last posts.  I'm willing to apologize for publicly insulting you, if you apologize for offending me. 

I'm getting sick of fighting with you and certain other members here.

[Fluxy]

Guys! Really! Drop it! This isn't even the right thread! This shouldn't even be happening!

This is partially something I want to bring up. Who [&] Cares. If Julius is lying, who cares? It is not like he is lying about his age, or something truly serious.

Some people need to fake their lives just to get the feel like they have some attention, and someone cares for them, even if it is a falsehood and such. I am not claiming in any way Julius is lying at all. All I am saying is that, just let him have a break. Not everything he says needs to be judged 100%, or proven, or anything. The point of this site is to be able to come here, and feel accepted in some way of a community. And on many occasion, that is usually broken by all the judgments, call outs, and just the way people are treated.

Sure. I do hate it when people lie about truly having it bad, because I really do, and it just bugs me. I get that. But I don't go around calling people out on it, or saying that I have proof or what not to back my case about them. I just shrug it off, and move by, or I will say something encouraging if not enough has been said yet. It keeps the community functioning, and not at one another throats. And let's face facts. There are people here, that just plain don't like others that are here, and do, if given the opportunity, exploit something said for no truly good reason.

In my opinion, that needs to stop. I am tired of people arguing, and attacking other members through Skype, or other IM's, or PM's on this very site. It is not how a community should be. And if that is what is going on, as I already -know- has been going on, they just need to leave, for they are ruining this once great site.

[Milkyway64]

I never intended to fish for sympathy, Milkyway, I don't know why you got that in your head.  What happened on the date didn't upset me, because I've had worse dates than that.  I found that date to be interesting enough to share with others.

I'm sorry for sending that hate mail to you earlier, but not sorry for defending myself in the last posts.  I'm willing to apologize for publicly insulting you, if you apologize for offending me. 

I'm getting sick of fighting with you and certain other members here.

Sounds fair, but I'd like one more stipulation. I am not the only one you owe an apology. I do believe that there is quite a few people you have said even worse to over the months. Only, they do not know it. It's a little unjust seeing, be it intentional or not, all this sympathy toward you from those you may or may not deserve it from.

[Fluxy]

Sounds fair, but I'd like one more stipulation. I am not the only one you owe an apology. I do believe that there is quite a few people you have said even worse to over the months. Only, they do not know it. It's a little unjust seeing, be it intentional or not, all this sympathy toward you from those you may or may not deserve it from.

Milky, he is not the only one also needing to give others apologies in that case then.

Ask one of something, only if you are willing to do it yourself as well.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Sounds fair, but I'd like one more stipulation. I am not the only one you owe an apology. I do believe that there is quite a few people you have said even worse to over the months. Only, they do not know it. It's a little unjust seeing, be it intentional or not, all this sympathy toward you from those you may or may not deserve it from.

Who?  And you need to apologize to others too.  I'm not the only person here you've offended.

Milky, he is not the only one also needing to give others apologies in that case then.

Ask one of something, only if you are willing to do it yourself as well.

Agreed.

[Guest Para Astaroth]

I am SOOOO ready to scare the hell outta the little kiddies that are coming to my house for Halloween LOL

[Thu'um]

Any way...i havn't been able to post for a few days but, Dang! i had somthing to say and i forgot...

[Arashikage]

Off Topic! Majorly off topic!

Back on topic:

I may be taking a girl I like to the Civil Air Patrol Cadet Ball in a few weeks

[Thu'um]

Hey it was about my love life...It only happned a few days ago! WHAT WAS IT???!  :facepalm:

[Arashikage]

Hey it was about my love life...It only happned a few days ago! WHAT WAS IT???! 

Here's a helpful hint, please don't take this the wrong way, but if you forgot something, please don't post it here saying you forgot

[Milkyway64]

Guys! Really! Drop it! This isn't even the right thread! This shouldn't even be happening!

This is partially something I want to bring up. Who [&] Cares. If Julius is lying, who cares? It is not like he is lying about his age, or something truly serious.

Some people need to fake their lives just to get the feel like they have some attention, and someone cares for them, even if it is a falsehood and such. I am not claiming in any way Julius is lying at all. All I am saying is that, just let him have a break. Not everything he says needs to be judged 100%, or proven, or anything. The point of this site is to be able to come here, and feel accepted in some way of a community. And on many occasion, that is usually broken by all the judgments, call outs, and just the way people are treated.

Sure. I do hate it when people lie about truly having it bad, because I really do, and it just bugs me. I get that. But I don't go around calling people out on it, or saying that I have proof or what not to back my case about them. I just shrug it off, and move by, or I will say something encouraging if not enough has been said yet. It keeps the community functioning, and not at one another throats. And let's face facts. There are people here, that just plain don't like others that are here, and do, if given the opportunity, exploit something said for no truly good reason.

In my opinion, that needs to stop. I am tired of people arguing, and attacking other members through Skype, or other IM's, or PM's on this very site. It is not how a community should be. And if that is what is going on, as I already -know- has been going on, they just need to leave, for they are ruining this once great site.

I'm sorry for ruining your site, then. But where is the line? Where is the line between "fighting" and doing what must be done?  Or do I have to point out that this former paradise was anything but? Do I have to point out that my two "skype" attacks were brought about because of a rift-tearing rebelion in our good site, and the second to explain and solidify my stance on a roleplay? Number two wasn't even an attack. Remind me who needs apologising to, and for real.

I'd like to point out that there's been unrest for a long time. Who have i attacked without grounds for it? Those I really need to apologise to, I did. Others, like the Kursed incident we are all so delicately dancing around, I firmly stand where I left off on them. Julius, do not even play dumb. You hate about everyone here. In secret through PMs, you rag on about everyone fiercely, including those you call your friends. This is why it's aggravating me to see this. Your behavior to your fellow members, albeit in private, hardly deserves what they give back to you. They -are- nice to you. They deserve an appology more than I do, sir.