Love Life Talk

[Sabre]

Well, I would say a couple months, and just because it's over internet, doesn't mean you'll go into it knowing nothing. Asper and I had a four month conversation just about random topics before we decided to try out this dating thing. I think after 4 months of talking every single day, you get to know a person pretty well ^^;

Ah, but you've never had Christmas with MY family! Asper is in for a fun time! Especially if he stays for New Year's :3

Wait. You talked every day? I generally try to avoid talking to people that often in case I smother them with boring crap they don't care about.

Why, what do they do that's so special?

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

I think Fira is reffering to a lack of near arguements and lack of extreme amounts of unnecessary tension. (It's always the in-laws that have to bicker, huh? LOL)

But really, celebrating any holiday without people slandering each other would be nice. Agreed?

[Thu'um]

User has summed up everthing i wanted to say, Expecialy when you said That both of your last girl friends were perfect.

And with the virgnen, thing. Good job user :yes:

[Arashikage]

Get the fuck over yourself and get a little maturity,

Dude, no need for that kind of language here

[Thu'um]

Dude, no need for that kind of language here

I agree, U should only use that language on the toilet

[Tiberius]

Or not at all.

Christmas with my family is NOT bad at all until you get to the little cousin that tries to be funny with his horredously fake british accent. But enough about that.

Relations with the one Im going for are remaining steady and smooth, which is good as far as Im concerned. I'll be spending halloween night with her scaring the crap out of people. still not sure what I should wear...

["User"]

Milky, there's a way to voice your displeasure without resorting to saying that someone deserves misery in relationships....you know I speak from experience in that regard. 

Haha, I enjoy arguing with you guys (Nick and User)

Well, I knew you guys would point that out, but look, I'm just one of those people who look at girls differently, according to their virginity, I'm not making this a bad thing, but i found out that I CARE if the current girl I'm dating at the time is a virgin or not, when Bre told me I about got sick and broke down. I'm honestly not too sure why, but ever since then I care if the girl is a virgin or not.

Thanks for side-stepping my question, and it looks like others are asking the same thing on what you would do if the shoe was on the other foot.

I find it's no excuse if you break down all upset and got sick over it and then break up afterwards.  See, I can understand if she lied about it and how you could get upset and sick to your stomach but even if that's the case holding preconditions like this to maintain a relationship and not loving them for who they are despite their past mistakes is just being selfish and not fair for the partner and if some girl broke up with me because I wasn't a virgin I'd be completely devastated beyond words.

Now, that's not to say that all preconditions are bad. Some religious individuals, for example, will only marry someone of their own religion.  But these conditions are few are far between.  Love someone for whom they are and not their past mistakes. :/

[Fira-Astrali]

Wait. You talked every day? I generally try to avoid talking to people that often in case I smother them with boring crap they don't care about.

Why, what do they do that's so special?

Yes, every day. Three or four messages if I could get them in during my last period class ^^; We have a lot in common, so it was never boring

It's just that my parents aren't stuffy, so we get into shenanigans, especially me and my dad

I think Fira is reffering to a lack of near arguements and lack of extreme amounts of unnecessary tension. (It's always the in-laws that have to bicker, huh? LOL)

But really, celebrating any holiday without people slandering each other would be nice. Agreed?

well, that too... but there is also shenanigans :P

[Sabre]

Yes, every day. Three or four messages if I could get them in during my last period class ^^; We have a lot in common, so it was never boring

It's just that my parents aren't stuffy, so we get into shenanigans, especially me and my dad

well, that too... but there is also shenanigans

What do you talk about? What is interesting to you and how do you stretch it into daily chat?

[Steve]

I've been doing random, almost anything that comes to my mind, talks with Sissi for already almost 5 years, and I can say, sometimes we end up talking about the same stuff we talked 3 months ago, 2 years ago, 4years ago and  we realize that waaaay too late. I guess, you get used after a while. I mean, you can talk about your day, but then it derivates into something else, and then something else, etc,etc,etc,etc.

There's a lot of "disney crap" involved too, if you must know, however, that does depend on the level of internet geekness a couple has.

[Sarita]

I've been doing random, almost anything that comes to my mind, talks with Sissi for already almost 5 years, and I can say, sometimes we end up talking about the same stuff we talked 3 months ago, 2 years ago, 4years ago and  we realize that waaaay too late. I guess, you get used after a while. I mean, you can talk about your day, but then it derivates into something else, and then something else, etc,etc,etc,etc.

There's a lot of "disney crap" involved too, if you must know, however, that does depend on the level of internet geekness a couple has.

Topics are recyclable after so long!

Also, I love you <3333 But don't tell anyone, kay?

[Sabre]

Hmm. Interesting. So, I guess I was being paranoid about boring people.

[Sarita]

Hmm. Interesting. So, I guess I was being paranoid about boring people.

A little bit, yeah. If you can't talk about stuff, how can you get to know each other without it coming out boring and scripted? That's no fun at all.

[Fira-Astrali]

What do you talk about? What is interesting to you and how do you stretch it into daily chat?

Basically what Steve and Sissi said. I'm almost positive that I have told Asper the same story at least 4 times. But yea, you talk about your day, or you ask a question, and then more little tangents pop up from that... and the next thing you know, you're telling someone you're life story

What you want to talk about isn't boring to someone who shares your interests, and just because you talk alot doesn't mean you'll bore a person, but that's only if you give them equal ground in a conversation. For example, i like talking to Asper about video games and stuff, but i've talked about the same thing with other guys, but instead they drone on without letting me get a word in edgewise, and that is boring as hell >.<

Hmm. Interesting. So, I guess I was being paranoid about boring people.

Depends, you have to notice if people are reciprocating to what you're talking about, or if they seem disinterested. And you have to let the subject of the conversation change. That's how me and Asper did it, we just let the conversation go in whatever direction it was going to go :)

[Sapphire]

Get the fuck over yourself and get a little maturity

Oooooo, SOMEBODY's in a BAD MOOD.

I'm just saying, that's just part of who I am. Don't like it? TOO BAD. :lol:

[Fira-Astrali]

Oooooo, SOMEBODY's in a BAD MOOD.

I'm just saying, that's just part of who I am. Don't like it? TOO BAD.

considering how many people have spoken out against it (which you have pointedly ignored) you might do well to stop for a moment of personal reflection as to why people are incensed by the idea.

[Tiberius]

Guys, I really dont want the mods to lock this topic. Can we just show a little integrity here for once?

[Thu'um]

My "friend" Miles ( or A.K.A. the player)  he sorta just uses girls. he came up behind emily today and grabed her by the waist. At first she was suprised, then she turned around and didn't do anything...makes me so freaking mad at him  i know she didn't like it. he hates me as well. Takes every opertunity to embarres me cause i talk to emily who he considers his girl. Even though he is dating some one else.

[Arashikage]

My "friend" Miles ( or A.K.A. the player)  he sorta just uses girls. he came up behind emily today and grabed her by the waist. At first she was suprised, then she turned around and didn't do anything...makes me so freaking mad at him  i know she didn't like it. he hates me as well. Takes every opertunity to embarres me cause i talk to emily who he considers his girl. Even though he is dating some one else.

Just tell the kid he's wacko, people like that don't deserve to be let down easily.  And if he refuses, you got the CAP backing you up

[Thu'um]

he wouldn't care what i'd say...

[Milkyway64]

Oooooo, SOMEBODY's in a BAD MOOD.

I'm just saying, that's just part of who I am. Don't like it? TOO BAD.

It may be "too bad" but I can at least still voice my displeasure. As Fira pointed out, maybe -you- should do a little thinking about why everyone's on your throat. But hey, I try to be helpful when I can, so here's a few suggestions to why:

You're being a shallow asshole - The requirement stating your wife had to be a virgin died like 5 decades ago when man hit the Life plot twist that women were human beings and thus as sexually needy as they were.

It's selfish - You've still yet to answer how you'd feel if the situation was reversed, ergo, you porked your first girlfriend, it went badly, and you were screwed out of future relationships on account of your virginity being gone.

It's putting too much emphasis on sex - Or do you really think that there's nothing left for you if the hymen's been broken?

At the end of the day, you're just being an immature brat who's crying about not having exactly what he wants. You know what that sort of attitude does as far as a commitment with a flawed human being leads to? Disappointment and heartbreak.

[Thu'um]

i thought you guys had droped this  next one to post on that agrument get their thoat slit 

[Sarita]

It may be "too bad" but I can at least still voice my displeasure. As Fira pointed out, maybe -you- should do a little thinking about why everyone's on your throat. But hey, I try to be helpful when I can, so here's a few suggestions to why:

You're being a shallow asshole - The requirement stating your wife had to be a virgin died like 5 decades ago when man hit the Life plot twist that women were human beings and thus as sexually needy as they were.

It's selfish - You've still yet to answer how you'd feel if the situation was reversed, ergo, you porked your first girlfriend, it went badly, and you were screwed out of future relationships on account of your virginity being gone.

It's putting too much emphasis on sex - Or do you really think that there's nothing left for you if the hymen's been broken?

At the end of the day, you're just being an immature brat who's crying about not having exactly what he wants. You know what that sort of attitude does as far as a commitment with a flawed human being leads to? Disappointment and heartbreak.

Heeeey, now that I think about it, this is kinda liek what I said a few pages back! Oh snap.

[Thu'um]

didn't you read my post, you think this is some sorta game dawg, you wanna play a game, sure ok, i'll play a game, how bout monopoly

[Arashikage]

he wouldn't care what i'd say...

Well what do you want me to tell you?  If the girls don't like him they'd steer clear of him anyway, so really, if you think he just wouldn't care, or anything, I can't help you, because it's hard to reason with someone who doesn't care