Thu'um Posted October 24, 2010 Share Posted October 24, 2010 Cool find some juicey information man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Well I thought I'd post up a scenario for you guys to offer your feedback on. This guy...he's been single for the past few months and only recently (due to his own slight effort) he's had girls take an interest in him. Currently he's communicating with two girls via text message and his own phone messenger program, he has both their cell (and one house) number. He's known one of them for two weeks and the other for a month. The girls have been more likely to start conversations with him than vice versa. Both have expressed interest in meeting up with him in person and they both live less than 40 minutes from him and are roughly his age.However, his ex has also been dropping hints here and there that she wants to get back together with him, he loved her very VERY much and the reason for the initial breakup was due to logistic issues (i.e. distance) He's been intimate with her before. He thinks relationships and the like have been brought forward again due to his intimate encounter with a girl last Friday (which is something he regrets since he didn't really know her).All this being said, he's fairly confident on how he should proceed, but he wants all your opinions on how to proceed regardless. Serious advice only, don't go and tell me that I need to get laid with all of them lol (oops! I gave it away! ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Dont get laid with all of them. It's a male fantasy that I've heard doesn't live up to the hype.Not advice, more of a question. Whats stopping you from being friends with the 2 new ones (objectification!) so you have a safty net should the X go sour again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Not advice, more of a question. Whats stopping you from being friends with the 2 new ones (objectification!) so you have a safty net should the X go sour again?Same thought crossed my mine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Dont get laid with all of them. It's a male fantasy that I've heard doesn't live up to the hype.Of course it doesn't. Not advice, more of a question. Whats stopping you from being friends with the 2 new ones (objectification!) so you have a safty net should the X go sour again?That's the course of action I had in mind, I'm trying to set up the weekend after Halloween to meet with one of them, and then another weekend to meet the other (who lives closer to me). My ex never went sour or negative on me the entire time we were together, we broke up because there was no realistic way I was going to move in to live with her or something and she couldn't stand a long distance relationship without at least a possibility that I'd move in with her or vice versa. :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Of course it doesn't. That's the course of action I had in mind, I'm trying to set up the weekend after Halloween to meet with one of them, and then another weekend to meet the other (who lives closer to me). My ex never went sour or negative on me the entire time we were together, we broke up because there was no realistic way I was going to move in to live with her or something and she couldn't stand a long distance relationship without at least a possibility that I'd move in with her or vice versa. Well in that case, can I have one of the others. Seriously though, how do you do it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Well in that case, can I have one of the others. Seriously though, how do you do it?I'm not really the expert on how to get girls From my experience though (since those two came to me) I'd suggest that if you use an online dating site or some similar medium is to take time and fill out your profile elaborately, including pictures of course. You can't just set up a profile and expect something. Of course, usually the best results come when you start looking for someone yourself - the hard work eventually pays off. I figure it's best to search through many female profiles and send messages to the one's that have the qualities that you'd like to see in a potential mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Well in that case, can I have one of the others. Seriously though, how do you do it?Meet sluts Be godly at LQ. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I don't go on dating sites. That's how you do it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I don't go on dating sites. That's how you do it?And by just being myself in person. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Shaper Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 And by just being myself in person. User the ladies man, why not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Meet sluts Be godly at LQ.Also, pay for their LQ games and often them other things like food, drinks, etc. User the ladies man, why not?I consider myself more of a gentleman when it comes to women than a stereotypical ladies man, too bad I don't see too many people like myself out there anymore. :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 However, his ex has also been dropping hints here and there that she wants to get back together with him, he loved her very VERY much and the reason for the initial breakup was due to logistic issues (i.e. distance) He's been intimate with her before. From my point of view, and your current status, distance shouldn't be a problem, if love exists, then love exists, specially if there has been an initial meet up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 From my point of view, and your current status, distance shouldn't be a problem, if love exists, then love exists, specially if there has been an initial meet up.for a lot of people now, theres no shortage of love...Just somthing else User the ladies man, why not?Couse, i tought him every thing he knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 Couse, i tought him every thing he knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 Don't get it. :| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Shaper Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 Don't get it. He's saying you didn't teach user everything he knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 i'm still not gettin da' mess'age bro' An'd eve'n if I did i'd be'en hal'f wa'y around's ja' World" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 From my point of view, and your current status, distance shouldn't be a problem, if love exists, then love exists, specially if there has been an initial meet up.The fact is though things like distance are often problems in long distance relationships. Just because a couple might truly love each doesn't mean things like distance will not have an effect on the relationship. I've been in long distance relationships on more than one occasion and while they can work for some people, the vast majority of them don't work out for many reasons - regardless if the love is true or not. You are one of the only individual people I know in a long distance relationship who's had it work out for him over a period of years and that's because the vast majority of long distance relationships end up failing or not working out long term.Obsoletes can and do get in the way and even if a couple might love each (like both of us did) things come up and often, the majority of the time, it's unrealistic to continue such an endeavour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fox1235 Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 i'm still not gettin da' mess'age bro' An'd eve'n if I did i'd be'en hal'f wa'y around's ja' World"You sound like all of the Eminem wannabes at my school(they did not sound like that when I was with them in elementary). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I do it when people get on my back(not in real life of course) they just never seem to respond to it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xortberg Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I do it when people get on my back(not in real life of course) they just never seem to respond to it We don't respond to it because there's no substance to respond to. It just makes you look like SCoatiH :trollface: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Shaper Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 We don't respond to it because there's no substance to respond to. It just makes you look like SCoatiH There was no need for a troll face at the end of that sentence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 We don't respond to it because there's no substance to respond to. It just makes you look like SCoatiH worked for him too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragzilla66 Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 Nope no love life yet. XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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