Love Life Talk

[Arashikage]

I am such a wreck right now.  Sure I'm only 16, but I finally admitted to a friend of mine that I really liked her.  Now given the circumstances, yesterday was probably not a good time at all.  I was going through an inferiority complex, while the guy she liked got a girlfriend.  She was telling me how he got a girlfriend and started rubbing it in her face, she got angry and was punching walls and crying for about 2 hours, I was there to comfort her, I told her that there was definitely someone out there that liked her as more than a friend, she kept telling me that there wasn't, eventually I came out and said it was me, all she said after that was "Oh..." so I asked about it and she said that she kind of thought so, and so we talked for a while and I found out she doesn't like me in the same way and wants to keep chasing this guy.  I was such a wreck the entire day, I couldn't focus on my schoolwork, I couldn't sit through a class period without having my head down on my desk, and I am still just about in tears about this whole situation.  It just makes me feel so hopeless and alone

[Redeemer]

I am such a wreck right now.  Sure I'm only 16, but I finally admitted to a friend of mine that I really liked her.  Now given the circumstances, yesterday was probably not a good time at all.  I was going through an inferiority complex, while the guy she liked got a girlfriend.  She was telling me how he got a girlfriend and started rubbing it in her face, she got angry and was punching walls and crying for about 2 hours, I was there to comfort her, I told her that there was definitely someone out there that liked her as more than a friend, she kept telling me that there wasn't, eventually I came out and said it was me, all she said after that was "Oh..." so I asked about it and she said that she kind of thought so, and so we talked for a while and I found out she doesn't like me in the same way and wants to keep chasing this guy.  I was such a wreck the entire day, I couldn't focus on my schoolwork, I couldn't sit through a class period without having my head down on my desk, and I am still just about in tears about this whole situation.  It just makes me feel so hopeless and alone

Oh honey. *hugs*

You don't need me to tell you that it was a bad time to tell her. If she reacted to this guys relationship that badly, she'll just need to get over it. I hope she was nice when she told you, because you were trying so hard to make her feel better. :?

[Guest Senshi]

I am such a wreck right now.  Sure I'm only 16, but I finally admitted to a friend of mine that I really liked her.  Now given the circumstances, yesterday was probably not a good time at all.  I was going through an inferiority complex, while the guy she liked got a girlfriend.  She was telling me how he got a girlfriend and started rubbing it in her face, she got angry and was punching walls and crying for about 2 hours, I was there to comfort her, I told her that there was definitely someone out there that liked her as more than a friend, she kept telling me that there wasn't, eventually I came out and said it was me, all she said after that was "Oh..." so I asked about it and she said that she kind of thought so, and so we talked for a while and I found out she doesn't like me in the same way and wants to keep chasing this guy.  I was such a wreck the entire day, I couldn't focus on my schoolwork, I couldn't sit through a class period without having my head down on my desk, and I am still just about in tears about this whole situation.  It just makes me feel so hopeless and alone

Dude, I'm sorry to hear that... I know how you feel, I've been there countless times myself. :?

[Arashikage]

Thanks guys, She said it in a nice way, but it still kills me.  I told her this when she was saying that there was nobody out there for her, I just couldn't hold it in any longer, I thought the timing was good at the time, but I don't really know what's going on.  She didn't directly say that she didn't want to be with me, but I kinda got that vibe that I always get when getting rejected.  She did say that she needed time to heal before she made any decisions, but that could mean several things *Shrugs* I don't know

[Redeemer]

Time to heal? The guy only got a gf, it's not like he broke up with her or anything.

[Arashikage]

but she really liked him, and she thought he was hers until he got a girlfriend, almost the same as when I thought she was mine when I told her I liked her

["User"]

Time to heal? The guy only got a gf, it's not like he broke up with her or anything.

Despite that it still wouldn't surprise me if she needed time to recover, although "time to heal" sounds a bit excessive given the situation.

[Redeemer]

but she really liked him, and she thought he was hers until he got a girlfriend, almost the same as when I thought she was mine when I told her I liked her

Fair point. I dunno, when someone I liked got a gf I just shrugged it off and lost interest. Maybe that's just me.

[Arashikage]

I just texted her, she said that she never said there was no hope for us to be together, so I'm assuming she just needs time.  It's made me a bit happier, but she's still broken up about this guy and that still makes me sad too

[Redeemer]

Trust me hon, she'll get over it. :)

["User"]

I might be in a similar situation that this guy you're referring to is in Arashikage.  I have two girls that like me considerably - one I've met, the other I'm meeting for the first time tomorrow afternoon.  If I end up liking this other girl as well, which I'm pretty sure I will given on how we've interacted so far then I'll have to end up choosing which one to enter a relationship with since both have already displayed subtle (although obvious to me) hints that they want to be more than friends. 

I'm not sure on what my plans will be relationship wise after tomorrow night but I guess it wouldn't hurt to enter into an open relationship with both of them at once.  :trollface:

[Arashikage]

Trust me hon, she'll get over it.

Thanks, I hope she does too

I might be in a similar situation that this guy you're referring to is in Arashikage.  I have two girls that like me considerably - one I've met, the other I'm meeting for the first time tomorrow afternoon.  If I end up liking this other girl as well, which I'm pretty sure I will given on how we've interacted so far then I'll have to end up choosing which one to enter a relationship with since both have already displayed subtle (although obvious to me) hints that they want to be more than friends. 

I'm not sure on what my plans will be relationship wise after tomorrow night but I guess it wouldn't hurt to enter into an open relationship with both of them at once. 

Well, I have never been in a situation like this, but I think that if there are two girls that want to be more than friends, the worst possible thing you can do is start a relationship with both of them, but judging by the trollface I am pretty sure you weren't going to do that.  But if you have to choose, you should in my opinion, give both a fair chance, try to figure out who's best for you, and the other, try not to crush her spirits, maybe let her down easy, but don't beat around the bush, from what I can tell, girls hate that

["User"]

Heh yeah, I was kidding about being with both of them at the same time. That would of course, be one of the worst things I could do.

I really dislike disappointing anyone, especially females.  It just strikes a nerve with me more often than it would with others. :/

[Redeemer]

You're such a player, User. ;)

["User"]

You're such a player, User.

Furries can be players?!   Unheard of!

[Redeemer]

Heh yeah, I was kidding about being with both of them at the same time.

Mhmm, there is no honour in dating more than 1 girl at a time.  :|

[Thu'um]

Furries can be players?!   Unheard of!

Unthinkable!

[fox1235]

Your somewhat lucky I had a girl crying near that I liked(not the one I like right now) many times and I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.

I'm such a chicken.

[Sabre]

Permission to make light. Skip this if you are serious business.

First, lol at the button thing.

Second,

Furries can be players?!   Unheard of!

No, they can't in the traditional sence. They can in the "Sex in a public toilet" kind of way though.

Onto the more serious stuff.

Mhmm, there is no honour in dating more than 1 girl at a time. 

I don't think there's any shame in it either provided there isnt deception involved.

Your somewhat lucky I had a girl crying near that I liked(not the one I like right now) many times and I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.

I'm such a chicken.

Yep. You get no sympathy from me.

I don't mean to add fuel to the Arashikage fire, but imo you are over reacting a bit.

[Milkyway64]

Yep. You get no sympathy from me.

Now all you need to do is don a cape, dye your hair blue and spike it, find a big golden sword, and fight for your friends, and we'll have Ike on SFO!

[King of the Shrooms]

Now all you need to do is don a cape, dye your hair blue and spike it, find a big golden sword, and fight for your friends, and we'll have Ike on SFO!

thats funny! i like Ike!

[Thu'um]

M, i was too busy to post this earlyer but I saw this cute girl at sandwhich ministrey again. We talked for a bit, but i think she really like me. Mostly because she doesn't pay any atntion to my friends and just wants to talk to me. 

[Redeemer]

M, i was too busy to post this earlyer but I saw this cute girl at sandwhich ministrey again. We talked for a bit, but i think she really like me. Mostly because she doesn't pay any atntion to my friends and just wants to talk to me.

Alright, sounds awesome. For the love of god, do not make any of those woman = sandwich making jokes. :3

[Sabre]

Alright, sounds awesome. For the love of god, do not make any of those woman = sandwich making jokes. :3

Off topic, but related. I had thought that people who really believed that kind of stuff were only mad old people. I was in a toy shop a little while back and a girl picked up a cowbay hate and started playing cowboy with her brother, only to pick something else as only boys can be cowboys. As a result, I wouldn't be suprised if people really did think that way these days.

I learned everything I know about cooking from my mother. ie. I can burn anything you give me.

[Arashikage]

Okay, so I got this figured out.  I talked to Molly a few times yesterday, we were just talking about life, you know, usual depression stuff, I was trying to tell her I will always be there for her.  I asked if she wanted to talk about it in person some time, so we're going for a walk around town at the end of the week 

And also, Sabre?  Have you ever felt like that before?  I don't think you understand what I was going through well enough to make that decision