Love Life Talk

[Sabre]

Hey, question for those of you whom are experienced, me and this girl have already gone on 2 "dates", you could call it that, just waliking and talking downtown, and going to a movie. We talk at school, but lately I've been busy with other things. (for instance, weekends is the only time I could get some peace, but with band practice and all that... yeah...  )

How could I get her intrested in going out again? How do I know if shes intrested in me? Am I a clueless twat?

No idea. Ask?

[Thu'um]

Are you...gonna go talk to her?

Also you two.. are horrible at giving girlfriend advices!! >.<

Probebly not, she is going out with some one else. and thank u

Hey, question for those of you whom are experienced, me and this girl have already gone on 2 "dates", you could call it that, just waliking and talking downtown, and going to a movie. We talk at school, but lately I've been busy with other things. (for instance, weekends is the only time I could get some peace, but with band practice and all that... yeah...  )

How could I get her intrested in going out again? How do I know if shes intrested in me? Am I a clueless twat?

just ask.

[Dragzilla66]

Probebly not, she is going out with some one else. and thank u just ask.

Your welcome buddy.

[Arashikage]

Okay, I've had an interesting week.  Where do I start.... I went for that walk with Molly last Thursday, but I don't think you could really call it a walk.  Her friends were there too and we really just stood outside the ice cream parlor by a bench and just talked.  But yesterday, I asked her if she wanted to hang out maybe Saturday or Sunday (I have to ask that far in advance, she has a busy schedule), but she I guess, took it as me asking her out, and she told me that after something that happened during her formal dance on Saturday, she didn't want to go out on a date.  Now I don't know what to say because I had already tried a little(but failed) to find out what happened, and never told her that I wasn't asking her out, and that I was just asking her to hang out.  But she didn't say she didn't want to go out with me, she just said she didn't want to go out after Saturday, so I'm still hopeful

[LoneWolf]

I don't post much in this topic, but I find it funny that my one post stirs up an argument on religion. It's funny, how people will argue about pretty much nothing.

I do know that the Nazis were technically a political party, but they went after the Jews, being my point.

Oh, it's also funny that we argue about the Jewish religion, when there's this great thing called Wikipedia.

LOLOLOLOL

So, on topic.

I'm single. I'm just not really interested in the ladies right now.

Yep.

[Fira-Astrali]

Okay, I've had an interesting week.  Where do I start.... I went for that walk with Molly last Thursday, but I don't think you could really call it a walk.  Her friends were there too and we really just stood outside the ice cream parlor by a bench and just talked.  But yesterday, I asked her if she wanted to hang out maybe Saturday or Sunday (I have to ask that far in advance, she has a busy schedule), but she I guess, took it as me asking her out, and she told me that after something that happened during her formal dance on Saturday, she didn't want to go out on a date.  Now I don't know what to say because I had already tried a little(but failed) to find out what happened, and never told her that I wasn't asking her out, and that I was just asking her to hang out.  But she didn't say she didn't want to go out with me, she just said she didn't want to go out after Saturday, so I'm still hopeful

Sounds to me like she's either screwing with you, or trying to give you a hint that she's just not feeling it but she's too polite. If she was as interested in this as you were, wild horses would not keep her away

["User"]

Back on topic please, keep the religious, political, and other off-topic posts out of one of the most interesting topics on SF-O.

Anyways, today I'm officially in a relationship.  We had an amazing 3rd date at the movies and a nice dinner together and I'm looking forward to our next meeting.  :P

[Thu'um]

I'm just not really interested in the ladies right now.

Try'in stay that way, save you alot o trouble.

[LoneWolf]

Try'in stay that way, save you alot o trouble.

That's pretty much the thinking behind it. I don't want to have to juggle both relationships and academics.

[Fira-Astrali]

That's pretty much the thinking behind it. I don't want to have to juggle both relationships and academics.

Eh, its not as hard as you think. You just need to budget your time accordingly.

[Thu'um]

That's pretty much the thinking behind it. I don't want to have to juggle both relationships and academics.

thats a good reason too....

[LoneWolf]

Eh, its not as hard as you think. You just need to budget your time accordingly.

Well, I'm taking some classes that are three years ahead of me. So...I don't really need a girlfriend right now.

["User"]

Both Fira and LoneWolf are right here.  It's definitely possible to balance both a relationship and schoolwork but some people (like myself) don't really care about relationships when they are in high school or college and would prefer to focus on school and "worry" about relationships afterwords.

Speaking of things that are worrisome. There is this one girl who I met at a Laser Quest tournament who has been crazy over me ever since.  She constantly texts, facebook messages me and calls me just wanting to talk about anything and everything.  I wouldn't say it's getting annoying...well...except for the fact that I'm in a relationship with someone else and she is too and she wants me to stay at her apartment for a weekend and snuggle while watching movies.  >_<

If we were both single she'd be a very interesting individual and dating her would definitely be an option.  We both love competitive laser tag and we have a LOT in common (more then my current GF), which kind of surprised me, and she's very picky about who she has any romantic interest in.  However doing anything further with her, such as going down to her place, would constitute cheating in my eyes. 

I'm a very nice individual IRL and it's very difficult for me to give someone bad news or anything that would make them sad or upset. I often try to be on good terms with everyone when I'm out and about.  It's going to be little challenge, that's for sure.

[Fira-Astrali]

I wouldn't say it's getting annoying...well...except for the fact that I'm in a relationship with someone else and she is too and she wants me to stay at her apartment for a weekend and snuggle while watching movies.  >_<

no no no no no no no, nononono, NO! nonono....

Watching movies with her would be totally fine, it's not illegal to be friends with a woman while your in a relationship, but cuddling? I can't believe she would disrespect her current partner and yours by even suggesting it.

But I don't think begin in her apartment is cheating. As long as you are a gentleman and friends stay friends, there shouldn't be a problem. Considering she's disrespecting you partner by not reigning herself in though, it might be a good idea to not go there right now.

And I'm sorry, but if she needs to be told off, you need to tell her off. You obviously don't need to be mean about it, but you need to protect the space in your life that you've given to your new partner, and right now by not telling her what she needs to hear, you are letting this woman encroach upon it.

["User"]

no no no no no no no, nononono, NO! nonono....

Watching movies with her would be totally fine, it's not illegal to be friends with a woman while your in a relationship, but cuddling? I can't believe she would disrespect her current partner and yours by even suggesting it.

But I don't think begin in her apartment is cheating. As long as you are a gentleman and friends stay friends, there shouldn't be a problem. Considering she's disrespecting you partner by not reigning herself in though, it might be a good idea to not go there right now.

And I'm sorry, but if she needs to be told off, you need to tell her off. You obviously don't need to be mean about it, but you need to protect the space in your life that you've given to your new partner, and right now by not telling her what she needs to hear, you are letting this woman encroach upon it.

What I've already decided to do mirrors what you're telling me.  We're still going to be friends just not in that way and I'll treat her like any friend who's eager to get into the world of competitive laser tag.  Also, I find it very...coincidental that as soon as I get into a relationship some other girl comes out and expresses this much desire for me.  It's like a test of sorts.  That being said, if she keeps up her behavior and the "please come visit me" comments I'm going to "dump" her as a friend.

[Thu'um]

no no no no no no no, nononono, NO! nonono....

Watching movies with her would be totally fine, it's not illegal to be friends with a woman while your in a relationship, but cuddling? I can't believe she would disrespect her current partner and yours by even suggesting it.

But I don't think begin in her apartment is cheating. As long as you are a gentleman and friends stay friends, there shouldn't be a problem. Considering she's disrespecting you partner by not reigning herself in though, it might be a good idea to not go there right now.

And I'm sorry, but if she needs to be told off, you need to tell her off. You obviously don't need to be mean about it, but you need to protect the space in your life that you've given to your new partner, and right now by not telling her what she needs to hear, you are letting this woman encroach upon it.

Well, i'd be offended if user was my boy friend, and then went to another girls apartment to whach movies. Mabye u should ask her if it is O.K.

[Fira-Astrali]

Well, i'd be offended if user was my boy friend, and then went to another girls apartment to whach movies. Mabye u should ask her if it is O.K.

Yes that's probably true. I'm very open and trusting of my partners but it's not the same for everyone.

Oh, and I would just like to mention that is 23 DAYS UNTIL ASPER COMES OVER <3....

that is all :3

[Vy'drach]

Yes that's probably true. I'm very open and trusting of my partners but it's not the same for everyone.

Oh, and I would just like to mention that is 23 DAYS UNTIL ASPER COMES OVER <3....

that is all :3

I recommend not counting the days, as that makes each day seem to last a week.

["User"]

Well, i'd be offended if user was my boy friend, and then went to another girls apartment to whach movies. Mabye u should ask her if it is O.K.

Don't worry, I'll ensure that you're never my boyfriend. As much as I <3 you nonetheless with some of your posts on this board - like this one.

[Asper Sarnoff]

Yes that's probably true. I'm very open and trusting of my partners but it's not the same for everyone.

Yeah, I hope I haven't given you any reason to do otherwise.

Oh, and I would just like to mention that is 23 DAYS UNTIL ASPER COMES OVER <3....

that is all :3

:3

[Fira-Astrali]

I recommend not counting the days, as that makes each day seem to last a week.

I unno, my days are going pretty fast as it is, maybe it's okay if they slow down a little. That, and its pretty satisfying to jump down the stairs and yell "XX DAYS TIL HE'S HERE FOR CHRISTMAS!!!!" and get lots of glares from my mom ^^

[Steve]

I unno, my days are going pretty fast as it is, maybe it's okay if they slow down a little. That, and its pretty satisfying to jump down the stairs and yell "XX DAYS TIL HE'S HERE FOR CHRISTMAS!!!!" and get lots of glares from my mom ^^

Don't worry, I used to do 100 days countdowns before xD so you are not "crazy"

[Fira-Astrali]

Don't worry, I used to do 100 days countdowns before xD so you are not "crazy"

i did that with my trip to japan, but i try not to make a countdown more than two months in advance ^^;

[EazyIN]

Well, I guess it's time to say it; but it's official: I has a girlfriend :3

["User"]

Well, I guess it's time to say it; but it's official: I has a girlfriend :3

Congrats!

Care to share some details?