Love Life Talk

[Scott7]

*sigh* Honestly to me love is kinda like a curse... I have a good face, though not much of a point if every girl around me in School sickens the hell out of me...

[Sabre]

*sigh* Honestly to me love is kinda like a curse... I have a good face, though not much of a point if every girl around me in School sickens the hell out of me...

Heh. Funny that. I can gain access to certain information to trick almost any woman into having a date or even having sex with me. For those who think you are imune you are most likely fooling yourself. It's basicly a seduction trick with (Id say about) a 90% success rate.

However, these tricks are both a blessing and a curse. It's like seeing the strings in a super hero movie. The problem is for someone like me who wants love rahter then sex, it's madening as you can have almost any woman, but they are in love with a trick rather then you. Anyone you like well enough you (or at least I) respect to much to deceive them like that.

In short. I have an ugly face, but am armed with a trick that I am not willing to use as it puts me in a catch 22 situation.

[Fira-Astrali]

Heh. Funny that. I can gain access to certain information to trick almost any woman into having a date or even having sex with me. For those who think you are imune you are most likely fooling yourself. It's basicly a seduction trick with (Id say about) a 90% success rate.

However, these tricks are both a blessing and a curse. It's like seeing the strings in a super hero movie. The problem is for someone like me who wants love rahter then sex, it's madening as you can have almost any woman, but they are in love with a trick rather then you. Anyone you like well enough you (or at least I) respect to much to deceive them like that.

In short. I have an ugly face, but am armed with a trick that I am not willing to use as it puts me in a catch 22 situation.

my curiosity has been piqued

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

Correct me if I'm wrong. Didn't you originaly say that females repel from you Sabre?

[Matrilwood]

If you mean me and milky we have been dating a while despite his passive aggressive (whatever that means) attitude. Not really of course. It's just a running joke. I forget how it started.

I was actually talking about you and Redeemer.

@ Sabre's last post

That's an easy fix, just don't use those tricks. Watch the movie "Coming to America" it's about a prince who wants to find "true-love" so he goes to America and pretends to be a poor man. And for someone looking for love not sex you are lucky. No-body who's just interested in sex would go out with you and break your heart. So if someone goes out with you, it will be for your personality, which means they're not shallow. Those sorts of people are candidates for deep relationships.

PS: Physical appearance doesn't mean much to girls, it helps but it isn't the be all and end all. Non-shallow girls like two things, good-personality and COOKING. Girls love guys who can cook.

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I'm practically in love with a lucky charm, when-ever she goes away, bad things happen and they correct themselves when she comes back. It's kind of freaky.

[Sabre]

Correct me if I'm wrong. Didn't you originaly say that females repel from you Sabre?

Yep. Still true. They love me when they think I'm gay, but as soon as I say "I'm straight" they freak out.

PS: Physical appearance doesn't mean much to girls, it helps but it isn't the be all and end all. Non-shallow girls like two things, good-personality and COOKING. Girls love guys who can cook.

Oh so nieve. Looks mean as much to women as men. The whole "Women are judged on their looks, men are judged on their hearts" thing is total nonsence. No six pack body = no dates. That simple. Also, I learned everything I know about cooking from my mother, so give me anything at all and I can burn it to a crisp. Even eggs.

I was actually talking about you and Redeemer.

Oh. You funny guy. We're on the internet, we barely know each other, plus as I already said, shes a million miles above me. We are just friends atm. Even if something went horriblely wrong (or right) and she did ask me out on a date. I would have to decline because she's to nice and as a result someone as negative as me would be really bad for her I think. She needs a knight on horseback, not jabba the hut on a skateboard.

[Redeemer]

Sabre you are a much nicer guy than you'll ever admit. Seeing you talk like that about yourself makes me sad. :(

[Star Fox Runner]

Oh. You funny guy. We're on the internet, we barely know each other, plus as I already said, shes a million miles above me. We are just friends atm. Even if something went horriblely wrong (or right) and she did ask me out on a date. I would have to decline because she's to nice and as a result someone as negative as me would be really bad for her I think. She needs a knight on horseback, not jabba the hut on a skateboard.

Aw come on Sabre! I hear my cousin Dusty and my best friend Nathan talk like that about themselves all the time, and it makes me sad. You can't think badly about yourself and refuse to take action, or that is exactly what will come true! Be more confident!

[Fira-Astrali]

You funny guy. We're on the internet, we barely know each other, plus as I already said, shes a million miles above me. We are just friends atm. Even if something went horriblely wrong (or right) and she did ask me out on a date. I would have to decline because she's to nice and as a result someone as negative as me would be really bad for her I think. She needs a knight on horseback, not jabba the hut on a skateboard.

LKNDIUNIKNUIFDNPOSDFNMSODLNGOIU!!!?!?!?!

You won't go on a date with a girl that's shallow because you want something deeper, but you wouldn't go out with a nice girl because she's to good for you? Sabre come on hun, don't do that to yourself. From what I've seen you'd try your best to make anyone you're with really happy, and shooting yourself down like that just breaks my heart :(

[Milkyway64]

Oh. You funny guy. We're on the internet, we barely know each other, plus as I already said, shes a million miles above me. We are just friends atm. Even if something went horriblely wrong (or right) and she did ask me out on a date. I would have to decline because she's to nice and as a result someone as negative as me would be really bad for her I think. She needs a knight on horseback, not jabba the hut on a skateboard.

To be fair, Jabba the Hut on a skateboard sounds fan-fuckin'-tastic. =D

PS: Physical appearance doesn't mean much to girls, it helps but it isn't the be all and end all. Non-shallow girls like two things, good-personality and COOKING. Girls love guys who can cook.

To repeat Sabre, it does. Girls care as much as guys do, but also like guys they will date someone less than perfect, especially if you have redeeming qualities.

[DoctorAllosaurus]

Sabre if you think you aren't good enough for anybody, why don't you try to change your outlook on things. You say you aren't physically fit, do something about it. You say that you're too negative, well then stop thinking negative and focus on the good things in life, its alot easier than you think.

I'm not trying to come down on you and if it sounds that way I'm sorry, but I'm quite sick of good people putting themselves down for minor things they can easily change.

I know if some girl showed at least a little bit of interest in me, I'd do everything in my power just to change my circumstances.

[Fira-Astrali]

You say that you're too negative, well then stop thinking negative and focus on the good things in life, its alot easier than you think.

im gunna pipe up and say that's not true. Changing the way you think is one of the hardest things you can do, because thought patterns, especially negative ones, are extremely well worn habits that are tough to break out of. Just ask Asper, the poor guy's been helping me to struggle through that for a long time.

I'm not saying that it's not 100% worth it, but let's not downplay how hard it can be.

[DoctorAllosaurus]

im gunna pipe up and say that's not true. Changing the way you think is one of the hardest things you can do, because thought patterns, especially negative ones, are extremely well worn habits that are tough to break out of. Just ask Asper, the poor guy's been helping me to struggle through that for a long time.

I'm not saying that it's not 100% worth it, but let's not downplay how hard it can be.

I'm just talking from experience. I used to be way too negative, almost to the point where I was going to do something I might've regretted. But you're right, it really wasn't fair of me to say that, everyone moves at there own pace.

[Sabre]

Thanks for all the kind words guys. I suspect you would feel differently if you ever met me in person. I apprecidate it anyway.

You say you aren't physically fit, do something about it. You say that you're too negative, well then stop thinking negative and focus on the good things in life, its alot easier than you think.

I'm not trying to come down on you and if it sounds that way I'm sorry, but I'm quite sick of good people putting themselves down for minor things they can easily change.

I know if some girl showed at least a little bit of interest in me, I'd do everything in my power just to change my circumstances.

By 'fit' I mean a good looking body. Even at peak fitness I am still seen as a fat bloke even if I can tear a guy in 2. So no, it can't be changed. The rest of what I was going to say you have already addressed.

Aw come on Sabre! I hear my cousin Dusty and my best friend Nathan talk like that about themselves all the time, and it makes me sad. You can't think badly about yourself and refuse to take action, or that is exactly what will come true! Be more confident!

When I talk myself up people tell me to not be cocky. Catch 22 I guess.

LKNDIUNIKNUIFDNPOSDFNMSODLNGOIU!!!?!?!?!

You won't go on a date with a girl that's shallow because you want something deeper, but you wouldn't go out with a nice girl because she's to good for you? Sabre come on hun, don't do that to yourself. From what I've seen you'd try your best to make anyone you're with really happy, and shooting yourself down like that just breaks my heart

Aww. cheer up. Although I am seeing the flaw in my possision. I guess I don't think my best is good enough. That said we are talking about a hypothetical relationship with redeemer here, not a real one. Now that I think about it I can't think of anyone I liked in RL who fit this criteria. Maybe I'm just talking out of my arse or something. I'll have to think about this some more.

[StarFoxfan-FUR_ever]

So, Sabre is confused? ...because he's questioning what he wants in a girl?

[Matrilwood]

No six pack body = no dates... jabba the hut on a skateboard.

It's that sort of thinking that is holding you back. Look at me, I'm a skinny little runt, and I'm on my second Girl-Friend. And I know of about 10 that wanted to date me. Although it could just mean you're into shallow women. Also I learned the thing about cooking from my mom, and it worked in practice with my 1st GF who seemed to get turned on when ever I cooked something for her.

[Sabre]

So, Sabre is confused? ...because he's questioning what he wants in a girl?

Why is that a problem?

It's that sort of thinking that is holding you back. Look at me, I'm a skinny little runt, and I'm on my second Girl-Friend. And I know of about 10 that wanted to date me. Although it could just mean you're into shallow women. Also I learned the thing about cooking from my mom, and it worked in practice with my 1st GF who seemed to get turned on when ever I cooked something for her.

Hmm. Maybe your right, or ...

"I'm a skinny"

"GF who seemed to get turned on when ever I cooked something for her."

Maybe it could be that? Just a wild guess.

[Matrilwood]

If what you are saying that all the skinny people get all the girls was true, then my mother's side of the family would have become extinct. You have to find a girl that's attracted to you, and that you are attracted to her. From what you are saying, appearance is not one of your strengths. You have to play by your strengths. And most importantly, self confidence. A really handsome guy with no self confidence will be ignored by any potential women.

Write down a list of your strengths and all the good things about you. Then write down a list of your flaws. When you are aware of your strengths and weaknesses you can allow for your weaknesses and let everyone know about your strengths, without bragging of course. Bragging is a major turn off.

My strengths;

Can play piano

Can cook

I'm smart

...

My weaknesses

Is very nervouse outside my friend group

Geek syndrome

...

You should also write a list of qualities your perfect girl would have

Red Hair

Intelligent

Not self conscious about her body image

...

You won't find a girl with all these qualities (If you do then you've just found your perfect girl' date=' and should do your best to make her yours [without trying so hard you lose her']) but if some of these qualities you find in a girl, and some of the qualities she seems to like you have, then maybe you should ask her out.

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Or you could send an add in the classified section and hope for the best. It worked for my current girl-friend and I have yet to find something I don't like about her.

[Milkyway64]

You won't find a girl with all these qualities (If you do then you've just found your perfect girl, and should do your best to make her yours [without trying so hard you lose her])

moar like if you do find a girl with all those qualities you won't have her mirite

[Matrilwood]

No not necessarily Milky, see the reason you're attracted to her is because you are compatible with her. (I'm smart, so I think smart girls are hot) So if you're compatible with her, she's compatible with you.

My belief is, act yourself (to an extend), if you have to lie about who you are to get her to like you, you're looking in the wrong place. Also if you meet your perfect girl, that could be considered a "True-Love" situation, and chances are you are her perfect man.

He is succulent cactus man, she is succulent cactus woman, the succulents were made for each other.

[Sabre]

If what you are saying that all the skinny people get all the girls was true, then my mother's side of the family would have become extinct. You have to find a girl that's attracted to you, and that you are attracted to her. From what you are saying, appearance is not one of your strengths. You have to play by your strengths. And most importantly, self confidence. A really handsome guy with no self confidence will be ignored by any potential women.

Write down a list of your strengths and all the good things about you. Then write down a list of your flaws. When you are aware of your strengths and weaknesses you can allow for your weaknesses and let everyone know about your strengths, without bragging of course. Bragging is a major turn off.

You should also write a list of qualities your perfect girl would have

You won't find a girl with all these qualities (If you do then you've just found your perfect girl, and should do your best to make her yours [without trying so hard you lose her]) but if some of these qualities you find in a girl, and some of the qualities she seems to like you have, then maybe you should ask her out.

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Or you could send an add in the classified section and hope for the best. It worked for my current girl-friend and I have yet to find something I don't like about her.

Of course. Then afterwards we make a tower/bridge out of paper.

Seriously though that's complete and utter bollocks and you know it.

[Matrilwood]

Then afterwards we make a tower/bridge out of paper.

I've done that IRL. Ok it was a small bridge (Only 10cm high and 30cm across) but I still did it. Also I read all that from the book, so the book can't be wrong.

["User"]

It's that sort of thinking that is holding you back. Look at me, I'm a skinny little runt, and I'm on my second Girl-Friend. And I know of about 10 that wanted to date me.

I'll going to have to agree with this, since I'm sure I have the same build as Matrilwood here (only a bit taller).  I've also had some girl recently that has had the hot for guys that were " smart, tall, and scrawny" because and she's recently wanted me to stay a couple of nights at her house - of course I refused because I already have a GF.  In addition, it also helped that she plays competitive laser tag and finds guys with the same interest a turn on.

[Thu'um]

Cool last few pages. Sorry i'm to busy to post here as often.

Anyway, i'm just not to intrested in Emily any more. I'm starting to see we are very diffrent.

[Sabre]

So it's over?