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:oops: Any way...I don't no whats going on with Emily. She felrts with me in some classes, amd doesn't in others. Mabye because she around diffrent teachers, or friends.

Have you talked to her about this?

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Had an excellent evening with Nataliya again.  Played Wii and Guitar Hero than watched T.V. while all snuggled up.  Quite a passionate time...  I'm beginning to realize more and more that spending time with my GF is much more fun and worthwhile than dealing with furry related drama on message boards (although perhaps not as "memorable")

Movies tomorrow night!

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Well, just when I thought I've seen it all....

Remember how I was going all "Waaaah! My ex officially dumped me" a while ago? Well, she contacted me the other day. But here's the catch. In order to contact me over the internet, she un-blocked me on a website we both use. She tells me how she's had time to think about things and that she is sorry for ending our past conversation by taking her anger out on me and blocking me after saying terrible things. Now she wants my attention more than ever. It's like I couldn't speak to her one day, and the next day I get a message from her asking what happened to me?

Even if this really is a miracle of sorts, and she really does want this to work, I don't know where to take this. Long story short, she wants me to visit her in person at her place, prefferably within the next month. And she keeps mentioning it as if it's the only thing on her mind.

Maybe I'm being a jerk, but we haven't spoken for (a year?)....and she suddenly wants to open up to me? She claims she just wants to be good friends, but I think she might be trying to get back together with me. Yet somehow I feel like something is wrong with the whole picture. She said something along the lines of (not exact quote) :

"I honestly don't ever want to be in a relationship/marriage with someone and the idea of having kids is not exactly on my 'to-do list'. But if I ever do have a change of heart, I'll let you know right away."

^^^Anyone else think this sounds a little fishy? I could use some advice on this.

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Alright, time for Dr. Kage to step in lol.

But seriously, if she wants to talk, you should really go over there and talk to her, I mean, let her know what's on your mind, tell her pretty much what you told us, maybe word it better to fit the situation.  But I mean, if you want this to work too, you would have to be understanding, no?  So, I think the best thing to do would be to set up a time and day to meet her, and just let her do the talking for a bit, listen intently, then tell her what's on your mind.

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Well, just when I thought I've seen it all....

Remember how I was going all "Waaaah! My ex officially dumped me" a while ago? Well, she contacted me the other day. But here's the catch. In order to contact me over the internet, she un-blocked me on a website we both use. She tells me how she's had time to think about things and that she is sorry for ending our past conversation by taking her anger out on me and blocking me after saying terrible things. Now she wants my attention more than ever. It's like I couldn't speak to her one day, and the next day I get a message from her asking what happened to me?

Even if this really is a miracle of sorts, and she really does want this to work, I don't know where to take this. Long story short, she wants me to visit her in person at her place, prefferably within the next month. And she keeps mentioning it as if it's the only thing on her mind.

Maybe I'm being a jerk, but we haven't spoken for (a year?)....and she suddenly wants to open up to me? She claims she just wants to be good friends, but I think she might be trying to get back together with me. Yet somehow I feel like something is wrong with the whole picture. She said something along the lines of (not exact quote) :

"I honestly don't ever want to be in a relationship/marriage with someone and the idea of having kids is not exactly on my 'to-do list'. But if I ever do have a change of heart, I'll let you know right away."

^^^Anyone else think this sounds a little fishy? I could use some advice on this.

This sounds SUPER sketchy to me. I've had something similar happen to me, and my motto: Fool me once, shame on you. Maybe it'll turn out to be a great thing, but I don't know if i would give her a chance to fool you twice.

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Well, just when I thought I've seen it all....

Remember how I was going all "Waaaah! My ex officially dumped me" a while ago? Well, she contacted me the other day. But here's the catch. In order to contact me over the internet, she un-blocked me on a website we both use. She tells me how she's had time to think about things and that she is sorry for ending our past conversation by taking her anger out on me and blocking me after saying terrible things. Now she wants my attention more than ever. It's like I couldn't speak to her one day, and the next day I get a message from her asking what happened to me?

Even if this really is a miracle of sorts, and she really does want this to work, I don't know where to take this. Long story short, she wants me to visit her in person at her place, prefferably within the next month. And she keeps mentioning it as if it's the only thing on her mind.

Maybe I'm being a jerk, but we haven't spoken for (a year?)....and she suddenly wants to open up to me? She claims she just wants to be good friends, but I think she might be trying to get back together with me. Yet somehow I feel like something is wrong with the whole picture. She said something along the lines of (not exact quote) :

"I honestly don't ever want to be in a relationship/marriage with someone and the idea of having kids is not exactly on my 'to-do list'. But if I ever do have a change of heart, I'll let you know right away."

^^^Anyone else think this sounds a little fishy? I could use some advice on this.

you have to ask your self, what are the benfits and what are the down falls? is it going to be worth it, and could it ever work?
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Weeeeell....After getting dumped by my previous GF, I asked out another one.... REJECTION!

But, IDGAF cause there's plenty more out there. :P

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Weeeeell....After getting dumped by my previous GF, I asked out another one.... REJECTION!

But, IDGAF cause there's plenty more out there. :P

Indeed! :)  You have to know the right places to find them though. :P

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Indeed! :)  You have to know the right places to find them though. :P

Bars usually work :P

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Bars usually work :P

Maybe for one night stands, but not as effective for...you know...actual long term relationships.  :wink:

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Aren't you too young for a bar xD?, last time I remember,  you were like...15 or 16?

Obviously he's going to be outside the bar getting someone else to do his work.....  :cool:

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Obviously he's going to be outside the bar getting someone else to do his work.....  :cool:

Having a family that delivers beer, I think I can manage to sneak in :P

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:lol: wow at the last few posts

So...AJC, any latest news on your search for love in your life? :)

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So...AJC, any latest news on your search for love in your life? :)

During winter break? No. But not much has bin going on in school, or any where else anyway. I really have lost intrest in most girs at my school. i am just waiting for high school
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During winter break? No. But not much has bin going on in school, or any where else anyway. I really have lost intrest in most girs at my school. i am just waiting for high school

I know what you mean there.

A lot of the girls at my school watch too much Jersey Shore.

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Alright, well I just put my partner in crime back on a plane to Norway. Gotta say, this was the best christmas break of my life so far. Two weeks went by all to fast :( Everything we did, it was more fun because I had a partner in crime :) I've never had so much fun wrapping presents and christmas shopping and running around toronto and just sitting around and watching tv and HUGGLING! We spent pretty much the last two days just cuddling and getting as much of each other as we could. We are already talking about summer plans. I was surprised how little I cried when I had to let him get on the plane. It was so hard to watch him walk away, when I couldn't follow him, but after he got away I was okay.

Probably will hit me tommorrow when he's not there to wake me up

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Haven't seen my girl since early December. Brother is suspicious that she dumped me. But if she did that she would have made it obvious. I literally haven't heard of her where-abouts since the 8th of December.

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Haven't seen my girl since early December. Brother is suspicious that she dumped me. But if she did that she would have made it obvious. I literally haven't heard of her where-abouts since the 8th of December.

Can't you call her, or try to see if she on Facebook or Twitter?

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@phenom64 I don't know her phone number (New GirlFriend) and her Facebook page is idle

@Sabre 8th of December. Work on your math.

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Ease down guys. We don't need any bickering.

Alright, well I just put my partner in crime back on a plane to Norway. Gotta say, this was the best christmas break of my life so far. Two weeks went by all to fast :( Everything we did, it was more fun because I had a partner in crime :) I've never had so much fun wrapping presents and christmas shopping and running around toronto and just sitting around and watching tv and HUGGLING! We spent pretty much the last two days just cuddling and getting as much of each other as we could. We are already talking about summer plans. I was surprised how little I cried when I had to let him get on the plane. It was so hard to watch him walk away, when I couldn't follow him, but after he got away I was okay.

Probably will hit me tommorrow when he's not there to wake me up

Wow, this sounds remarkably similar to how my christmas break went! Except I was the one having to leave and... hang on a minute...

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Wow, this sounds remarkably similar to how my christmas break went! Except I was the one having to leave and... hang on a minute...

:D good one!

I know what you mean there.

A lot of the girls at my school watch too much Jersey Shore.

its not just that....
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