DoctorAllosaurus Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 A little late but things went pretty well, except for the fact that she already has a boyfriend... (I swear, whenever I'm remotely interested in somebody, they're already with somebody else) It sucks too because we have a lot in common. Anywho, we're still gonna hang and out and do stuff, once we both have money and the same day off, we're gonna hit up Six Flags. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 All the girls I like end up living in the USA. One girl, I even remember saying she was Australian, then just as she was about to agree to go out with me, she said she lived in fucking FLORIDA. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uA_zG7n-tVI&feature=related Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asper Sarnoff Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 All the girls I like end up living in the USA. One girl, I even remember saying she was Australian, then just as she was about to agree to go out with me, she said she lived in fucking FLORIDA. http://www.youtube.c...feature=related Why should distance stop you from entering a relationship? It demands a lot more from both parties, but it's definatively workable if ones comitted to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 I've had 4 LDRs and 0 SDRs. For a moment I thought I might have been able to have a normal relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fox Posted July 2, 2011 Share Posted July 2, 2011 I like a girl in my grade, but she only likes me as a friend. lol, i'm texting her atm what should i do about that? :? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted July 2, 2011 Share Posted July 2, 2011 I still don't have a girlfriend. YAY. join the party I like a girl in my grade, but she only likes me as a friend. lol, i'm texting her atm what should i do about that? i wanna say tell her you liker her, but it might creep her out that you were friends and didn't tell her or somthing. you know girls! what are you gonna do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted July 2, 2011 Share Posted July 2, 2011 It gets worse, she's not the touchy feely type of girl. Which makes it even harder for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoctorAllosaurus Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 I'm just done, there's nobody for me in this world... I've been broken for the last time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluxy Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 I'm just done, there's nobody for me in this world... I've been broken for the last time. There shall be nobody for you with that attitude, Mr.. Gotta keep at it and show de'm women who has a big'ol pair of pants. In all seriousness, your young, you got plenty of time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 We broke up. GFs are supposed make life happy, but she just made me miserable. She made it seem like everything I did was wrong and evil. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sonic-Canis Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 man iv been broken too lolz i when into basic.... HA from the start.. i was seing this girl her name was stacy she was a cute blond we liked the same things we where both 16 we started dating at the age 17 we we like the pirfict couple at the age of 18 i enlisted in the army 3 months later i shiped out.... then i went on my tour i wrote her every day and about 2 weeks ago when i got back she told me she was prengnate with a child.. turns out the story she told me didnt add up and she was cheating on me for 2 years the ENITRE TIME I WAS IN IRAQ damn and just guess whos the father my BEST FRIEND GRRRRRR well anywho i think love is crap it always ends up being something good then it ends up stabing youin the back,............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 The wierd thing is, I feel in love. Which is the opposite to what you're supposed to feel when you break up with someone :\ I should be more picky with the girls I date. I tend to pick a target and recklessly dive right into a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psygonis Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 Love (and life in general) is a bit#h, but it is somehow one of these things you can't get away from for long... Even if it happens to hurt eventually, it still brings emotions and memories that other things can't provide. So well... Get back on your feet, you got a life to live! ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted July 23, 2011 Share Posted July 23, 2011 Love (and life in general) is a bit#h, but it is somehow one of these things you can't get away from for long... Even if it happens to hurt eventually, it still brings emotions and memories that other things can't provide. So well... Get back on your feet, you got a life to live! Maybe, but the reason why you can't get away from is the problem. That's for another thread though. Saying "get back on your feet" is a bit like telling a depressed person to lighten up, or saying "hop to it" to a man whos lost a leg. It's insulting at worst, and not helping at best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psygonis Posted July 24, 2011 Share Posted July 24, 2011 Saying "stand up" to an actual guy affected by depression is an undocumented useless line, I agree, because full-fledged depression is an illness and downsides of their point of view can't be overcome using "common-sense" and so on... Love-related things don't make people medically depressed (but can trigger such states in predisposed people though), so no, it's not the same thing, and I do believe still better that replying things like "U MAD? " and so on and so forth! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drasiana Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Nothing like a national tragedy to reenforce one's feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Nothing like a national tragedy to reenforce one's feelings. Which one? I can only think of 1 atm and I wouldn't call the feeling re-enforcing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 I've decided to stick to shipping (Reading romantic fanfiction), because unlike real life, shipping defies the laws of... What ever laws love and relationships apply to. The guy always get's the girl and they live happily ever after. Or in the case of the story I just finished reading, the girl gets the girl and the guy is left kicking up dirt in frustration. (He was my least favourite character anyway) I get the exact same kicks out of shipping as I do out of a real relationship. But there is no hurt, because that would make for very bad shipping. I know it's a withdrawn thing to do, but I've suffered so much and so many heart-breaks that I kind of don't want to go down the path of a real relationship again, because I know it will always end in hurt. And because I live in the past and not the present, it's the end result that is most important to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 Which one? I can only think of 1 atm and I wouldn't call the feeling re-enforcing. I'm pretty sure she's referring to what went on in Norway with that guy who massacred 70 something people. It's been all over world news for the past week or so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 discovered a girls i use to like as some of u may remember as Lucy tried to date one of my friends to get me to ask her out or make me jealous or somthing, but i didn't know so and it didn't work so she just dumped him. When i did find out i crossed her out. this was about three days ago Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I've decided to stick to shipping, because unlike real life, shipping defies the laws of... What ever laws love and relationships apply to. The guy always get's the girl and they live happily ever after. Or in the case of the story I just finished reading, the girl gets the girl and the guy is left kicking up dirt in frustration. (He was my least favourite character anyway) I get the exact same kicks out of shipping as I do out of a real relationship. But there is no hurt, because that would make for very bad shipping. I know it's a withdrawn thing to do, but I've suffered so much and so many heart-breaks that I kind of don't want to go down the path of a real relationship again, because I know it will always end in hurt. And because I live in the past and not the present, it's the end result that is most important to me. I know various meanings for the word shipping. None make sence in this context. You mean writing fanfics? I'm pretty sure she's referring to what went on in Norway with that guy who massacred 70 something people. It's been all over world news for the past week or so. That's the one I was thinking of. (I've heard a rumour that American media stopped caring when it was revealed he wasn't a muslim.) I don't see what that has to do with re-enforcing feelings though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drasiana Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 My boyfriend lives in Norway, I freaked the hell out, priorities, etc. Case and point he's not dead and I'm eternally thankful, carry on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I hate it when my GFs disappear for weeks without a word of explanation. It's what caused me to break up with my 3rd GF, I didn't even get a chance to break up with her in person, I had to send her a PM on FaceBook. This was after 2 months. Edited my last post for clarity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FoxMcCloud Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 My boyfriend lives in Norway, I freaked the hell out, priorities, etc. Case and point he's not dead and I'm eternally thankful, carry on. I am glad to hear that. My girlfriend is currently back home and I am 3 hours away. We are attempting the Long distance thing of 3 hours. I usually take the train home, and things have been tough lately and I have not been able to take the train home as much as I want to. I don't have a car yet, but that will change this quarter. I know that my girlfriend and I will be able to work out the Long distance thing. Thankfully to Skype we usually skype every few nights and keep in touch. I really don't have any concerns, but for some of you lovebirds who are attempting the Long distance relationship, what are some of the ways you guys deal with the long distance away from each other? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I hate it when my GFs disappear for weeks without a word of explanation. It's what caused me to break up with my 3rd GF, I didn't even get a chance to break up with her in person, I had to send her a PM on FaceBook. This was after 2 months. I know how you feel as I had to go through something like this with one of my ex's. I am glad to hear that. My girlfriend is currently back home and I am 3 hours away. We are attempting the Long distance thing of 3 hours. I usually take the train home, and things have been tough lately and I have not been able to take the train home as much as I want to. I don't have a car yet, but that will change this quarter. I know that my girlfriend and I will be able to work out the Long distance thing. Thankfully to Skype we usually skype every few nights and keep in touch. I really don't have any concerns, but for some of you lovebirds who are attempting the Long distance relationship, what are some of the ways you guys deal with the long distance away from each other? From my experience what I did was plan occasional trips to see them and vice versa, although I know not everyone can afford to do that. Also, lots and lots of talking on the phone. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts