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Thanks guys, but yesterday she said we should break up. I was too distraught to post here, and still can't help but just cry when I think of us in the past. I ended up getting scared for her safety when I got some shifty texts from her, so I did what I thought was the smart decision and told her mother. This just pissed her off and she broke contact. This made me very angry at myself, so angry I reared back and hit my concrete wall, several times. This led to a badly sprained right hand, several slashed and bleeding knuckles, and virtually no emotional change. Today, I'm a lot calmer, and last night she agreed to stay close. I'm hoping for us to get back together but I don't know how likely that is. It's hard to text her without saying "I love you" or putting hearts after my messages, but it's better than not being able to talk to her. I wouldn't be able to stand that. I just don't know what's going to happen.

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I offer my condolences Arashikage, I am sorry to hear of your situation.

I also have something of my own going on. You guys in the TF2 community know who Sassy is, right? Well, for all intents purposes I have a long-distance relationship with her, for the moment at least. With that said however, there will be a day when we meet in actuality, just like you have all suggested.

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Alright, well, I guess it's time to put my chip in the bucket.

Me and a girl named Jessica met in 8th grade when for whatever reason she signed my yearbook. We ended up communicating through DeviantArt for several years, as we didn't have any shared classes. We found that we had a lot in common as far as preferences go. Eventually it came up that I was a furry, but she was surprisingly accepting of that. Our mutual geekiness made us fast friends.

Last October I asked her to the Homecoming dance. She gladly accepted, and we had a good time watching people dance awkwardly and making our own attempts at dancing. That December I asked her out to a movie (The 2nd Sherlock Holmes, she's a big fan. Good movie, actually), then again for valentine's day. Our local "tribute to your city's heritage" carnival came around and I finally fessed up that I love her over a giant brick of fresh curly fries.

Not only have I acquired a girlfriend, but also an affinity for curly fries.

So yeah. That's my story.

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just wondering, jealous?

If yes, I can add Lord O Donnell to the ever growing list of people who have tried to seduce me.

Alright, well, I guess it's time to put my chip in the bucket.

Me and a girl named Jessica met in 8th grade when for whatever reason she signed my yearbook. We ended up communicating through DeviantArt for several years, as we didn't have any shared classes. We found that we had a lot in common as far as preferences go. Eventually it came up that I was a furry, but she was surprisingly accepting of that. Our mutual geekiness made us fast friends.

Last October I asked her to the Homecoming dance. She gladly accepted, and we had a good time watching people dance awkwardly and making our own attempts at dancing. That December I asked her out to a movie (The 2nd Sherlock Holmes, she's a big fan. Good movie, actually), then again for valentine's day. Our local "tribute to your city's heritage" carnival came around and I finally fessed up that I love her over a giant brick of fresh curly fries.

Not only have I acquired a girlfriend, but also an affinity for curly fries.

So yeah. That's my story.

Cheers LoneWolf
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If yes, I can add Lord O Donnell to the ever growing list of people who have tried to seduce me.

lol, as funny as that joke is, i ment jealous of you for being with sassy
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lol, as funny as that joke is, i ment jealous of you for being with sassy

He doesn't know her, since he is not part of the Steam SF-O community.
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If yes, I can add Lord O Donnell to the ever growing list of people who have tried to seduce me.

Holy hell I lol'd hard here. XD

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Well call me an idiot, remember way back when I was acting like a complete crybaby over this girl I have feelings for? Turns out we started talking again, and quite a bit. It's interesting...at times I find she will send me about 5 texts in a row talking about alot of different things before asking if I even got her texts to respond. So basically, weeks go by, and she's opening up about many concerns she has, which i had not even known about prior. She says she dosen't want our other friends getting ideas about us possibly getting back together, and that confuses me (especially since they know how close we were)

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Welp, it is official. Bailey and I are done. I found out through my sisters Facebook (because she blocked me when she broke up with me) that she has found another guy. Now if you'll excuse me I have to go listen to loud music, play video games, eat massive amounts of junk food, and ignore the outside world for approximately *checks watch* 3 days at the least.

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Welp, it is official. Bailey and I are done. I found out through my sisters Facebook (because she blocked me when she broke up with me) that she has found another guy. Now if you'll excuse me I have to go listen to loud music, play video games, eat massive amounts of junk food, and ignore the outside world for approximately *checks watch* 3 days at the least.

Your friends at SF-O are here for you.
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Your friends at SF-O are here for you.

That means a lot. It really does. Thank you.

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That does seem a little bit too sudden and abrupt , after all, you both had a story for what I remember in your past posts in this topic. Sorry to hear that =/

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Yea, I'm still trying to put 2 and 2 together on that one too. But it's like I said. It is what it is, and frankly I have bigger things on my plate at the moment.

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Forgive me for the double post but I have an update. She finally called me and we had a chance to clear the air. Honestly I'm rather proud of how I handled myself. I didn't get worked up and I didn't break down. I just stated my piece and told her I just want her to be happy. We agreed to keep in touch at my request. I know I'm walking a fine line with it but I still need her right now, just as someone I can talk to. Maybe I'm a sap but as long as she'll listen I'll always trust her enough to be a shoulder I can lean on when I need to get stuff off my chest.

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Been in the best mood the past few days, and the primary contribution is with this coworker I mentioned several posts ago. Out of nowhere, she suddenly started sparking up conversations with me, and since I'm in a deep crush with this girl, of course I went along with it. It's been so great talking again, kind of like when you run into that best friend you hadn't talked to in years. Hell, she even wants to go to Knotfest with me in August (come to find out she's a huge Deftones fan). Assuming she works tomorrow, I might ask her out and see if she wants go see a movie, as she seemed very curious about Moonrise Kingdom...as I'm kind of a shy guy (and still taking caution with our friendship), I might not get the courage to ask her out (though I wouldn't play it off like asking out on a date), but if I do, crossing my fingers!

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Forgive me for the double post but I have an update. She finally called me and we had a chance to clear the air. Honestly I'm rather proud of how I handled myself. I didn't get worked up and I didn't break down. I just stated my piece and told her I just want her to be happy. We agreed to keep in touch at my request. I know I'm walking a fine line with it but I still need her right now, just as someone I can talk to. Maybe I'm a sap but as long as she'll listen I'll always trust her enough to be a shoulder I can lean on when I need to get stuff off my chest.

Leaving a relationship off bitter is never a good idea. If I ever break up with my current mate, I'd like to stay friends as well. Having someone to support you is important. Good luck, man.

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I have a girlfriend that lives pretty far away, I've been with her before in past years, but never told her how I felt about her until recently.

We have a lot in common, she's a huge gamer like myself, and we hope to stay as them too. She's also a big fan of Starfox so I want to try to introduce her

to this community, but we'll see. :-)

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I have a girlfriend that lives pretty far away, I've been with her before in past years, but never told her how I felt about her until recently.

We have a lot in common, she's a huge gamer like myself, and we hope to stay as them too. She's also a big fan of Starfox so I want to try to introduce her

to this community, but we'll see. :-)

She would sure be welcome here. :)

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She would sure be welcome here. :-)

Why thank you. :-)

I'll see what I can do to convince her

that this place is awesome.

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Why thank you. :-)

I'll see what I can do to convince her

that this place is awesome.

It IS awesome. It's where I met my other half. ;)

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That's great! I wish the best for you and him.

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You're such a sweetheart, thank you so much. Almost 10 months for us. :3

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That's great! I wish the best for you and him.

That's really sweet of you, thank you!

Yeah, tell her to give this forum a chance! We're all nice here :3

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