Cavemonkynick Posted April 15, 2014 Share Posted April 15, 2014 I've been a bit hesitant to talk about this because I didn't know if it would take, but a few weeks ago I attempted to contact Bailey for the first time in over six months. On my end it was a last ditch attempt to let go for good. For all my whining about the break up and trying to pin everything on her, I wasn't exactly a model boyfriend. I'd been holding on to all of these things I'd done, ignoring them because of how she'd shut me out. So I laid it all out, apologized for my part, and let it all go. For the next two days I felt a little better, like I'd taken a step towards putting my life back together, and I had. Then something I wasn't expecting happened. She replied. More than that, she honest to god reached out to me. She did some apologizing of her own and confessed that she'd been a bit of a wreck ever since everything went down as well. We came to the agreement that while as long as we're apart things will never work out romantically, and they probably wouldn't even if she did come home for good, but despite all of that hating each other was too much work. So we're friends now. It's still kind of awkward. We've agreed to be honest with each other and in doing so it's become painfully obvious that I miss us more than she does but at this point it's just nice to know she misses me at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphire Posted April 24, 2014 Author Share Posted April 24, 2014 Geez, is this topic still up and running? It's been like...4 years! xD Anyways, I don't remember which girlfriend I had when I made this, but she was not "the one", I assure you. Actually, I don't remember how many "ones" I've had since then. As of right now, I may be about to hook up with this really sweet girl I went to high school with, we'll see how that turns out. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gestalt Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 Geez, is this topic still up and running? It's been like...4 years! xD Hey, welcome to the OP elitist club Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphire Posted April 24, 2014 Author Share Posted April 24, 2014 Hey, welcome to the OP elitist club And what is that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emiko Gale Posted May 10, 2014 Share Posted May 10, 2014 I miss my boyfriend so much...Even though I talk to him a lot over the phone I'm sandwiched in between the land of fried chicken and the bible belt (it sucks over here!) and he's in California. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gestalt Posted May 10, 2014 Share Posted May 10, 2014 Fried chicken is staple to any healthy diet. And what is that? The tale of the mighty non-pigeons is a rather laborious account. Maybe at some other time, i shall grace you with enlightenment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emiko Gale Posted May 11, 2014 Share Posted May 11, 2014 I'd prefer chicken without any bread crumbs thank you very much! And for some random relationship advice from the great Emiko Gale...You know you made the right choice when the it seems that with each day that passes by you fall more in love with the person you're with. With my boyfriend by my side...In spirit! I discover new stuff each day! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gestalt Posted May 11, 2014 Share Posted May 11, 2014 I know, I lied..grilled is much better. My god..loss of apatite, stomach flutters, throbbing emotion. I never thought I'd love again, but surely today, I'm madly in love again... with myself You dazzler, you. ^being extremely serious here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Orange Posted May 11, 2014 Share Posted May 11, 2014 Plebs. You must learn to love the beef side of life. My only beating heart goes out to the glorious meat of Beef. For it is my all, it is my being. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scourge Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 So.. everyone remembers a few months back when I said I was getting along great with a girl in my class? Yeah, turns out she has a boyfriend and has just been leading me on for free dates for free food so she didn't have to pay. Forever alone Scourgie, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patch93 Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 I really, and I mean REALLY, do not give two shits about this thread. However, and has just been leading me on for free dates for free food so she didn't have to pay. Just WHAT and HOW in the actual fuck? This shit just proves how stupid most teenagers are these days and I am ashamed to be associated with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 So.. everyone remembers a few months back when I said I was getting along great with a girl in my class? Yeah, turns out she has a boyfriend and has just been leading me on for free dates for free food so she didn't have to pay. Forever alone Scourgie, What really? Aw shit, I'm so sorry. This is why I was like "pls be careful" because anything can happen and I myself have made a similar mistake before. Just forget her, you're obviously too good for her and she must not even feel much for her current boyfriend to even consider dating someone else, be it for free food or whatever. That is not a good person to be with, and you're better off without. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arashikage Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 Why not tell her boyfriend she's been messing around, rip them apart with a pair of stainless steel pliers? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 Why not tell her boyfriend she's been messing around, rip them apart with a pair of stainless steel pliers? Two wrongs don't make a right, I would advise against that personally, not to sound mama-hen-like or anything. She'll get whatever karma has in store for her later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scourge Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 As much as I'd want to, turns out she was doing it to save cash for some vacation to the beach the two of them were planning and that this kinda thing is common with them go figure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 As much as I'd want to, turns out she was doing it to save cash for some vacation to the beach the two of them were planning and that this kinda thing is common with them go figure "Yeah honey we need to save money for a vacation so we'll both date other people okay?" Whatever, as long as you're not the one paying for their weird ass excuse for a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Orange Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 Scum of the Earth will be scum of the Earth Scourge. At least when they're working for you in the future you can make them do menial jobs and shit. That or just tell them off. I did that once. Felt good. I got you bro. <3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Owner/Technical Admin Sideways Posted August 6, 2014 Owner/Technical Admin Share Posted August 6, 2014 So I had a date with a co-worker yesterday. Went to a local mall, had lunch at ruby tuesday, then went to see Guardians of the Galaxy at a small town movie theater. It was really fun, and she told me she'd like to do it again. We're both sorta shy, but I did get to learn about her and it turns out we have alot of the same interests. Some other co-workers, including my direct supervisor, sorta put us up to it, and we did it to get them off our backs and leave us alone. Thing is, I had a lot of fun and I really do like her. I've getting that vibe that she may have the same feelings, so we'll see how this goes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emiko Gale Posted September 12, 2014 Share Posted September 12, 2014 Since I've lived in California for a month now I am now having my first normal relationship. And all gender stereotypes have been broken since one time he was cooking dinner and insisted I play Starfox Adventures. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoneWolf Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 So I'm going long distance with my current girlfriend of two and a half years next Thursday. Four years of hell. Wish me some goddamn luck. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 So I'm going long distance with my current girlfriend of two and a half years next Thursday. Four years of hell. Wish me some goddamn luck. I spent 7.5 years on a long distance relationship before finally getting married, so it does work. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drasiana Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Yeah long distance ain't bad when you've still got a lot to talk about! Faisul and I are on...what, year 4? And doing good! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Long distance isn't the end. R3d and I went through it for 2 years and now we live together, and reaching our 3rd anniversary on the 26th of this month. You can do it. You both just need to hold on, remember what's important, and most of all, have patience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Orange Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Give them hell Lone. I've never went long on any of my relationships but if I know anyone who could bring back the golden chalice, you have the cojones to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoneWolf Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 Thanks for all the support, all. Honestly we needed some postitivity to help drown out all of the "it never works" and "rip it off like a band-aid" advice we've been getting for the past few weeks. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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