Love life talk (mature forum version)

[Steve]

So, this place has been quite inactive lately and I remember that some people requested the original topic to be moved to the mature section, so there you go, same topic, just...let's say with less stupidity and drama.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

...and less sniping and insults.

Well, anyways...I'm still looking where I can.  Hoping I don't die alone....

Yeah.

[Kursed]

still hopeing you'll find someone Juilius before I Do.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

still hopeing you'll find someone Juilius before I Do.

Thanks.  I hope you find someone as well, Kursed.

[Sarita]

Sex.

That is all.

(Whew, I feel better now)

EDIT: Steve is being a jerk and forcing me to clarify, thus ruining the funny. I don't mean sex is everything in a relationship, for those of you that don't get the joke, though I think you're all mature enough to figure out my intention. :)

[Steve]

Sex.

That is all.

(Whew, I feel better now)

EDIT: Steve is being a jerk and forcing me to clarify, thus ruining the funny. I don't mean sex is everything in a relationship, for those of you that don't get the joke, though I think you're all mature enough to figure out my intention.

On my defense, I have no knowledge whatsoever about pop culture, so I consider myself naive as a tree when it comes to finding the catch on things like this  :facepalm:

["User"]

Sex.

That is all.

(Whew, I feel better now)

I assume since we are in the mature forum we can discuss more...."mature things" such as this?

Anyways...*ahem* while sex shouldn't be the top priority in a long lasting relationship it FEELS GOOD NONETHELESS.

That is all, until I get off work. :P

[Sabre]

On my defense, I have no knowledge whatsoever about pop culture, so I consider myself naive as a tree when it comes to finding the catch on things like this 

Same, also people assume USA is the 1 pop culture, so while twilight is known over here, it's not as big as harry potter, lord of the rings, or discworld.

So, this place has been quite inactive lately and I remember that some people requested the original topic to be moved to the mature section, so there you go, same topic, just...let's say with less stupidity and drama.

Crap, all my stuff is drama. "No body loves me :'(" ect.

[Steve]

Same, also people assume USA is the 1 pop culture, so while twilight is known over here, it's not as big as harry potter, lord of the rings, or discworld.

Don't tell me about it....Twilight is like a big drug in the US, it's the so called "starwars for ladies", however, I just think it only makes young teenagers more stupid (as proven by the fact that I saw the premier of Eclipse and saw how lots of random teenagers went glee by stupidity on the screen. Also, fact: I was pulled to that crap against my will, no offence, Sissi, you even said you hated the movie so much  ). I have no idea how "good" the books are, but I just know...the movies are raising girls to think "OMG GLEE YOU MUST BE EITHER TOO EMO LIKE EDWARD OR TOO STUPID YET SEXY LIKE JACOB, or else,  you know, like, go away"...really, good work there, it's really like the wii shoveware, somehow, it appeals to the masses and sells, even tho it's too damn stupid and pointless.

Crap, all my stuff is drama. "No body loves me :'(" ect.

Awww, do you need a group hug  ?

[Sabre]

Awww, do you need a group hug  ?

No. I'm good. Everyone has issues. What I lack in looks and love I make up for with smarts and stregth.

[Star Fox Runner]

If you base a relationship on sex, you really need to rethink your priorities. A person who is amazing in bed won't necessarily make a good spouse, as they might be an asshole. You need to connect on a more personal level.

Really, great sex in a relationship is merely a good plus, not the basis of the relationship

[Sabre]

If you base a relationship on sex, you really need to rethink your priorities. A person who is amazing in bed won't necessarily make a good spouse, as they might be an asshole. You need to connect on a more personal level.

Really, great sex in a relationship is merely a good plus, not the basis of the relationship

Indeed. It's like basing a relationship on someone being able to cook.

[Redeemer]

If you base a relationship on sex, you really need to rethink your priorities. A person who is amazing in bed won't necessarily make a good spouse, as they might be an asshole. You need to connect on a more personal level.

Really, great sex in a relationship is merely a good plus, not the basis of the relationship

Agreed. You don't want someone who wants sex all the time anyway, because it means that sex is obviously the number one thing on their mind, and perhaps they are more likely to cheat. It really depends on why they want sex so much. There are at least two reasons:

1) They love sex.

2) They love sex with you.

Your sex drive can vary depending on who you're with, how much you're attracted to them, etc.

[Sabre]

Most likely what you mentioned by point 2, but some people have this (weird) idea that sex is the ultimate expression of love. Unfortunatly such beliefs are bad because people can always use the "You'll do it if you love me" line which, whenever I hear it makes me want to hurt people.

I'm a virgin so I'm not sure, but isn't sex sopposed to be great anyway? I've had this argument with femanists before, but unless you believe sex is sacred, then it's akin to a nice sandwhich. ie. A base craving you can fill in various ways.

[Redeemer]

Hmm, I don't fully believe that sex is the ultimate expression of love. It's more than common for people to go out at night, meet someone, shag their brains out and leave in the morning without the intention of seeing them ever again. But I do believe that sex with someone you love, is an expression of love. However, when your partner wants it several times in the day, that's when I would begin to wonder if it were really out of love. Because there is such as thing as too much, you know? While sex can be a nice thing between a couple, doing it all the time soon turns it into just sex, in my opinion anyway.

It can be enjoyable, but when you're being pestered for it several times during the day, it can piss you right off. It makes me think "What am I, a fleshlight? Stop being so selfish". That's when I begin to question the partner's true interest, and no, I don't fully believe that "Oh he could want it that much because he loves you so much".

I wasn't very good at describing that, but you get my drift?

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Don't tell me about it....Twilight is like a big drug in the US, it's the so called "starwars for ladies", however, I just think it only makes young teenagers more stupid (as proven by the fact that I saw the premier of Eclipse and saw how lots of random teenagers went glee by stupidity on the screen. Also, fact: I was pulled to that crap against my will, no offence, Sissi, you even said you hated the movie so much  ). I have no idea how "good" the books are, but I just know...the movies are raising girls to think "OMG GLEE YOU MUST BE EITHER TOO EMO LIKE EDWARD OR TOO STUPID YET SEXY LIKE JACOB, or else,  you know, like, go away"...really, good work there, it's really like the wii shoveware, somehow, it appeals to the masses and sells, even tho it's too damn stupid and pointless.

Totally.

Also, sex is peddled to young people by amoral corporations, to make money.  As many here have said already, sex isn't love.  True.

There's loving someone, and lusting after someone. 

[Sarita]

I started a discussion. Yay! My evil plan succeeded.

[Kid_Cortet]

Totally.

Also, sex is peddled to young people by amoral corporations, to make money.  As many here have said already, sex isn't love.  True.

There's loving someone, and lusting after someone.

i totally agree...no adays teenagers are wanting sex just to have it...with no meaning...it is quiet sad how often they want it and then turn into teen parents

[Vy'drach]

How have I missed this topic for so long?

Sex.

That is all.

(Whew, I feel better now)

EDIT: Steve is being a jerk and forcing me to clarify, thus ruining the funny. I don't mean sex is everything in a relationship, for those of you that don't get the joke, though I think you're all mature enough to figure out my intention.

Sorry, couldn't resist.

i totally agree...no adays teenagers are wanting sex just to have it...with no meaning...it is quiet sad how often they want it and then turn into teen parents

Was hilarious, and depressing, to see how many girls had kids at my old school, and were pregnant again. Or had three kids and none were twins.

[Kid_Cortet]

Was hilarious, and depressing, to see how many girls had kids at my old school, and were pregnant again. Or had three kids and none were twins.

oooh...i know what you mean...my graduating class had 10 pregnant girls in it...and like...9 others as mothers....

[Guest Julius Quasar]

I got a buddy whose house-mate is making some pretty good money doing phone sex, a 1-900 number, right out of their house (they co-own a house, pay mortgage, not rent...).  Anyhoo, my friends house-mate has a voice altering device built into his phone so he sounds like a female, and he has a separate phone line for the house.  He says he gets plenty of calls, and $$$ for talking to these...lonely males...for hours on end, as he pretends to be a female (creepy, I know, but he makes plenty of $$$).  Even in this bad economy, he still does pretty well, financially.  He doesn't mind talking to these "callers" at all.  (My first time meeting him was when I was visiting my buddy at the house, we were playing Super Mario Bros. Wii, and I got up to use the bathroom, and accidentally walked in on him in the den, while he was..."working").   

[Vy'drach]

I got a buddy whose house-mate is making some pretty good money doing phone sex, a 1-900 number, right out of their house (they co-own a house, pay mortgage, not rent...).  Anyhoo, my friends house-mate has a voice altering device built into his phone so he sounds like a female, and he has a separate phone line for the house.  He says he gets plenty of calls, and $$$ for talking to these...lonely males...for hours on end, as he pretends to be a female (creepy, I know, but he makes plenty of $$$).  Even in this bad economy, he still does pretty well, financially.  He doesn't mind talking to these "callers" at all.  (My first time meeting him was when I was visiting my buddy at the house, we were playing Super Mario Bros. Wii, and I got up to use the bathroom, and accidentally walked in on him in the den, while he was..."working"). 

One way to make a living, to hell with it.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

One way to make a living, to hell with it.

I'll say!

Signed up for a trip with some kids with the State House to travel over to Germany for a week or two.  Redeemer, you best be there or my trip'll be a waste lol

EDIT:  Its this coming summer.

Have fun, dude!

[Redeemer]

Signed up for a trip with some kids with the State House to travel over to Germany for a week or two.  Redeemer, you best be there or my trip'll be a waste lol

EDIT:  Its this coming summer.

Germany? Where will I find the money to get there, I'm in Scotland, UK. No fair, I want to buy you a coffee now. :(

[Sabre]

I got a buddy whose house-mate is making some pretty good money doing phone sex, a 1-900 number, right out of their house (they co-own a house, pay mortgage, not rent...).  Anyhoo, my friends house-mate has a voice altering device built into his phone so he sounds like a female, and he has a separate phone line for the house.  He says he gets plenty of calls, and $$$ for talking to these...lonely males...for hours on end, as he pretends to be a female (creepy, I know, but he makes plenty of $$$).  Even in this bad economy, he still does pretty well, financially.  He doesn't mind talking to these "callers" at all.  (My first time meeting him was when I was visiting my buddy at the house, we were playing Super Mario Bros. Wii, and I got up to use the bathroom, and accidentally walked in on him in the den, while he was..."working"). 

There was a famous documentry years ago of a sex line worker who was kniting or having a cup of tea while getting these guys off.

Germany? Where will I find the money to get there, I'm in Scotland, UK. No fair, I want to buy you a coffee now.

She doesn't mean that. In a week or 2 she will tied up in my attic wearing a blood stained wedding dress. :P