Love life talk (mature forum version)

[Guest Julius Quasar]

There was a famous documentry years ago of a sex line worker who was kniting or having a cup of tea while getting these guys off.

She doesn't mean that. In a week or 2 she will tied up in my attic wearing a blood stained wedding dress.

on both of those!

[Guest Para Astaroth]

Well, getting back on the relationship thing that I nearly went overboard on the normal topics, I just don't get how most guys around/under my age just want to have sex.  It just doesn't make any sense whatsoever!  During my freshman year, I believe I saw about ten or fifteen girls ALREADY pregnant within the first five weeks of school.  I kept an eye on this one chick since she was knocked up all the time -- meaning belly was about to burst -- and after she had her first one, I'll be danged if she didn't get knocked up again the next month!  Then, she was pop-bellied again two months after that pregnancy.  Ever since then, I swore not to have anything to do with the 'sexy-time' unless it was the....  Ya' know, making out stuff.  If it was making out and cuddling, I'm fine and dandy with that; the sexual stuff, uhhhhhh...  I would kind of hesitate at the offer since I'm not that kind of guy.

Some of my pals at school, never going to say their names or anyones since that would be disrespectful and rude, kept asking me why haven't I lost mine and I simply told them this:

"Listen, I'm not all too crazed on the, 'Hey, you wanna f*** this weekend?' 'Sure! Let's do it!' deal.  I don't really find it in any way good to have it since you have, ONE:  The risk of having something you don't know you have yet.  TWO:  It will eventually cause the relationship to crumble and collapse.  THREE:  You're more than likely are going to regret having done it.  So, my rules for myself are to stay as much away from that crap as I possibly can."

They would give me the 'Ok, you're weird' kind of look that people give me everyday, since I'm wearing dark clothing that sticks to me like a tongue on an icy pole, and I just shrug at the looks -- it's a common occurance in my parts. 

How often do you see someone dressed like a skater or emo kid walking down the sidewalk of a red-neck crazed county?  Not very often.  I generally wave at the people staring at me like I've completely losted my mind, and they just give the utmost funniest looks!

[Konchaski]

I've never had romantic feelings for someone, so I probably shouldn't be saying this but I will anyway.

I'm under the notion that we love shallowly, that for a lot of us it's not natural. Most people in Western society want to get into relationships due to a 'get ahead' attitude. People are quick to go impulsively to go after what they want romantically speaking. But this doesn't mean I don't believe in unconditional love, because I'm positive it does exist.

Because a lot of teenagers do not have experience in love, a lot of people reason that they don't know anything about it - but I've taken notice this is happening to people of all ages. There are a lot of divorce rates for instance, and not because he/she is abusive but because it's out of a whim because they chose the wrong person.

Many blame the stress, work, money but I think it's because a lot of people get bored of each other so quickly along with people who just give up on a relationship and lose hope. As I said again, it's expected with teenagers because they want to experience more relationships before they find 'the one' but many adults do this too. I really think the love is usually there, but most people are lazy and sometimes relationships fall apart, and once they do it's probably better off they split.

And this is what happens when I watch Don Bluth movies with my little sisters. I start contemplating love and the universe.

[Redeemer]

There was a famous documentry years ago of a sex line worker who was kniting or having a cup of tea while getting these guys off.

She doesn't mean that. In a week or 2 she will tied up in my attic wearing a blood stained wedding dress.

Lol. And your attic? That sounds more like a basement situation to me.

Wow Hamony, you have respect for girls and learned from the silly girls in school. Good for you. Over here, a pregnant girl is gossiped about for being a slag, but the guys still flock to her because they know she's more than likely easy.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

I've never had romantic feelings for someone, so I probably shouldn't be saying this but I will anyway.

I'm under the notion that we love shallowly, that for a lot of us it's not natural. Most people in Western society want to get into relationships due to a 'get ahead' attitude. People are quick to go impulsively to go after what they want romantically speaking. But this doesn't mean I don't believe in unconditional love, because I'm positive it does exist.

Because a lot of teenagers do not have experience in love, a lot of people reason that they don't know anything about it - but I've taken notice this is happening to people of all ages. There are a lot of divorce rates for instance, and not because he/she is abusive but because it's out of a whim because they chose the wrong person.

Many blame the stress, work, money but I think it's because a lot of people get bored of each other so quickly along with people who just give up on a relationship and lose hope. As I said again, it's expected with teenagers because they want to experience more relationships before they find 'the one' but many adults do this too. I really think the love is usually there, but most people are lazy and sometimes relationships fall apart, and once they do it's probably better off they split.

BRILLIANT!

Wow Hamony, you have respect for girls and learned from the silly girls in school. Good for you. Over here, a pregnant girl is gossiped about for being a slag, but the guys still flock to her because they know she's more than likely easy.

Seconded!

[Sabre]

Lol. And your attic? That sounds more like a basement situation to me.

Wow Hamony, you have respect for girls and learned from the silly girls in school. Good for you. Over here, a pregnant girl is gossiped about for being a slag, but the guys still flock to her because they know she's more than likely easy.

I dont have a basement, and I doubt being under the kitchen table would have the same effect.

I apolagise in advance, but this joke is to good to skip. "I guess that's why you're popular eh Redeemer?" I know it's bad, sorry. I don't mean it of course.

I didn't want to say this, but I have to say Harmonys attitude is bad evolution wise. Technically those tarts are 'successful' at spreading their genes. Doesn't mean I disagree. I also think your answer is over blown. I'm a virgin myself. A simple "I haven't met the right girl yet" or "because I haven't had sex. duh." will usually suffice. That said, because of my looks and personality it's no supirse to anyone. Plus, you're still young. Just wait until you are being asked that at 24.

[Redeemer]

I dont have a basement, and I doubt being under the kitchen table would have the same effect.

I apolagise in advance, but this joke is to good to skip. "I guess that's why you're popular eh Redeemer?" I know it's bad, sorry. I don't mean it of course.

Lolz0r, I should have expected such a joke from you, Sabre.

I'm in Dundee, which has the highest rate of teenage pregnancy in the UK. :?

[Sabre]

Is that because there are more teens?

[Redeemer]

There are plenty teens, as with every city. They're all just stupid here and almost always just want a baby so that the council will give them extra benefits.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

There are plenty teens, as with every city. They're all just stupid here and almost always just want a baby so that the council will give them extra benefits.

Same thing with Cali (that and the "celebrity babies" trend.)

[Sabre]

Same thing with Cali (that and the "celebrity babies" trend.)

What's that trend?

[Guest Julius Quasar]

What's that trend?

Idiot celebrity couples having babies or adopting babies from 3rd world cesspools just to get attention.

Babies are the new celebrity fashion accessory.  In the 1990's Iguanas were popular with celebs in Hollywood, then in the early 2000's "[sh]it girl" Paris Hilton got that disgusting chihuahua of hers, and the chihuahua dogs became the new trend accessory.  Then those morons Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie had their unholy spawn offspring, while that hack Madonna adopted some 3rd world orphan(s), and that started the "celebrity baby trend".

Back OT,

Sex is okay in dating when both people are ready for it, but it will change everything i that relationship, either in a good or a bad way...(so I've heard)