Sapphire Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I'm going to be VERY blunt and direct with my response to this charade. What did I tell you via PM about broadcasting out the whole "cancer treatment" thing?I'm sorry to hear if this is really the case.No, your name is not Kursed. Maybe you can consider yourself "k©ursed" in real life with everything that's been going on but really...since you're talking about RL events I'm very sure you have a different RL name...sorry, but that just sounds silly.In the past you've been given 2nd, 3rd, 4th, umpteenth chances with the staff and we're still sending you PM's and discussing with you concerning certain issues....I'm getting the impression that with that above statement you know people really close to you or local in your area who have committed this horrible crime. There really isn't any need to change your gender online as a result of the actions of an extremely minuscule % of men. I personally take slight offense to these feminist-like comments. That wasn't the only reason for the special attention.What does porn and yiff have anything directly to do with you deceiving the community about your gender for since early 2009? Honestly, no offense Kursed but I'm a bit skeptical (as I'm sure I have the right to me) about most of the statements you've made and how you are telling the truth, this includes attitudes towards Krystal, art, etc. I'd love for you to prove me wrong but trust goes a long way in online communities and you have some catching up to do in that matter. Wow that was a mouth full :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EazyIN Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 D...did Kursed leave? (Notice default avatar,no sig,text,ect.) :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphire Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 D...did Kursed leave? (Notice default avatar,no sig,text,ect.) She's online now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mr. Mario Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 She's online now...He is talking about the signature, avatar, and personal text which all had to do with Kursed from Command and other, he didn't mean leave the site.Sorry Kursed if I had to explain... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EazyIN Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Actually I did, some of the people I've seen quit recently here do that, erase everything and get a default Avi. (Dermot?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mr. Mario Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Hmm...come to think of it, you're right Eazy but it's best I PM you what it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I couldn't care less who you are or what gender you are, Kursed. You have proven to be a good friend to me on these forums, my first actually. Kursed i think i am going to band by the end of the year. from the rate i get warnings but you were my first friend here and probly one of the nicest people i know. there is a seires of books called red wall. they make me so happy they are like ati depresents if you like to read read them they will heal you. as for men rapeing. woman to terribl thing too but there so sly they don't get cought or they don't ever leave a trace. like jeosph stalin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Dermot didn't exactly leave, he went away for a while (from the site) hopefully, he will be back. I assume, kursed needs time as well, and he's welcome anytime. Now that everything is cleared, anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 what.. nothing ever had to be cleared did it. beacause if you lie on your imfomation is that a warning not that i did Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellipzocore Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Phew! Good thing, we wouldn't want Kursed gone would we? Now, I know it has been cleared, but I did something similar to this back on aL, which got me kicked from the Ward permanently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThePointingMan Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Wacky, arround when I joined, I recall someone saying you where a guy. I just thought... I dunno what I thought, I think it just flew right by it(better make sure I read that right before I post this...)Anyways... No worries. does it really matter whether you are a guy or a girl? I don't quuiiiitee get the issue here, I mean I do, but the issue is stupid, I guess the fact that you lied mebbe is the bigger picture, or maybe there is some context I'm missing? Either way, no worries, for EVERYONE makes mistakes, some are just noticed more. btw Girls do... things... also, not just guys, jus sayin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geo Stelar Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 *still shocked at the 'gender' part*Honestly, after I've read your posts?Oh well.And I'm really a guy for those of you who haven't guessed it I just hate being a guy sometimes after hearing about men RAPing girls I JUST HATE IT OKAY!>I understand your reason.But if you ask me, and only if you ask me, you shouldn't hate being a guy. Other guys raping girls doesn't mean that you would be influenced or something like that. I admit, I hate other guys for raping and abusing girls, but I don't hate being one. You shouldn't be affected by them, even if you're of same gender. Being a guy isn't really bad at all.It depends on you on what you really are. Accept that you're a guy, embrace the good things about it, you can hate other guys raping girls but you shouldn't hate being one. You are what you choose to be.All of these, again, only if you ask me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Was...I the only one who knew? ^^;I knew, but Kursed already knows that. I just kept my trap shut for the sake of peace. So all those complaints you made on the grounds that they were offensive because you were a girl... Doesn't that mean you also owe an apology to the people you made the complaints about?And enough with the goddamn rape talk, jesus christ. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asper Sarnoff Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Was...I the only one who knew? ^^;Not really. I think almost all those who had been around for a while knew it. I was convinced that was the case about a year ago, but really didn't want to make a fuss out of it. Didn't bother me simply. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I knew, but Kursed already knows that. I just kept my trap shut for the sake of peace. I somewhat did the same thing.So all those complaints you made on the grounds that they were offensive because you were a girl... Doesn't that mean you also owe an apology to the people you made the complaints about?I'm going to have to second this.And enough with the goddamn rape talk, jesus christ.It's a touchy subject and I agree that it shouldn't be continuously be brought up by the same individuals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evilwaffles Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Since my last post was ignored...With all due respect, why is this such a big deal we need a thread about it. Last I checked everybody lies on the internet at least a little. I can only see one possible reason for it, he was trying to get special attention. I did not see him getting any special attention because of gender, if any one else noticed, please PM a quote/screenshot with a link to me please. I feel this thread created more drama than it aimed to end...If I could get replied to it would put my mind at ease from wondering just what the hell happened here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Since my last post was ignored...With all due respect, why is this such a big deal we need a thread about it. Last I checked everybody lies on the internet at least a little. I can only see one possible reason for it, he was trying to get special attention. I did not see him getting any special attention because of gender, if any one else noticed, please PM a quote/screenshot with a link to me please. I feel this thread created more drama than it aimed to end...If I could get replied to it would put my mind at ease from wondering just what the hell happened here...With all due respect there are a lot of things you aren't aware of that happens behind the scenes at SFO. The gender charade was just but one incident in a long list that stretches WAY back...I'm not obligated to comment on any more of these "incidents" because some of them don't matter anymore because they happened a while ago and the others...well...I'm not going to risk a drama shit storm here - and that suits me just fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Waffles, I don't know what happened, but this is what I think:I mean, really Kursed, you have made drama based on a lie, because you were lying about your gender and complaining about things that would offend a woman. Think of all the people you got into trouble. Don't you at least feel bad?Don't you at least feel bad for lying to everyone? I knew, and you knew I knew. My sister told me. I'm sorry to say she did, I don't want her in trouble, but I've known you were a guy for years. I actually think it's a little creepy that you lied about being a girl, this forum is also for kids. No wonder parents don't want their children on a site like this when we have people LYING about the gender.I think this isn't topic worthy, as it will just give people the attention they so crave, but I believe this is worth a good talking to by the Admin. Kursed, people trusted you and you bitched and bitched for years about how this was offensive because you were a girl, that was offensive because you were a girl. And all the stuff you've tried to start with me. All the fights you've attempted to pick with me, I know why you don't like me. It goes back to when I was told you were a guy. So, again, I ignored your bullshit, but this topic, Kursed... Whether you're telling the truth or not, it doesn't hide the fact that you lied to people. And a guy lying to be a girl it wrong, I don't care what anyone says. Your reasons for lying are unimportant to me, what you did was wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Don't you at least feel bad for lying to everyone? I knew, and you knew I knew. My sister told me. I'm sorry to say she did, I don't want her in trouble, but I've known you were a guy for years. I actually think it's a little creepy that you lied about being a girl, this forum is also for kids. No wonder parents don't want their children on a site like this when we have people LYING about the gender.Not only that but lying about one's gender in their profile settings is a bannable offense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Not only that but lying about one's gender in their profile settings is a bannable offense.Quite. Kursed, you're lucky you have made good friends here, they may be able to make this look a little more... reasonable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evilwaffles Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Thanks Redeemer, you proved to be most informative. That clears up why this is an issue. I still don't think this is thread worthy, defiantly a PM discussion between mods/admins and users affected would be required though. This feels like that whole 'Kryssy' incident again... But whatever, I'm done here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Things with the staff were already cleared, and I guess he needs a break, I'm locking this topic because all the parties have already said something. Kursed, if you need to either say something here or change anything like you username, just pm me and I'll help you.And about his punishment...I suppose this is already enough beat him up, and we are not the devil so, he gets his THIRD chance. Better be grateful for that, buddy :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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