Guest SCoatiH Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Last time I will say this.I did not leave for a petty reason. I left because I have, or had,a very good reason.Such reason was what caused ALL of my lifetime's depressions.I did not know it. But now I do. I told my parents. "I will not reach 30'." Now I know why.I have sexual dysphoria. Before you ask what that is, it is a rarecondition in which the sex is different to the individual's gender.Gender = Mind. Sex = Body.That aside, telling this to some people has alienated them permanently.I do not mind anymore; I have no regretts. The only thing I can say isthat it is a medical condition. You can study about it, read it, even thereare books. Heck, ask any psychologist. Do not come yelling at me.The reason why I left, is because I was depressed. I did not knew why back then:but now I do. Having to live in the wrong sex is painful. To the point one considersdeath to be a viable alternative. And this did not happen only to me; roughtly 50%of transgender people die before reaching 30'. Yet, I comply with all the symptons ofthis condition, and also, have stated my parents "I have no desire to live anymore.I will not reach 30'" once....So now you know. I am not coming back. Sorry. For those of you who shunned me away -I can only blame your ignorance.See ya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarita Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Waitwaitwait, why do you think we'll shun you for this? I'm good friends with someone just like you, who was a man, and wanted to be a woman. She's now one of the most beautiful and strong women I know. That's right, she's a woman now, she had her surgery, and did the hormones, and she's beautiful. Why do you feel like this is such a thing that you should be shunned for? ): If you don't wanna answer here, you can PM me, but just know I support you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thats no reason to leave. Inless your already dead *smacked by the Mods* sorry... :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Waitwaitwait, why do you think we'll shun you for this?Thats no reason to leave. Inless your already dead *smacked by the Mods* sorry... He refuses to believe otherwise. He has in his head that this is the way things have to be because I guess people like him have a 50% suicide rate. I talked about this to him at length and nothing got through, until he decides to shape up and realizes the true scope of his situation (hint: it's smaller than he believes) I don't think anything is getting through to him.Such a shame, he was up until now a pretty cool person. (and before anyone thinks this "truth" changed my mind, I was among the first to know. It's NOT his condition.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 He refuses to believe otherwise. He has in his head that this is the way things have to be because I guess people like him have a 50% suicide rate. I talked about this to him at length and nothing got through, until he decides to shape up and realizes the true scope of his situation (hint: it's smaller than he believes) I don't think anything is getting through to him.Such a shame, he was up until now a pretty cool person. (and before anyone thinks this "truth" changed my mind, I was among the first to know. It's NOT his condition.)he might come around, he does eventualy. Sorta like a bad penny as some chaps say, wot! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid_Cortet Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Good Job bud, I mean, with confessing that, takes a lot of courage. I'm sure you can use that Courage to keep yourself going. Coming out to a bunch of strangers may be slightly easier then your real family, but we here are your family to. We will miss you if you leave permanently, just ignore those who are shunning you, they don't matter in your life in the grand sceam of things. God or whoever you believe has a purpose for everyone to be on this Planet, he did not give you life for nothing, so please, don't take that gift away. You know you are free to message me anytime on YIM or MSN if you ever need a helping hand Such a shame, he was up until now a pretty cool person. (and before anyone thinks this "truth" changed my mind, I was among the first to know. It's NOT his condition.)and what do you mean by that?! How a person feels should not change their status in anyones eyes, He is still cool...and the king of HYPER. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarita Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Well, he deleted his account. Good luck, DRL, with whatever life throws at you. You still have us here to support you if you want us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 and what do you mean by that?! How a person feels should not change their status in anyones eyes, He is still cool...and the king of HYPER.I already said that wasn't the case. I said that he needs to take a step back, breathe, and actually look at his situation for what it is. His condition, I don't care what anyone says, does NOT physically keep him from being happy and successful. His biological gender does NOT make him worthless, his resolve and will does. He needs to work on those first, surgery will -not- make every one of his problems go away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid_Cortet Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I already said that wasn't the case. I said that he needs to take a step back, breathe, and actually look at his situation for what it is. His condition, I don't care what anyone says, does NOT physically keep him from being happy and successful. His biological gender does NOT make him worthless, his resolve and will does. He needs to work on those first, surgery will -not- make every one of his problems go away.his problem...is his parents dude, it is stressing him out how the people around him will react if he comes straight out with it. I was the same way before I came out to my mother. Even if he does take a moment a breath, a moment and breath, yeah, it might help calm him down, but the thought will always remain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thu'um Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 his problem...is his parents dude, it is stressing him out how the people around him will react if he comes straight out with it. I was the same way before I came out to my mother. Even if he does take a moment a breath, a moment and breath, yeah, it might help calm him down, but the thought will always remain.Thats gota be hard, I can barly talk to my dad about anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 his problem...is his parents dude, it is stressing him out how the people around him will react if he comes straight out with it. I was the same way before I came out to my mother. Even if he does take a moment a breath, a moment and breath, yeah, it might help calm him down, but the thought will always remain.We're all furries here, and a good deal of furries are gay. This is hardly a unique, serious problem, and even so, he told me that he DID tell his parents, and that his problem is just sadness that he is a male. He said that if he can't change, he wants to die. Where does his parents fit in here again?I'll repeat that I've known DRL a while and was one of the first to learn everything. I've known all this for months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarita Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Come on Milky, this isn't really the place. The remedy for this is support and love, not questioning and giving him a hard time. Trust me on this.From now on, direct all such conversation to PMs, this topic is locked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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