Sabre Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Question. At what point does romance go from cute to annoiying?My opinion on the subject is well known, but to sum it up for those who don't know pointless tradition, unrealistic fantasy crap and being obnoxious in public (the focus of this thread) are things I dispise mostly for being stupid, while the few romantic ideals that don't fall under that umberlla are good, romance is dying a slow death assuming it's not dead already, and has been replaced with lust and fasion. Having a BF/GF these days seems less about love and more about showing off your prize catch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nova Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 at what point does it go from annoying to fappable? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Star Fox Runner Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Question. At what point does romance go from cute to annoiying?My opinion on the subject is well known, but to sum it up for those who don't know pointless tradition, unrealistic fantasy crap and being obnoxious in public (the focus of this thread) are things I dispise mostly for being stupid, while the few romantic ideals that don't fall under that umberlla are good, romance is dying a slow death assuming it's not dead already, and has been replaced with lust and fasion. Having a BF/GF these days seems less about love and more about showing off your prize catch.Sadly I have to agree with this.It seems like most of the relationships I see in public aren't so much that the two love each other, but more like they're hanging a sign around their neck saying. "Look who I managed to get in bed with!"It seems like people, (particularly teenagers) see a girlfriend or boyfriend as more of a prize or trophy that they must have instead of looking for a loving relationship. The stereotype that single people are pathetic losers only help to further this attitude, as a person doesn't want to be viewed in that light.at what point does it go from annoying to fappable? Really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myu Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 To (try, I guess) and be fair, teenagers most likely don't care. At that point in their lives they aren't really looking for THE ONE so of course most teens might want a bf/gf as more of an accessory than anything else. In highschool who's hot and who's not is probably on most people's minds. If a girl or guy is popular, of course they're going to be paraded around so EVERYONE knows.On PDAs, I have to agree. There aren't very many people who seem to understand that when you're in public, no one really wants to see you and your girl/guy sucking face - especially when it's in a restaurant or a theatre. The other day I was riding a bus home and there was this couple behind me just going at it. They may as well have had sex right there because everyone knew it was going to happen the second they got home. Not to mention, the sounds of other people making out are kind of disturbing lol. So my point is, it's cute when the couple like, I don't know, pecks or cuddles or something and then stops, but gets annoying when it just escalates from there.Romance isn't totally dead yet, though it's definitely well on its way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tzunami Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Question. At what point does romance go from cute to annoiying?My opinion on the subject is well known, but to sum it up for those who don't know pointless tradition, unrealistic fantasy crap and being obnoxious in public (the focus of this thread) are things I dispise mostly for being stupid, while the few romantic ideals that don't fall under that umberlla are good, romance is dying a slow death assuming it's not dead already, and has been replaced with lust and fasion. Having a BF/GF these days seems less about love and more about showing off your prize catch.Sadly I have to agree with this.It seems like most of the relationships I see in public aren't so much that the two love each other, but more like they're hanging a sign around their neck saying. "Look who I managed to get in bed with!"It seems like people, (particularly teenagers) see a girlfriend or boyfriend as more of a prize or trophy that they must have instead of looking for a loving relationship. The stereotype that single people are pathetic losers only help to further this attitude, as a person doesn't want to be viewed in that light./fully signed.I am in this specific group of people, which have to deal with this "romance"-thing very day. And it doesn't has the range from "cute" to "annoying" anymore. MY feelings change rapidly to a range from "anger" to "pure hatred", if I see some couples. Like you both said before, humans don't care about love anymore. When people start a relationship together their mood and view of the world rapidly change into a positive one, which pisses me a bit off. They actually know that there ARE negative aspects they should know about, but they deny anything. (Had the same problem with a friend of mine not so long ago. Thankfully he quit the relationship in the holidays and is back to normal again.)Maybe I am too pessimistic, but I really can't comprehend the "happiness" of those people.The stereotype that single people are pathetic losers only help to further this attitude, as a person doesn't want to be viewed in that light.This. And trust me, I HATE this aspect of society. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milkyway64 Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Everything in moderation. There is no rule saying you can't be affectionate in public, that's almost the entire definition of a date. However, there is a line that, once stepped over, makes people want to slap you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Question. At what point does romance go from cute to annoiying?My opinion on the subject is well known, but to sum it up for those who don't know pointless tradition, unrealistic fantasy crap and being obnoxious in public (the focus of this thread) are things I dispise mostly for being stupid, while the few romantic ideals that don't fall under that umberlla are good, romance is dying a slow death assuming it's not dead already, and has been replaced with lust and fasion. Having a BF/GF these days seems less about love and more about showing off your prize catch.While I wouldn't say romance is dead I do agree with you mostly. Most younger couples these days seem to just be in a relationship for egotistical purposes. at what point does it go from annoying to fappable?It doesn't, because that stuff belongs in the bedroom. Sadly I have to agree with this.It seems like most of the relationships I see in public aren't so much that the two love each other, but more like they're hanging a sign around their neck saying. "Look who I managed to get in bed with!"It seems like people, (particularly teenagers) see a girlfriend or boyfriend as more of a prize or trophy that they must have instead of looking for a loving relationship. The stereotype that single people are pathetic losers only help to further this attitude, as a person doesn't want to be viewed in that light.Most young couples in relationships aren't...really in love in the first place. It's called infatuation and as such most of these "relationships" don't last that long. When people get older they mature and it's easier for them to be more "normal" about a relationship as they know there is more to being a mate than just straight up affectionate or sex.To (try, I guess) and be fair, teenagers most likely don't care. At that point in their lives they aren't really looking for THE ONE so of course most teens might want a bf/gf as more of an accessory than anything else. In highschool who's hot and who's not is probably on most people's minds. If a girl or guy is popular, of course they're going to be paraded around so EVERYONE knows.I completely agree with this.On PDAs, I have to agree. There aren't very many people who seem to understand that when you're in public, no one really wants to see you and your girl/guy sucking face - especially when it's in a restaurant or a theatre. The other day I was riding a bus home and there was this couple behind me just going at it. They may as well have had sex right there because everyone knew it was going to happen the second they got home. Not to mention, the sounds of other people making out are kind of disturbing lol. So my point is, it's cute when the couple like, I don't know, pecks or cuddles or something and then stops, but gets annoying when it just escalates from there.I've seen this a lot at Laser Quest locations where I used to go and hang out at on Friday and Saturday nights. Pretty....unwarranted - although if they make out in the arena itself while a game is in progress than it's an epic win. Everything in moderation. There is no rule saying you can't be affectionate in public, that's almost the entire definition of a date. However, there is a line that, once stepped over, makes people want to slap you.And that line is dependent on many things. There is for sure no definite standard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted January 13, 2011 Author Share Posted January 13, 2011 at what point does it go from annoying to fappable?When they buy a webcam.The stereotype that single people are pathetic losers only help to further this attitude, as a person doesn't want to be viewed in that light.This is a real catch 22 for guys which is why some single guys pretent to have GFs. If you have no gf you are a sad loser, no one wants to date a sad loser so he can't get a gf.Not to mention, the sounds of other people making out are kind of disturbing lol. Yep, the human body is sick and disgusting at the best of times, you add groping and spit swapping it becomes worse. Although even hand holding can be irritating. On it's own it's fine, but they always part and nearly clothsline me. Also they keep doing it at stations, busstops, anywhere you have to wait. Ever seen them stop in a bus or train door to kiss? I really want to punch them when they do that.MY feelings change rapidly to a range from "anger" to "pure hatred", if I see some couples.I don't know who you are but I like you.When people start a relationship together their mood and view of the world rapidly change into a positive one, which pisses me a bit off. They actually know that there ARE negative aspects they should know about, but they deny anything.I agree but there are 2 seperate things happening here.1- Not having a gf makes you extra sad, and having one makes you happy. The reason for this is so that you keep seeking them out. Unfortunatly people don't know how to handle it and makes them do stupid things. This is where the term blind love comes from.2- Imo, the denile is something more to do with social obligation, and comes under stupid tradition. You are expected to have/do X Y and Z to be a 'real' couple, and will fake it to the point of self delusion to maintain the status quo.I've seen this a lot at Laser Quest locations where I used to go and hang out at on Friday and Saturday nights. Pretty....unwarranted - although if they make out in the arena itself while a game is in progress than it's an epic win. Only win if they make out and still get MVP. It becomes epic win if they are on opposate teams. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vulvokunvrii Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 it probably gets annying around the time where the giril or boyfriend start to show you off to others, behave obnoxiousl in public, manipulating you, sweet talking/persuading you to do or go places you do not wish to go or do. im surethere is more but im sure you know more about romance than me ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballisticwaffles Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 AS they are displaying affection is is neither my right nor my position to complain. OfficiallyPersonally i wish they would get a room and leave others to the sounds of silence, not the sounds of DRY HUMPING IN THE KITCHEN GODDAMNIT.... excuse me. I ment in public, not the kitchen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robert Monroe Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 Sure is a whole lot of mad in here.As long as people aren't dry-fucking in public I honestly could care less. I have other things to worry about than god forbid someone kissing someone they love or holding hands.Also this boohoo whiny "love is dead" is a crock of shit. Love is either still alive, or was always dead to begin with. History is a sad sad tale of arranged marriages, political murders for lust, prostitution and whatever the hell else. Stories of chivalry and romantic love were all just that: stories, and there is a reason why they're so popular: because they're happier than real life. Or rather, real life has always been happy, but noone wants their own happiness, they want somebody else's.And I'm sorry, but I must address this here:When people start a relationship together their mood and view of the world rapidly change into a positive one, which pisses me a bit off. They actually know that there ARE negative aspects they should know about, but they deny anything. (Had the same problem with a friend of mine not so long ago. Thankfully he quit the relationship in the holidays and is back to normal again.)Maybe I am too pessimistic, but I really can't comprehend the "happiness" of those people.Yeah, you're being a tad too pessimistic there son. I especially got a laugh at how people being happy pisses you off. While it is a bad thing when people get naive and delusions of perfect living (if I get married all my problems will go away!), um, yeah, usually they -do- become more optimistic when in love because, well, yeah, they're happy and in love. Its rather normal. Your inability to comprehend the happiness of those in love sounds to me a lot like you have relationship issues of your own.Really, this entire topic is not so much objective discussion of the reasonable boundaries of public affection and mostly just a -looooot- of butthurt. Edit: On the note of teenagers and love, um, yeah. Guys? They're teenagers. Teenagers are stupid. They can't do anything right, think they know the world better than anyone, and have the foresight capability of a deaf bat. Of course very little of them aren't gonna muddle up romance, thats what teenagers do. Most happy couples are often the older ones, because they're experienced and they know better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballisticwaffles Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 not only do i take offense to that last paragraph, being a teenager myself, but i also agree compleatly with you.And he is right. The deadliest force in all of history has been love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robert Monroe Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 not only do i take offense to that last paragraph, being a teenager myself, but i also agree compleatly with you.And he is right. The deadliest force in all of history has been love.Don't take offense. I was a dumbfuck teenager too. So was everyone else you know, or otherwise they will be, with little exception.And love isn't the deadliest force. Stupidity is. Love doesn't make people do anything. Their actions based on irrationality and desire does. Love, like anything else, can be handled sensibly or foolishly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballisticwaffles Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 Don't take offense. I was a dumbfuck teenager too. So was everyone else you know, or otherwise they will be, with little exception.And love isn't the deadliest force. Stupidity is. Love doesn't make people do anything. Their actions based on irrationality and desire does. Love, like anything else, can be handled sensibly or foolishly.I would count Stupidity as an Atribute, not a driving force. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vulvokunvrii Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 well stupidity is a choice, is it not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballisticwaffles Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 well stupidity is a choice, is it not?if stupidity was a chioce, no one would be stupid. or they might, i dunno, thats food for thoguht... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vulvokunvrii Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 if stupidity was a chioce, no one would be stupid. or they might, i dunno, thats food for thoguht...well some peopel decide to be stupid or do stupid things and know that it is stupid and dont care. some i guess...do it like an instinct..? Like they dont know its wrong because no one has disciplined or tought them that whatever it was that is considered stupid is wrong. Im just saying that; i could be wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted January 14, 2011 Author Share Posted January 14, 2011 well some peopel decide to be stupid or do stupid things and know that it is stupid and dont care. some i guess...do it like an instinct..? Like they dont know its wrong because no one has disciplined or tought them that whatever it was that is considered stupid is wrong. Im just saying that; i could be wrong.Yes, alot of people are willing stupid or deluded. Usually to maintain the status quo or because being smart isn't 'cool'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballisticwaffles Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 but to be back on topic , if I was the one having a PDA i would not care what other people think and continue to do it so. im an ass liek that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vulvokunvrii Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 Yes, alot of people are willing stupid or deluded. Usually to maintain the status quo or because being smart isn't 'cool'.yeah..like that one group of radicals who killed off alot of smart people becasue they hated people smarter than them...wasnt that in Asia somewhere? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fureox Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 because being smart isn't 'cool'.This always cracks me up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robert Monroe Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 Stupidity may not be a driving force, but a driving force is just that and nothing more. The means of which terrible things happen is because of foolishness and ignorance, and can happen regardless of the driving force. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted January 14, 2011 Author Share Posted January 14, 2011 yeah..like that one group of radicals who killed off alot of smart people becasue they hated people smarter than them...wasnt that in Asia somewhere?Either you Pol Pot or some guy from fudal china. One myth I'd love to be true is the idea pol pot decided if you were intellectual or not was by if you wore glasses. "If they were so smart they would take them off when they saw him coming." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vulvokunvrii Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 yeah, i think i was thinking of the Pol Pot; they were messed up people 0_o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballisticwaffles Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 im almost quite posative he was talking About ROFLMAOZEDONG! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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