Dante Spectrum Posted August 22, 2011 Share Posted August 22, 2011 I'm feeling very bored, very lonely, want to talk things have been tough over the last few days for me. What is everyone doing on SFO, been away for a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vulvokunvrii Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Whats wrong man? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I'm feeling very bored, very lonely, want to talk things have been tough over the last few days for me. What is everyone doing on SFO, been away for a while. Well, there's the love life thread for stuff like this. You'll get used to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chaos_Leader Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 It happens. Just endure. you'll come across a way out soon enough, and when that happens, you jump on that chance and you ride it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I disagree. It never 'just happens' unless you count having money and fasionably good looks as 'just happening'. Over time he will become more bitter and angry, spend his morning thinking of self medication and his nights thinking of suicide. That is of course, if he means it, he is 16 so chances are he is being emo over nothing, in which case he deserves scorn, not sympathy and advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
"User" Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 We don't even know if his being lonely has anything to do with love though, it could just be a lack of friends or being social. We shouldn't jump to any conclusions yet. Dante Spectrum, we all get lonely at some time or another but the more information on your case you give us the more we can try to help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabre Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 If that's the case, I don't get what the problem is. For those of you who are teenage/pre teen. After school/college, your circle of friends will not be around any more. I don't care how 'tight' your 'posie/crew' is, once learning is done, they will all move on, get their own lives, careers, ect. Given 16 is the age you leave school, I'd imagine this is the case. Although, I'm cooler than most about having no/few friends and recently tried to track some down, the only one who hung around only wanted me for PC repairs. My brother who is into cars, same thing. My current friends (though I've not seen them for some time) all tell similar stories, so this is a normal thing. Beyond that, I can't really add much. Some people get stir crazy after a few days without social contact, for me, such a process can take weeks, or months. One reason I'm often up nights is because I WANT to avoid social contact. I can get stuff done without distraction and I don't have to engauge with stupid people. I could say "Get a hobby!" but I doubt that would help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrilwood Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 ^ Most people leave at 18, although I don't know how the educational system works in USA. I've gotten so used to isolation that I actively avoid people, when they try to talk to me I either excuse myself to a very important, albeit non-existent, task or just pretend not to notice them. In fact, come to think of it, I've never really had friends. Years 1-6 (Primary School) got bullied all the time. Years 7-10 (Secondary School) Didn't get bullied, but that's because I beat anyone who tried to a pulp. Year 11 (VCE) Did have a group of friends, but I still felt like an outcast, they were into porn and sick-twisted movies. Year 12 (Still VCE) Found a different friend group, but I still didn't belong. (I think the only reason it was easier to find friends in VCE is because everyone there was smart, as opposed to being mixed in with the scum of the earth who will never achieve anything in life and will simply leach off society) From then on I came to the conclusion that it was better to avoid human contact at all costs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redeemer Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 This topic. Dante, some advice. If you want to make a topic like this, I advise making a journal topic in the Journal Zone: http://starfox-onlin...e-journal-zone/ Please vent your feelings there, as we have a strict "no drama" policy. Locking this topic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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